nemo007 Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Okay here it goes. I was with someone for a year on and off. We had some issues and broke up a few times but got back together. When we both where on the same page I was the happiest I have ever been in my life. We would fight and I couldn't take in anymore so we finally broke up again. This last time though she called me the next day and told me she was pregnant. I didnt want her to have it but she was determined to. We would text each other every so often about the baby and just what I thought was being friends even though I still had feelings for her. She texted me one day and went off on me about a Facebook account I have had before we got together that she didnt know about. She accused me of sleeping with people on my friends list. I got very upset and told her to leave me alone. SO a few weeks go by and I text her asking about the baby and how things are going. She replied with very short yes or no answers. I asked her why but she didnt respond and she told me outside of the baby we had nothing to talk about. Now I try to text her and she gets really upset and today she told me to not text her unless its about the baby. Mind you we both loved each other dearly and it wasnt that bad of a relationship I just pushed her away. I realize this now. I also realize that I love her more than anything in my life and I want to be there for her and the baby not just for the pregnancy but forever(we planned on getting married). She told me she was "talking" to someone but I am about 95% sure she isnt but i think she is taking a "I dont need you" approach. I know she still loves me and I definately love her but what on earth can I do??? I am so lost without her!!!!!
vessv6l Posted April 20, 2009 Posted April 20, 2009 Have you told her how you feel about her? I would go and see her and tell her everything and that if she doesnt see a relationship between you in future you will always be there to support her and your child. You should also tell her that you were wrong to want her not to have the child and you completely support her decision to have it and are very happy she is, if you havent already. And hope for the outcome you want but also expect it might not go that way. Be supportive no matter what she says. Good luck
Author nemo007 Posted April 20, 2009 Author Posted April 20, 2009 How can I tell her when she dont want me to contact her for any other reason other than about the baby?? I have told her how I felt and I am sure she knows that. Should I go to the doctor with her to find out the sex of the baby?? I really want to so bad but I alos want to give her space and let her tell me when she wants me around. I asked her if she wanted me to be there and she said it was up to me but I wouldnt be there for her because she had her parents there for that!! I am so heartbroken right now!!
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