cutieh Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 So this guy that my friend introduced me to. She asked me if he could come over to my house to use my computer. So he came over and we were talking for about a good hour. Then the phone rings and it is my friend and she says that for the guy to come get this converter box to give to me and that she fixed him some chicken. So he came back over to my place with the chicken in his hand and asked me if I"m going to know how to put it together. I said yeah, because of how he asked me. He asked like as if he didnt want to stay any longer at my place. So he left. I had a feeling that he was going to go back up to my friends apartment. When I called her to tell her that the converter box did not have a plug. She said I will send him back over to give you the plug. He went back over there and it is 9pm at night and I dont understand why he went back over there. I think he likes her cause she cooked for him. I am hurt. Why or am I overeacting.
Johnny M Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 I think he likes her cause she cooked for him. I am hurt. Why or am I overeacting. He likes her because he finds her sexually attractive. It has nothing to do with cooking I can assure you.
crazy_grl Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 He likes her because he finds her sexually attractive. It has nothing to do with cooking I can assure you. Ditto. Yes, you're over reacting. You just met the guy. I think you're jealous of your friend. Are you usually jealous of her?
Author cutieh Posted November 11, 2009 Author Posted November 11, 2009 No It just makes me wonder why is he over there that late. When she is trying to hook us up. She introduced us. She has a boyfriend. He shouldn't be over there that late and if were going to start talking I would not like that. I don't think she would want her boyfriend over to my place late at night without her over. I think she is using me as a cover up to make it seem like she is trying to hook us up, but in reality there creeping on the side. And it is not fare to me to if we start to date and I start to have feelings for him. I"m protecting my heart.
Kamille Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Word of advice: don't date that guy! He has done nothing to deserve your interest or respect. Now say it with me: Next!
Johnny M Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 No It just makes me wonder why is he over there that late. When she is trying to hook us up. She introduced us. She has a boyfriend. He shouldn't be over there that late and if were going to start talking I would not like that. I don't think she would want her boyfriend over to my place late at night without her over. I think she is using me as a cover up to make it seem like she is trying to hook us up, but in reality there creeping on the side. And it is not fare to me to if we start to date and I start to have feelings for him. I"m protecting my heart. I think you are missing the obvious. The guy is not interested in you. There's no need to protect your heart.
Malenfant Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 No It just makes me wonder why is he over there that late. When she is trying to hook us up. She introduced us. She has a boyfriend. He shouldn't be over there that late and if were going to start talking I would not like that. I don't think she would want her boyfriend over to my place late at night without her over. I think she is using me as a cover up to make it seem like she is trying to hook us up, but in reality there creeping on the side. And it is not fare to me to if we start to date and I start to have feelings for him. I"m protecting my heart. well, obviously you're not going to start dating now are you? so no need to protect yourself. Move on, you dont even know him.
crazy_grl Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 Forget about him. He's either not interested or completely socially inept. Your friend may or may not like him. If she tried to set him up with you, she probably doesn't. Just because he's going to her house late doesn't mean she has any interest in him beyond friendship. I've met some pretty inept guys who hang around way later than they should when they're into a girl and she's not into them. Not any of your business though since you're not her boyfriend.
Kamille Posted November 11, 2009 Posted November 11, 2009 And it is not fare to me to if we start to date and I start to have feelings for him. I think the problem is that for some strange reason you already had feelings for him. Just remind yourself that you don't know him. So really, whatever you're feeling for him is nothing but a harmless crush. Not every crush blooms into full romance. Sometimes they're just fun to have for no other reason then having a crush. Or two. Or three.
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