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Some of you know about my problem, met this chick on the net, she was two month out of a divorce when I met her she was from canada. she is 21 I'm 33 I'm from Tennesse she took a buss to meet me after cheating on me with her aunt. I forgive her we hook up everything seems happy we're in bless. I take her to football games out to eat treat her like a Queen we have no issues at this point. she has a boil I help take care of it by taking her to the hospital and it turns out to be a big boil some sort of staph.

 

Long story short, she go's home to her mom/dads around thanksgiving I drive up to canada meet them. sit down tell them I love her yada yada yada..U.S customs wouldn't let her into the U.S so I buy her a plane ticket and drive back alone. she flys down gets into the U.S things are going find untill I bust her talking to some guy about meeting for chrismas, then after that I'm on eggshell about every little thing. one night she starts ranting how she hates the U.S and being in the stats over all and then I get pissed tell I put alot of effort out for us to be together and go off on her and say she earned everything she had coming from her ex. and she cannot forgive me for saying that so she says.

 

She changes the flight plans so she can go him at a sooner date like the next day I cry and beg for her to forgive me she says she has but she is home sick. when really she was just worried about me not taking her to the airport..alot more to this but i dont feel like typing it let me shorten this up some.

 

so after some fighting in E-mails for about a week I did NC she comes back and wants to be civil we try that but it don't work we just end up saying hateful stuff to oneanother so back to NC...now i got 3 boils and got some bloodwork done and the doctors told me to get in touch with her to find out what typ of staph she had and here are some of the e-mails

 

here is my first E-mail

 

I've been braking out in boils for some reason got like 3 so far as you know I've never had one in my whole life so i must have got them from helping you take care of yours. I know we shouldn't be contacting one another but this is important. so any info you have just e-mail it to me please so I can tell the doctor what type of staff i might have so i can get back to working again.

 

thanks

 

 

Here is her reply

 

Lol. You didn't get them from me, they aren't contagious. And as you know Staph is common there so if you want to blame something blame TN.

 

 

here is my next E-mail

 

its not TN you had a boil the first day you came down to see me once again ive never had them before and i stood by you when you had yours but thats a mute point all im asking for a little info about what your doctor said please help and thanks

 

Here is what she said back

 

1. Stop acting all ****in innocent (myname) - you're an *******.

2. You didn't get them from me - you get them from staph - everyone has staph on their skin - some peoples immune systems don't fight it off - that's what it's from.

3. The doctors don't know anything about why I keep getting them - and if they did - I sure as hell wouldn't tell you.

 

here is what i said back to that.

 

I'm no ******* I welcomed you into my home, got you anything you wanted when we went out, also took you too tennessee games even got you something for x-mass and let you keep it even though I knew it was over. took you to the hospital when you we're sick got you tampons and the little things that you needed. drove to Canada for you got into a fight with the U.S government for you, sat in front of your dad and mom and told them how much I loved you.! also took you home when you asked me too even though I knew you we're lying to my face. sure we had one fight while you we're here. guess that's enough to end anything. But all this is a mute point. together or not if you had a problem I would still be nice to you and help If I could because that's what good people do

 

Lets face it I gave up more for you then you ever did for me and some how I'm a ******* ? you wish I was dead ? all I'm asked for was a little info about your blood that's it. there was no need to call me names I've called you none or said anything out of line again I just don't understand you.

 

It so makes me mad I was never but nice to this person

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Ouch,

 

Sounds like a nasty situation all the way around. You know if you hads stayed with this girl staph would have been the least of your worries.

 

Cant the doctors determine what you have by doing bloodwork of their own?

 

You are obviously not going to get anything out of someone so childish so I wouldnt waste my time any longer. Let the doctors do what they are paid to do.

 

Hope you kick this soon.

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yeah the doctors took some bloodwork but it takes a week and she had some done and they will not let me work b/c as you know it might spread. Just dont like sitting at home. i hated getting touch with her but needed too.

 

one thing that sucks is i put so much time into this person whent out of my way when i could have been other things it just sucks to be told some one loves you and you love them and then over nothing she is gone to some other guy

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Sorry to hear that. For some odd reasone everything always takes a week.

 

Wait, I thought she said it wasnt contagious?

 

I hear you brother ,we do and do but I did for three years and then I was left in the dust. Again, sounds like to me that you would have had to deal with much more than staph if you would have stayed with her.

 

You did your best and I believe in karma. Shell get hers and somewhere down the road youll be rewarded.

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she sent this

 

 

Whatever.

 

MRSA. Might want to get tested for that. Tell them to take a sample of the **** coming out of the boil.

 

 

I said

 

 

 

did they tell you had MRSA ?

 

 

she says

 

Yes.

 

 

I said

 

That's not good for me I have no spleen got like a weakened immune system. what did they give you to cure it b/c from what i read there is no cure

 

 

she said back

 

Well obviously you can't read.

Talk to a doctor about it, I'm done talking to you - I told you what it was - doesn't mean you have it - and I probably got it from yuo lol .

There is a cure for it - it's called a 500$ drug. Go to the doctor ask them to test you for it - go from there - how old are you 12? Use your brain.

 

 

I said back to her

 

I'm praying for you I hope you get better soon. thanks for the info, may god keep you safe

 

then i said

 

 

MRSA puts everyone I know at risk it's the worst kinda staph you can can get, wish you could have got this info to me sooner. not sure why you're being so cold hearted, But no matter what you say or do..I'm always your friend. I'll always be here.. I'm praying for ya hon

 

/hugs

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This woman does not deserve this from you:

 

I said back to her

 

Quote:

I'm praying for you I hope you get better soon. thanks for the info, may god keep you safe

then i said

 

 

Quote:

MRSA puts everyone I know at risk it's the worst kinda staph you can can get, wish you could have got this info to me sooner. not sure why you're being so cold hearted, But no matter what you say or do..I'm always your friend. I'll always be here.. I'm praying for ya hon

 

/hugs

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I tried to take the moral high ground - I know life and death is seated in what we say- no matter if some one says nasty **** to me I dont have the right to reply with nasty **** back

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Obviously you got what you needed out of her by taking the "moral high ground".

 

Its too bad shes acting like a child. I sometimes wish my ex was nasty to me so that I would have had an easier time getting her out of my system.

 

Get this nipped it the but,forget about her you need to get healthy.

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