bubblegrl Posted July 5, 2008 Posted July 5, 2008 hi! this guy has been in my life for around 2 years. i Met him when he was kind of seeing one of my friends in sept 2005. After that i use to see him in college and he kept talking to me. His uncle is married to one of my cousins and she kept telling me he liked me , but i never believe her because we didnt talk that much the day we met, in college i would see him and say hi and bye that it. It all start at a wedding in feb 2006, he went with grandpa to the wedding because he knew i was going to be there.Then after that night he started to call me and everything, i really didnt like him because i recent broke up with my boyfriend by that time, but then he started to do some sweet thing like take me home after college, waiting for until i got out of class..taking me out to eat sending me cute msg to my cellphone, when i finally started to like him ...a girl kissed him infront of me . So i stopped talking to him then 2 weeks later he started dating somebody else. So, i started to forget about him, then When college started again we had a class together then he started to call me again and look for me , and he broke up with his girlfriend to be with me. but that didnt last that much myb it lasted around 2 months. 3 MOnth after that i started to call him and look for him, and we started to talk as friend ...by May his family started invite me to they family things, because they liked me for him... it lasted until mybe the mid august. Then he started his masters classes and he started to get stress out and 3 days befor my birthday he stopped talking to me, on my birthday he sent me a text that it! i was heart broken...! i didnt look for him , in college if i saw him i would look the other way..that lasted for around 2 months, then he came looking for me again..and i fell for him again and we last this time for 6 month and this time everybody knew....it was more serious. In may his cousin got married from then things started to get bad:S.. he was getting more stressed and he didnt have that much time for me,in the mid june..we went out and told him that mybe we should just end it and he said no, because he didnt want to lose me and that i kill him. But the next week things just got worse and he start not stop calling me and everything. Then he told me by phone mybe we should break up , but he wanted to talk to me face to face..and when he came over he acted like he didnt care at all..( i think he thought i was going to beg him ...so we can stay together) but i told him that he meant alot to me, i readed a card to him that i wrote that nite i try to break up with him. Then i told him it was ok that we are break up and that mybe its the best thing and not to worry about me. Then i gave him all the stuff i had at my house that was his, and i told him please no throw away the cards i made you because it took me alot to do them, then he told me you never know if we might get back together, but he told me too..that he doesnt know myb he will meet somebody else..and i was like dont worry..about that! and ask him if we could be friends and i said yes ( what it was killing me from inside)i acted like i didnt care. that same day he called me ...but he hasnt called since....we have been broken up for about 4 days.....and i really miss him..! i dont know how somebody can change in one week.. i do want him back, i think im in love with him, and i know he really liked me , he always told me that he was falling for me..and his whole family is mad at him because we are not together..:S and i know how much stress his family gives him.... and he was a good boyfriend for these last 6 months! and IM NOT CALLING HIM OR ANYTHING.. his friends call me and cousins tell me that we should get back together and everything, do you think we just need a little break? how do you think i can get him back? do u think he is going to look for me?...i dont know what to do
lemony fresh Posted July 6, 2008 Posted July 6, 2008 I think you should end it. I don't think you two were meant to be. The breaking up, getting back together, breaking up again......it will only keep happening if you get back together. You will be going great for a while, then he'll back off again, the whole process will repeat itself.
Author bubblegrl Posted July 6, 2008 Author Posted July 6, 2008 i just think he is scared of commitment.. but im going to take my time and think about things! thanks!
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