my EX who dumped me has contacted me via text, suggestions needed

[gavinus]

Basically my ex and me went out for 3 years, she dumped me. She had/has major anger problems which I allowed her to take out on me. She dumped me 8 weeks ago, NC for 3 weeks. This is the first time she has contacted me, the text she has sent me 5 minutes ago said this: Hello and thanks for the mail you dropped off. Could you let me know at some stage if u received the pics I emailed you as others have had trouble opening them in the past, also can you let me know how much I ow you for the picture frame I broke as some stage, pretty please?

 

Advice would be great!! I will do nothing until I get everybody's advice, thanks in advance

[kizik]

Gavinus, if you keep making threads, I'm going to keep responding, saying the same thing.

 

Ignore the beeotch. She wants to see if she's still got you on the string. She wants you to text:

 

"No problem! I'll let you know just as soon as I get the pics, and don't worry about the picture frame!"

 

That way she can feel justified and not guilty for dumping you.

 

What are you going to do to show her how you feel?

 

Answer: Nothing. You are going to ignore that cruel person.

[foxh1234]

I agree 100% with Kiz. Silence is the strongest reply.

[gavinus]

I suppose the text she sent is completely different from saying sorry please forgive me for hurting you

[kizik]

Yeah, it's a bit different. I doubt you'll ever hear those words from her. If you do, it'll be five years from now, after some guy has broken her heart, thereby allowing her to see what she once did to you.

 

But by that point, you'll be banging some hot new chick.

[LoveUrselfFirst]

Basically my ex and me went out for 3 years, she dumped me. She had/has major anger problems which I allowed her to take out on me. She dumped me 8 weeks ago, NC for 3 weeks. This is the first time she has contacted me, the text she has sent me 5 minutes ago said this: Hello and thanks for the mail you dropped off. Could you let me know at some stage if u received the pics I emailed you as others have had trouble opening them in the past, also can you let me know how much I ow you for the picture frame I broke as some stage, pretty please?

 

Advice would be great!! I will do nothing until I get everybody's advice, thanks in advance

 

 

She is obviously trying to find a way to keep in contact with you by asking you about pics and the picture frame and what not. Seems to me like a game of trying to get you back. Don't fall for it. As you stated before, she has anger issues, do you want to continue on with someone like that and how she treated you? Your call.

[gavinus]

At the end of the day, the next step in a relationship after marriage, is kids. I could never have children with her while she was angry. I love her, it breaks my heart, I will not contact her again, I will be strong

[gavinus]

I was so tempted to call her just now and be cold and distant, give her minimal information and hang up in her ear! Am fighting the temptation to contact her. Her sending me that text 3 days ago has screwed me up. I keep wanting to show her I am so much stronger than the needy guy she dumped!! But I realize if I contact her I am feeding her. I keep thinking about her, I must be strong!

[sugarmomma]

Be strong G. You can do it!!!