TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 My way of doing things is as follows. I want a girl who is young and hot who will act like a pornstar/stripper on day1. After that and in the down time whenever she's not behaving in the role as my personal pornstar, I just want her to be agreeable and not nag, judge, or demand anything other than mutual company. In other words, just enjoy and value my company when she's not acting like a pornstar. And if she agrees to see me when I want to see her and does the preceding, then we have a relationship. What's wrong with doing things that way?
konfuzd Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 You better have a fat a$$ wallet if you want girls like that. That's the equivalent of a woman saying, "I just want a man who takes me to fancy restaurants, buys me new clothes and jewllery all the time, and never talks about sex." Aren't fantasy worlds fun?
trigger Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Is this serious? Sounds like you want a slave, not a woman to respect. You want something that is all about YOU. and not US. Enjoy YOUR company? What about YOU enjoying HER company?
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 You better have a fat a$$ wallet if you want girls like that. That's the equivalent of a woman saying, "I just want a man who takes me to fancy restaurants, buys me new clothes and jewllery all the time, and never talks about sex." Aren't fantasy worlds fun? What else should I want instead? Lot's of expensive dates followed a kiss good night followed by more games? What's the point? No, thanks.
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 Is this serious? Yes. Sounds like you want a slave, not a woman to respect. How is she slaving? Who said I don't respect this woman? On the contrary it's the only kind I do respect. You want something that is all about YOU. and not US. How is it not about both? Enjoy YOUR company? What about YOU enjoying HER company? I believe a said "mutual" company. Who said I didn't enjoy her company? As a matter fact, that was the whole point. I was explaining what needs to happen for me to enjoy a woman's company.
JamesM Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Nothing wrong with doing things that way...if you only want short term relationships with no intention of developing a committed friendship and possible marriage. What you described is an "it is all about me" relationship. When you finally wise up and see that a true relationship is about the other person, you may actually end up getting what you desire simply because you became what that "hot woman" desired. So suave, Don Juan, but I doubt it will work.
Portage Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Makes complete and utter sense to me. When you wake up...let us know.
fishtaco Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 You better have a fat a$$ wallet if you want girls like that. That's the equivalent of a woman saying, "I just want a man who takes me to fancy restaurants, buys me new clothes and jewllery all the time, and lets me have sex with the pool boy and his biker gang ex-murderer convict brother." Aren't fantasy worlds fun? Fixed that for ya. Women do have a sex drive, just that they may not find it very exciting if it's from their old and flabby sugar daddy. Not saying the Fonz is old and flabby. There's no free lunch, even the gold diggers have to give up the excitement of sex with criminals, err... white-collar criminals don't count, in fact usually they're the old & flabby sugar daddy.
norajane Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 And how's that working out for you? When you ask what do we think of 'what you do', I'm not seeing that you actually have a woman like this in your life, only that you want to. So you aren't actually 'doing' this, just wishing. You can wish for anything you want. Having it is a whole 'nother ballgame.
FormerNiceGuy Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 My way of doing things is as follows. I want a girl who is young and hot who will act like a pornstar/stripper on day1. After that and in the down time whenever she's not behaving in the role as my personal pornstar, I just want her to be agreeable and not nag, judge, or demand anything other than mutual company. In other words, just enjoy and value my company when she's not acting like a pornstar. And if she agrees to see me when I want to see her and does the preceding, then we have a relationship. What's wrong with doing things that way? Are you serious?
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 Nothing wrong with doing things that way...if you only want short term relationships with no intention of developing a committed friendship and possible marriage. Not following your prediction. If she keeps this up, why wouldn't I be her friend and eventually marry her? What you described is an "it is all about me" relationship. Not following you here. What is it that not about her too? Are you saying I have to suffer sufficient misery for it to be "about her" too? When you finally wise up and see that a true relationship is about the other person, you may actually end up getting what you desire simply because you became what that "hot woman" desired. Not seeing how it's not sufficiently about the other person? So suave, Don Juan, but I doubt it will work. Not sure what you're saying really, but if your prediction it won't work out, mind telling me how you think it should be played out instead?
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 And how's that working out for you? When you ask what do we think of 'what you do', I'm not seeing that you actually have a woman like this in your life, only that you want to. So you aren't actually 'doing' this, just wishing. You can wish for anything you want. Having it is a whole 'nother ballgame. Well this is how the woman are if I continue to see them. I don't tell you how your men should be towards you do I?
Nuguy12 Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 (edited) My way of doing things is as follows. I want a girl who is young and hot who will act like a pornstar/stripper on day1. After that and in the down time whenever she's not behaving in the role as my personal pornstar, I just want her to be agreeable and not nag, judge, or demand anything other than mutual company. In other words, just enjoy and value my company when she's not acting like a pornstar. And if she agrees to see me when I want to see her and does the preceding, then we have a relationship. What's wrong with doing things that way? You forgot the back rubs and the gourmet dinners at her place . Oh, and she needs to drive you around when you get bonded with Gentleman Jack. Other than that, you are perfectly reasonable in your requirements. IF you find a women who is that great - ask her if she has an older sister for me. I have a vacancy in my harem for a 30 something who fits your model. The only mistake that you have made is to ask the women here for their approval - who cares. IF you want it that way, then you shall have it . Edited April 2, 2008 by Nuguy12
Advocate's Devilette Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 You are assuming that a relationship is based solely on sexual attraction. Sorry that fades, then you have squat.
norajane Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Well this is how the woman are if I continue to see them. I don't tell you how your men should be towards you do I? ? Well, I didn't post a thread actually ASKING you how men should behave toward me. YOU POSTED A THREAD AND ASKED what we thought, and in my reply I said nothing about how women should be toward you. If you actually read my post, you'd see that I said this sounds like what you were wishing for, not what you actually have in your life. Or maybe you did read my reply but just aren't so good at comprehension.
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 You forgot the back rubs and the gourmet dinners at her place . Well this would precede her acting like a stripper/pornstar. Oh, and she needs to drive you around when you get bonded with Gentleman Jack. Other than that, you are perfectly reasonable in your requirements. This isn't anything unreasonable as I often do the same and sometimes carry her rather svelte azz up the stairs. However, it isn't necesary for her to do this as I can hold my liquor-it's just to aviod a DWI. IF you find a women who is that great - ask her if she has an older sister for me. I have a vacancy in my harem for a 30 something who fits your model. Well I'll admit that they're somewhat rare. It's not so much of is a woman like this or not. Many of them are but they only do it with a rare few guys. But jjust about every guy should have a girl like this.
Trimmer Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 My way of doing things is as follows. I want a girl who is young and hot who will act like a pornstar/stripper on day1. After that and in the down time whenever she's not behaving in the role as my personal pornstar, I just want her to be agreeable and not nag, judge, or demand anything other than mutual company. In other words, just enjoy and value my company when she's not acting like a pornstar. And if she agrees to see me when I want to see her and does the preceding, then we have a relationship. What's wrong with doing things that way? You asked what women think of what you do, but you didn't describe what you do, you only described what you want. What do you do? And why do you care what "women" think? (I have a suspicion you don't.) The question is, is it working for you? If so, why are you asking what women think?
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 ? Well, I didn't post a thread actually ASKING you how men should behave toward me. YOU POSTED A THREAD AND ASKED what we thought, and in my reply I said nothing about how women should be toward you. If you actually read my post, you'd see that I said this sounds like what you were wishing for, not what you actually have in your life. Or maybe you did read my reply but just aren't so good at comprehension. OK fine. But if you weren't implying it was not good or is uncommon then why would you question with increduosly if I currently have a girl or girls like that?
Nuguy12 Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Well I'll admit that they're somewhat rare. It's not so much of is a woman like this or not. Many of them are but they only do it with a rare few guys. But jjust about every guy should have a girl like this. Rare indeed. They just don't make em like they used to. But I agree, every guy should have a woman like you described - preferably two ( whose "cycles" are NOT synchronized)
Trimmer Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 The only mistake that you have made is to ask the women here for their approval - who cares. IF you want it that way, then you shall have it . Or more accurately: if you want it that way, you're certainly entitled to go look for it, but there's no guarantee that you 'shall have it.'
Author TheFonz Posted April 2, 2008 Author Posted April 2, 2008 You asked what women think of what you do, but you didn't describe what you do, you only described what you want. What do you do? The same thing she does, enjoy her company? I think I did describe what we both do. And why do you care what "women" think? (I have a suspicion you don't.) The question is, is it working for you? If so, why are you asking what women think? Does every thread someone posts on here have to have the "correct" reason? I just wanted to see how many cool chicks are on here. Heck, I don't know we might want to date? What's wrong with that ?
JamesM Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 Not following your prediction. If she keeps this up, why wouldn't I be her friend and eventually marry her? My point is that real life is not like this at all. It can be a short term fantasy, but when you wake up next to that pornstar every morning, you will find that the basis for your relationship had better be a deep friendship and complete interest in her as a person. You described a fantasy sex life, but marriages that work have friendship and communication as the foundation...not sex. Not following you here. What is it that not about her too? Are you saying I have to suffer sufficient misery for it to be "about her" too? IMO, your description of the perfect relationship leaves out what she wants. Not seeing how it's not sufficiently about the other person? Your description speaks only of what you want. Entering any relationship specifically as a means of fulfilling only your needs will end in failure. Not sure what you're saying really, but if your prediction it won't work out, mind telling me how you think it should be played out instead? You should walk into a relationship with the idea that not only you will get what you want, but you will do everything to fulfill her needs. If you desire a pornstar, do you fit the description of a pornstar? Can you last for hours while she plays the sex kitten? IMO though you will find that women look for more than just porn sex. Yes, many like sex, but they want it as an intimate connection to their man. They feel that connection much more though through communication of feelings (not a very macho idea, but it is reality). many women need an emotional connection to enjoy a sexual connection. A great LTR will have as its basis friendship and commitment. Basing it on what you want may last for awhile, but I am guessing that in a few months (if even that long), the woman will realize that what SHE wants is not being met. Then you will be looking for a new pornstar.
Nuguy12 Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 And why do you care what "women" think? Yes Fonz, what does women's approval or otherwise have to do with your life. Most men care too much BUT the smart ones could care less.
Lizzie60 Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 I totally agree.. that's the way to go!!! Only thing.. be more 'subtile' don't tell her like your post.. get a naive, dumb girl.. and she won't know you're playing her.. Good luck with a smart one though...
konfuzd Posted April 2, 2008 Posted April 2, 2008 I think the best way to find what you're looking for is to cruise down aisle 3 at your local XXX store. There are several of these types of girls on the second shelf right beside their inflatable sheep counterparts. If you want a living, breathing version, you'll have to pry her off the arm of Hugh Heffner. Another word of advice: if you find a girl who meets your criteria, you might want to consider double bagging it...
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