not_a_happy_camper Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 met up with my ex tonight for the second time since he broke up with me over three months ago. met up last week and discussed the possibility of getting back together. Tonight I got a HUGE apology. He said breaking up with me was the biggest mistake of his life. He's been regretting it ever since. He wanted to get in touch with me, but because I'd sent him an email saying I'd never be with him again, he thought I was moving on. I'd deleted him from FB and he thought I wanted nothing to do with him, that's why he didn't try to get in touch. He told me he loved me. I said nothing back, it's too soon for me. But he said he's willing to take it as slowly as necessary. even just be friends for a while if that's what I want. He hasn't been with anyone since he broke up with me, hasn't even kissed another girl. He said he's had girls come on to him, but he has pushed them off onto other friends instead. I'm so glad I contacted him. I know it's early days. But so far so good. I just want to thank everyone for listening to my whining here for the last 6 weeks or so, it's been an enormous relief. I hope I've helped people here too in some way. I won't be leaving anytime soon anyway, will still be floating about for a while!
LostLamb Posted February 28, 2009 Posted February 28, 2009 Congratulations! I know it is very early days but you have a chance to start afresh and make it last this time. Hope things work out for you now , just take it slow and make sure it is what you WANT and need. NC is good for lots of people but there are no rules when it comes to the heart , love and people. Life would be easier if there was a rule book. It's nice to know some people get second chances. Good luck:)
playlislay Posted March 9, 2009 Posted March 9, 2009 An MASSIVE congrats on your love life! Im so happy for you ) I really do wish you all the best and I hope you appreciate what you two have together (thats if you two go ahead with getting back together). ) xx
Author not_a_happy_camper Posted March 9, 2009 Author Posted March 9, 2009 thanks play! just got off the phone with him. He's been texting me everyday for the last two weeks, only twice did I initiate contact. he never contacted me so much when we started going out, so I'm taking it as a good sign. It's really good to be back in touch with him. Still unsure, but to be expected. I'm not wearing my heart on my sleeve anymore! Glad it's going ok so far anyway
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