BudgieSmuggler Posted March 6, 2008 Posted March 6, 2008 (edited) Hey all, For a detailed version of the story, see thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t145950/... Quick update; tonight I'm sitting at a pub having a few beers with some mates from work, I get a text message out of the blue "How ****en trippy is lost... seriously, what the ****." Lost is like our mutual favourite TV show, and I take it she just watched the latest episode... I didn't reply, and don't plan on replying until midway through tomorrow EDIT: For those who don't feel like reading 5 pages of rubbish in the other thread, long story short, ex and I broke up, ex wanted me back, she pushed to hard I said I needed space, ex decides to drop the ball and look elsewhere, meets new guy, hooks up with new guy after knowing him for 8 days and declares it official, I decide somewhere in the middle (before I know about new guy) that I want her back but she decides she's not ready to leap back into things with me. Ex and I have been sitting on 11 days of NC, and yesterday she told a mate of mine "I'm happy and I like this new guy... BUT I keep finding myself getting very angry and frustrated with him, and I don't really know why." Edited March 6, 2008 by BudgieSmuggler
vivrantflo Posted March 6, 2008 Posted March 6, 2008 Why are you going to call her back?? What do you think that is going to accomplish besides hurting you more? She has a man She doesn't want you back 11 days NC is good.. you're supposed to be moving on with your life... the only reason why she's contacting you, is to see if she still has you around. You call her back.. then she knows she can get to you whenever she wants to, which in turn, gives her no pressure to think about what she's doing... and you'd be making it easier for her to make a full transition from you to him. You've done well with 11 days NC... keep it up, and don't call her back.
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