mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 So annoying. I guess it a little bit of insecurity but I hate seeing guys that are my GF's type and guys that I know my GF would find attractive. That **** pisses me off lol. I laugh cause, I was never like this when I was single, I was never a petty, insecure, hatin ass dude. I was laid back as ****, real calm and collected, and people loved that about me. Now I feel like throwin bows when I see a guy I know my GF would find hot. And the worst part is, it makes me annoyed with my GF lmao. Like, I'll get on the phone with her after, and just be stank with her, for finding guys attractive, even the ones she's never seen before lmao, what the hell kind of **** is that? If there's one thing having a GF has made me its ****ing insane rofl. I'm not ugly, in fact, I'm a great looking guy, but it pisses me off to no end that my chick will find other guys attractive, and even more so than me. Its like, why even have a GF? Why even tell that broad you love her when she's gonna find other guys attractive like that? It makes you feel less special inside, well me anyways, and passively I distance myself from my GF, as kind of a silent "**** you for finding other guys attractive". Makes me dislike her a little bit more. Isn't that absurd? She hasn't even seen these guys and I'm already pissed off at the guy and at her. The **** you gotta deal with when you're committed. I expect its way worse for females because guys, man, we find just about everything hot. At least females have "types". But I guess the blow can be bigger to you if you're used to being one of the few that your partner actually finds attractive, and then another comes along that they also find attractive. 70% of the chicks I see I find attractive, okay, more like 50%. And my GF knows it, and she couldn't give two ****s. Boy I wish I had that trait. I almost lose my lid when she find another guy attractive. Aint that about as double standard as it gets? I'm pretty young, 20 years old, and meh...I figure I'll get over it with time and experience. But for now, I really feel like sneaking duke right in the chin just for being good looking. I'm crazy.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Yes you are crazy. And your gf still loves you. Isn't that enough?
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Yes you are crazy. And your gf still loves you. Isn't that enough? Lmao you'd think right?! I wanna be the one and ****ing only! Literally I am, but ****, it makes me feel like a lame when she find other guys attractive? Like, why the **** you with me then? And why the **** am I with you?! I'm trippin cause, out of like 50 guys she'll find maybe 2 attractive. She's really picky. But it drives me up the wall when she does. I just have this attitude like "if you're gonna find other guys attractive, then why stay with me when you can have all the cute guys you want?" Call it defeatist if you will. Its like "Iight! *whistle* I throw in the towel, I'm not good looking enough for this broad's needs". Lmao, this **** is bonkers. I don't really know what goes through a female's mind when she sees an attractive guy. But as a guy, let me tell you, when I see an attractive female?! I'm thinkin clothes off, ass up, straight smashin! Hopefully you lovely young ladies don't think like that.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Lmao you'd think right?! I wanna be the one and ****ing only! Literally I am, but ****, it makes me feel like a lame when she find other guys attractive? Like, why the **** you with me then? And why the **** am I with you?! I'm trippin cause, out of like 50 guys she'll find maybe 2 attractive. She's really picky. But it drives me up the wall when she does. I just have this attitude like "if you're gonna find other guys attractive, then why stay with me when you can have all the cute guys you want?" Call it defeatist if you will. Its like "Iight! *whistle* I throw in the towel, I'm not good looking enough for this broad's needs". Lmao, this **** is bonkers. :eek::eek: If you continue thinking this way, you'll end up ruining your own relationship. Ever wonder if she gets jealous when you talk about other girls being hot? I'm sure she does. Life is full of temptations. Just as long as you don't act on them, you'll be fine. Oh and one thing, picky women are keepers. She picked you didn't she?
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I don't really know what goes through a female's mind when she sees an attractive guy. But as a guy, let me tell you, when I see an attractive female?! I'm thinkin clothes off, ass up, straight smashin! Hopefully you lovely young ladies don't think like that. Only when intoxicated...
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Yeah she gets absurdly jealous. I mean like, if a chick even gives me the eye, she's all over my ass about "Why was she looking at you like that?!" and all of that good stuff. Yeah, she's ultra picky. I guess that should make me feel special. I used to be so damn confident, swag was dripping off my balls when I walked. Gettin wifed up killed all of that.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Yeah she gets absurdly jealous. I mean like, if a chick even gives me the eye, she's all over my ass about "Why was she looking at you like that?!" and all of that good stuff. Yeah, she's ultra picky. I guess that should make me feel special. I used to be so damn confident, swag was dripping off my balls when I walked. Gettin wifed up killed all of that. :lmao: Oh why why why!! do guys think us girls trap you into relationships? Weren't you the one who asked for exclusivity?
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 :lmao: Oh why why why!! do guys think us girls trap you into relationships? Weren't you the one who asked for exclusivity? Lmao hell no. She wanted exclusivity first. I didn't care. She was such a good catch. I lost my confidence because my feelings got deeper for her.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Lmao hell no. She wanted exclusivity first. I didn't care. She was such a good catch. I lost my confidence because my feelings got deeper for her. Hahaha she sounds fiery and a little intimidating.
Shock Me Sane Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 I don't really know what goes through a female's mind when she sees an attractive guy. But as a guy, let me tell you, when I see an attractive female?! I'm thinkin clothes off, ass up, straight smashin! Hopefully you lovely young ladies don't think like that. Only when intoxicated... Hahahaha... exactly.
JerseyShortie Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Don't worry Mr. Dream, I bet your girlfriend is attracted to men that aren't her type too.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Hahaha she sounds fiery and a little intimidating. Yeah she can be lol but I calm that **** down.
carhill Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Males are my wife's type. Next question BTW, when you get older, you'll find it's quite OK for your mate to find other males attractive. It means she's normal. I would worry if she didn't.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Yeah, I know all of that Carhill. I just don't like it. I figured when I get older, I'll probably care less for my SO and wouldn't think twice if she even got wet off of looking at some guy. That's usually how it goes for older guys, or so it seems, they're so used to and desensitized to their wife that they couldn't give a **** if they tried.
JerseyShortie Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 It's okay for you to do it but it's not okay for your girlfriend to. That's the general message in alot of your posts Mr. Dream. It's okay for you to go to a strip club but how dare you girlfriend even work, for the love of God, in an environment with other men. Oh Nos! She might run away with one of them.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 It's okay for you to do it but it's not okay for your girlfriend to. That's the general message in alot of your posts Mr. Dream. It's okay for you to go to a strip club but how dare you girlfriend even work, for the love of God, in an environment with other men. Oh Nos! She might run away with one of them. Yeah pretty much lmao.
JerseyShortie Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 You're a very insecure person Mr. Dream. Hiding behind tough talk and a big ego, doesn't really hide anything at all. And the fact that you agreed with me makes me think that you don't really care about doing right by your girlfriend or treating her right as making sure you are the one with the power in the relationship. That really sucks for her and for you.
carhill Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 That's usually how it goes for older guys, or so it seems, they're so used to and desensitized to their wife that they couldn't give a **** if they tried. Yeah, that and BPH
headlesschicken Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Yeah she can be lol but I calm that **** down. just the fact that you keep reiterating this point to us in a million different manifestations in as many threads tells me that you don't calm that **** down at all. much the opposite, you cower in the face of that **** and make it much much worse. psst, your insecurity is showing, bigtime.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted June 2, 2009 Author Posted June 2, 2009 Yeah, that and BPH What's BPH?
kizik Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Mr. Dream Merchant, I really, really hope you're black, because otherwise you are perhaps the biggest internet wigga in history.
SoulSearch_CO Posted June 2, 2009 Posted June 2, 2009 Yeah, when I see an attractive guy, I do not think like you do about attractive girls. LOL I don't even imagine him totally naked. At the most, it's MAYBE shirtless.
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