BTLC23 Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 Hi, this is my first time on here ill try and keep it concise. im 19 shes 23 SORRY FOR THE STORY PLEASE READ THOUGH I have been going out with this girl for almost 3 years we met at our job and worked there together we moved in together in my moms house and after being there for a year and half she went back home to go to another school. We would see each other every weekend fri-sun. A few months after i broke up with her because i felt to much pressure with this relationship. After about two months i went back to her and it was great for months. Her and I started using marijuana frequently. Over the last six months i have become insecure and needy i believe because marijuana brings out your insecurities. I feel that she lost her attraction to me afer she stopped smoking because she saw what i became. I would constantly tell her she wasnt the only one for me and shes the only person i have. One day after i was drunk when she came and saw me the next day she was acting weird and wanted to leave my house. After this she started asking for space and acting differently towards me, she limited our time together. Unfortunatelty three weeks after this happened she saw photos of me on facebook hanging out with other girls with my friend. It was an innocent gathering but she lost her trust in me because we had set boundries and i wouldnt want her hanging out with other guys. She didnt want to talk to me on the and said we were broken up. I actually went in closer because i was afraid of losing her, she refused to talk to me on the phone and i havent since but we talked every day throught text almost normally. Sometimes I would smoke and call her up crying and that added to pushing her away. About 3 weeks after the intial breakup she told me she just doesnt see us gettn back together and she doesnt have the same feelings anymore. I begged and pleaded like an idiot which was another mistake. The next day i had a sudden realization of what i did wrong and wanted her back. She contacted me every day for three days after the breakup. I reopened my facebook account and she asked me if i opened it up to stalk her, next day she texted me about video game and the next day WAS KILLER she texted me "bored at the car show" with a pic of the surroundign water. Her and I attended the car show last year together. I emailed her a couple days later apologizing for making her feel guilty for breaking up with me, telling her what i did wrong, and apologzing for asking her to forgive for the photos on my own accord. I have stopped contacting her its been a couple days i check her facebook every once in a while I really love her but ......... everyone tells me space and time
Author BTLC23 Posted July 27, 2009 Author Posted July 27, 2009 I saw this has a lotta views I would really love to get some feedback thank you
Thomas X Forever Posted July 27, 2009 Posted July 27, 2009 It's difficult to reply to this topic because you've really outlined everything already and you aren't really asking any question. You pretty much stated everything, and even what your friends already told you to do. What can you do? You've tried to get back together with her. You've put yourself out on the line and it got nowhere. So what choice do you have except space and time? P.S. STOP looking at her facebook. That masochistic behavior is hurting YOU. P.S.S. STOP smoking marijuana.
Author BTLC23 Posted July 27, 2009 Author Posted July 27, 2009 That is true i have stopped smoking marijuana. I am mad that we broke up throught text and didnt talk in person. Does everyone agree space is the only thing?
Author BTLC23 Posted July 28, 2009 Author Posted July 28, 2009 today is her birthday should i just send her a text later tonight?
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