Kristy19 Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I've been or was talking to a guy in the navy. Everything was fine until he wanted to visit me but I had a wedding to go to out of state. Well a few days later he texted me and asked how could our relationship possibly work if I'm always busy? September is busy for me and I told before all this happened. Its just that I had a wedding that I was in and this wedding had been planned for the past 6 months or so. I couldn't back out just because he wanted to hang out. The last time we talked he told me he's been busy at work and stuff which I totally understand but I was only calling to let him know that I had a few weekends next month to see him. I never did get around to that because his attitude completely threw me off. Since that night we haven't talked. I want to call him just to ask him where this attitude was coming from but I'm not sure if I should. So should I just let him go for now and wait til he calls or should I just let him go completely?
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 21, 2009 Posted September 21, 2009 I say cut the jerk loose. And that IS jerky. Are you kidding me? I can't imagine blowing off a friend's wedding for some guy I've been dating. (How long have you been dating/talking?) I'm not even IN the wedding I'm attending next month and I know for SURE I wouldn't blow the thing off for the guy I'm dating. What kind of friend does that??? No - do NOT contact him. He was being an ass-hat. If he thinks he's right, let him be... in silence.
Author Kristy19 Posted September 22, 2009 Author Posted September 22, 2009 We were only talking for a month or so. So what if he calls should I pick up or should I reject his call?
BobSacamento Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 I would accept the call. Perhaps he saw the error of his ways.
ashleigh422 Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 DEFINATELY blow that jerk off.. one month? He is way to needy and expects too much from you too quickly. You will not be happy if you blow off your freinds for this dude.. he is sooo not worthy.. If he calls.. Id listen but not say much.. not worth my breath
aerogurl87 Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 Well in the words of the semi famous rapper Trina, I'd let him call and say these words "ok, uh huh, what's up, shut up" and then hang up.
SoulSearch_CO Posted September 22, 2009 Posted September 22, 2009 I'd consider taking the call just to see if he's apologetic at all. Possibly it was stress talking at that particular moment. I find it hard to judge somebody based on ONE particular moment. I've said things I regretted later because I was stressed. But if he calls and he keeps up with the 'tude, I'd tell him this isn't working for me, but thanks for the time spent getting to know each other. If he is unapologetic and it was a sincere comment, then he's ALREADY being needy and you guys have only been talking a month - that's scary. I'd see what he has to say and go from there.
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