CGrace44 Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 My relationship just became long distance. I am keeping in contact with my SO by phone and online. Besides asking about each others day we don't have that much to talk about, although i love hearing his voice and even online I love seeing what he'll say next. We started out as friends and during winter break we talked online, asking interesting, fun, and even personal questions to get to know each other better. We started hanging out as friends when we got back to school, and started dating with about 2 months left to school. I'm running out of questions. I want to keep things fun and interesting while were apart now, like the exhilarating conversations we had as almost strangers during winter break. We we ask stuff like "tell me something i dont know about you" or "what is your favorite sex position?" or "what was your favorite tv show as a kid?" Anyone have any other suggestions of interesting questions?
Island Girl Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 I can't give you suggestions for interesting questions. My husband and I have always just talked. We end up talking about anything and everything. And to tell you the truth I am so happy to hear him he could read me the phone book and I'd listen! LOL Maybe instead of keeping the pressure on to explore new and different things you could get out and do new things and talk about them - and just have normal conversations like you would with any good friend. Good luck to you.
BlueEyedGirl Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Just talk about what you did that day or on the weekend. Talk about what worries you, what makes you happy etc. Talk about work or school problems, family, friends...
Mountainlove Posted May 18, 2009 Posted May 18, 2009 Hello, a good website to give you some ideas is this one.. http://www.lovingfromadistance.com/thingsforldrcouplestodo.html I found a lot of fun hings to talk about and do while your apart. For questions have a look here: http://www.romancestuck.com/questions-for-couples.htm
princess4ever Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 great links. i have the same problem so thanks for posting them.
dunstable Posted May 22, 2009 Posted May 22, 2009 I've been in a LDR for 8 years. We speak on the phone twice a day. We get to see each other for about a week every couple of months. In our phone calls, we ask how the other is and about their day. We talk about our work, our gardens, our respective children, my cat, our social activities, what we enjoyed on TV.... As we are in different countries, we also compare notes on the weather, what's happening in politics, the economy, and what's in the news. We talk about our plans for our next meeting especially as the time for it gets closer. We tell each other how much we love each other and how much we miss each other. It's never a problem to find stuff to talk about. A thought - if you have not enough to say to fill a phone conversation, could you cope with being together all the time?
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