heyyo Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 i dont like one night stands, ive had my share and i almost always regret it the day after, usually because i burn alot of bridges that way. the only places i meet girls are at the bar or at a party because i work all day during the summer. it always goes down the same way, it will be last call then me and my friend go get something to eat and girls tag along, then i want to go home and they usually come then we go to our own rooms and have sex, but if i say i dont want to have sex they think im gay. one of my friends said he thinks its because im a good looking guy and i act very cocky? i dont know how to turn attraction into getting a girlfriend, ive never had companionship, it seriously kills me everytime i see people holding hands, IVE NEVER HELD HANDS. im 21 btw if that makes a difference.
BrooklynBridge Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 i dont like one night stands, ive had my share and i almost always regret it the day after, usually because i burn alot of bridges that way. the only places i meet girls are at the bar or at a party because i work all day during the summer. it always goes down the same way, it will be last call then me and my friend go get something to eat and girls tag along, then i want to go home and they usually come then we go to our own rooms and have sex, but if i say i dont want to have sex they think im gay. one of my friends said he thinks its because im a good looking guy and i act very cocky? i dont know how to turn attraction into getting a girlfriend, ive never had companionship, it seriously kills me everytime i see people holding hands, IVE NEVER HELD HANDS. im 21 btw if that makes a difference. Bingo! How the hell are you gonna find someone dateworthy with a potential relationship with girls that "tag along" at last call at the bar, a.k.a. batting cleanup. Those are the only types of girls you'll find at the wee end of the night, those who just want to bang. You'll start finding quality people if you start meeting them much earlier in the day/evening, and perhaps at places that don't exclusively offer the chance to get wasted. P.S. I'm also a good looking guy, and have no problem meeting women who can become girlfriends, too bad they always fall in love with me.....
fishtaco Posted June 9, 2008 Posted June 9, 2008 Bingo! How the hell are you gonna find someone dateworthy with a potential relationship with girls that "tag along" at last call at the bar, a.k.a. batting cleanup. Those are the only types of girls you'll find at the wee end of the night, those who just want to bang. Absolutely. You can't get a GF because you're meeting them at the wrong places. Trust me, you DON'T want to date those chicks. But count yourself lucky that you're good looking and you're cocky and you can get chicks. Bars are generally bad places to meet women for relationship purposes. What usually work the best I find is meeting friend's friends. You can all go as a group to a bar/club, or at someone's party. If you're a good looking cocky guy, you should have no problem getting their attention. And you can try hobbies. Like tennis, volleyball, poker, anything that requires you to interact with a group of people (including women, the more the better) on a regular basis. Work and school are good for that too, but school is done once you're done, and dating someone at work could turn out bad, so not recommended. So before you find a good woman as a GF, keep banging the bar chicks. That way you still get laid while you're looking. Not a bad plan as far as I'm concerned. Just watch out for STD/pregnancy of course. But I'm sure you know that already.
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