EmperorR Posted September 18, 2008 Posted September 18, 2008 like I know my ex was attractive etc. But now it seems to me since she dumped me and broke my heart that she is like some runway model and then I look at myself and feel like I'm ugly before I have to remind myself I had hotter girls than get before. It's like I have no sex drive I'm only attracted to her and now she's onspme high pedastoolthan she me we was before. I guess I'm saying im I the only one who feels like there ex is so much hotter now than they were before they dumped you.
Amy22 Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 I don't think I thought an ex was hotter after we broke up. But I would find myself remembering all the good things and kept having to remind myself about the bad thngs and the reason for the break up.
lofi_tokyo Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 Yeah I am having the same experience as Amy did - I remember so many good things, but then have to remind myself to tune that out, and remember why my ex and I are apart.
ahhhchooo Posted September 19, 2008 Posted September 19, 2008 I haven't been with anyone as attractive or my ex before and I wondered why she was interested in me in the first place. I got used to the fact she loved me and just accepted it. I always found her very attractive, probably more so when I was with her than any other time. The thing was, post break up, I did put her on a pedestal - not regarding her looks, but some of the little things she did to hurt me while we were together. It's like anything negative about her got erased from my mind and I could only see her as a goddess that was my reason for being alive. She was pregnant with another guy's baby less than 1 f---ing month. We talked so much about having kids a year down the track. But still I wanted nothing more than to look after her and take care of her. I still think she's wonderful. But I know there will be someone else out there for me.
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