shadowplay Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 I thought this would be a fun thread. There are a million things I love about my bf, but I have no one I can really share them with (my friends are all guys and roll their eyes when I mention him). List all the things you love about your S.O. I'll start. 1) The way his whole face lights up when he smiles and his cheeks dimple. 2) The little dimple in the center of his chin. 3) How angelic he looks when he sleeps. 4) The way he holds me tighter when I try to loosen from his grip in bed and then finally relents. 5) His laugh 6) His high cheekbones. 7) The way he rests his head in my lap or on my chest and looks thoroughly content. 8) How happy he gets when I spoon him. 9) His incredible, almost child-like sweetness, as if he never lost his sense of wonder about the world. 10) How affectionate he is. 11) His fun-lovingness 12) How he never dwells on sadness and finds the humor in everything. 13) How he always reaches for my hand when we're out walking and persistently offers it when I don't immediately take it. 14) His cute spelling errors in our online conversations 15) His graceful, masculine hands 16) His gentlemanliness 17) How he remembers things I tell him about myself later. 18) His furrowed, intelligent brows. 19) How he hates all the same things I do (movies, music, types of people) 20) His love of adventure 21) His artistic bent 22) How loyal he is to his friends 23) What a kind, ethical person he is 24) His razor-sharp intelligence and wit 25) His silly side 26) What an attentive lover he is 27) His combination of cynicism and innocence 28) The way he protectively holds me back when we come to a crosswalk. 29) How he never holds a grudge or raises his voice at me. 30) How extroverted he is (since I'm the opposite) 31) The delicate line of his profile 32) The way he gets such visible pleasure in making me happy 33) The way he feels guilty about small things he thinks he's done to hurt another person that most people would never stop to consider. 34) How interested he is in current events and culture. 35) How much he loves his cat (I'm serious ) 36) How he seems to come from an older era and appears slightly lost in the modern world (a bit like me). 37) His well-defined lips and light green eyes. All of his features actually. I also love how much taller he is than me so that I feel protected when we're standing and he holds me.
blind_otter Posted November 26, 2007 Posted November 26, 2007 woah that's a long list. I'm too lazy to have a list that long.
Author shadowplay Posted November 26, 2007 Author Posted November 26, 2007 Haha, well it doesn't have to be that long! You can write whatever you feel like.
Star Gazer Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 #3! OMG, I love how my BF looks when he's sleeping. His face is so peaceful. I also love: ~ how he demands to spoon and be spooned ~ how easy it is to trust him ~ how comfortable I am in my own skin around him ~ how nurturing and sweet he is when I don't feel well ~ how he cannot sit next to me without having some amount of body contact ~ how he cooks for me (almost) every night, and does a FANTASTIC job! ~ how he walks me to my car, opens doors for me, carries my heavy bags, and is otherwise the very definition of a gentleman ~ how his face looks 4 days after not shaving ~ how giving he is in the sack! ~ how he comes in and kisses me on the forehead (when he thinks I'm sleeping) when he leaves in the morning before me, like he did this morning... Those are just a few things.
4luvnmoney Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 1. His smile 2. The way he holds me 3. When he calls me "gorgeous," which is all the time! 4. I love how much fun he is 5. He's very intelligent 6. He's passionate 7. He has a big dick 8. His lips 9. I love his biceps...and his back, so muscular! 10. He's very giving and helpful 11. Even though it's annoying sometimes, deep down I love that he's stubborn. 12. But most importantly I love that he's MINE!!
gonetildecember Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Have an essay to get back to, so my list won't be as long, although I could come up with that many lol. 1. the way he calls me random nicknames that everyone finds kinda strange. 2. the way he calls me Baby 3. his back is super sexy 4. the way no one gets out stupid inside jokes but us 5. his smell 6. the way he puts his leg on me when we're sleeping 7. his laugh 8. the way he always reaches for my hand 9. how sexy he looks in a polo 10. the fact that i can't help but smile when i hear his ringtone 11. the way he always finds a way to touch me when we're around each other. 12. the way he can always tell when something is bugging me.
melodymatters Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Awww, what a great thread !!!! Happy times I currently don't have a SO, but when I do I want him to have those very same traits ! ( and this thread makes me less sad about those from my past because I didn't get those things from them, and why settle ? Obviously they are out there : you guys found them after all, and good for you !)
Trialbyfire Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 It is a good thread. Much better shadowplay. how sexy he looks in a polo If he's wearing nothing else, no wonder he looks sexy.
spookie Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Good thread. I almost cried. I miss having an SO. I loved all the same things about mine. Especially the crosswalks thing, the spooning, and the way he looked asleep. *Bawl*
Author shadowplay Posted November 27, 2007 Author Posted November 27, 2007 Good thread. I almost cried. I miss having an SO. I loved all the same things about mine. Especially the crosswalks thing, the spooning, and the way he looked asleep. *Bawl* Aw, it will happen for you again soon...I promise. And when you find a guy who really deserves you your ex will become a distant memory. *Hugs* Btw, I think all cute guys look absolutely adorable sleeping (this is something I've observed).
I Luv the Chariot OH Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Sorry to be lame, but: 1. Everything :]
sally4sara Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 The way he always rises to life's challenges even when he is scared. How he is constantly adding to his knowledge. He literally IS the guy who gets things done. How excited he gets when he finds something he knows I'll love. How affectionate he is. He has the orneriest smile! The way he is himself without worrying about impressing others. The way he is a true original; if you meet him, you'll never forget him. How he always knows when something is bothering me and immediately makes time to talk about it. How I can come home a mess, covered in sap and dirt and he will still call me "beautiful" and "the best". He is so friggin hot! How he someone he doesn't even like can come to him and ask for help. The way he can laugh or make me laugh even when we are mad at each other. The way he is nothing like I first perceived him to be. The way he works his butt off for our gain. The way he doesn't just say "I love you"; he does it too. The way HE decided to change his life to fit mine in it and never looked back. The fact that he will do things or make sacrifices he really doesn't want to if it benefits me without even being asked or me even being aware till after. He backs my play. The way his arms fit around me.
luckyinlove Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 14) His cute spelling errors in our online conversations I thought I was the only one that found this adorable! He's good at that, and it really is cute. Anyway, I could probably make a list pages and pages long, but I'll list a few; 1) His goofy sense of humor that matches mine perfectly 2) When he calls me when he's out with friends to tell me he misses me 3) Making sure I call him when I get home from being with him to make sure I got home safe (even though it's only a 10 minute drive). 4) His ability to learn EVERYTHING about a topic he's interested in almost effortlessly 5) How great he is at dressing himself! 6) His love for animals and his "talking to dogs voice" 7) The way he looks when he tries styling his hair, haha. 8) The way he tries so hard to understand "girly" things, and gets so curious with nonstop questions 9) How I can turn him into jello by just running my nails up and down his back and sides 10) When he rests his hand on my leg while we're in the car. 11) How genuine he is 12) When he gets really excited about little things 13) His willingness to always make sure I'm taken care of 14) The way he's always making me a stronger person 15) How he looks absolutely perfect right when he wakes up in the morning 16) How he looks while he's sleeping (It's the truth ladies! So cute!) 17) How we fit together perfectly while we're sleeping 18) When he plays with my hair 19) How he kisses my tummy 20) His butt. It's perfect. Seriously. And that means a lot coming from me, I'm definitely a butt girl, haha. 21) How he loves some of my features that were once my biggest insecurities 22) He makes me love myself 23) It seems sometimes as though we share the same brain 24) When he talks to his mom about me 25) Knowing that when I'm with him I'm safe. 26) When he can't keep his hands off of me, even when we're in public 27) When he brags about me to his friends 28) How he's perfect for me... So, that was longer than I expected to be, but once you start its just so hard to stop! Great thread!
spookie Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Aw, it will happen for you again soon...I promise. And when you find a guy who really deserves you your ex will become a distant memory. *Hugs* Btw, I think all cute guys look absolutely adorable sleeping (this is something I've observed). Thanks shadow =). I hope they all look adorable. They're probably more adorable if you love them though.
Pyro Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 1. She doesn't hide her feelings 2. When we have our arguements, she keeps it civil and keeps an open mind about things 3. When I am cranky, she doesn't take it personally and she lets me vent and listens to what I have to say. 4. She trusts me and she is trustworthy 5. She is laid back and very easy going about stuff 6. She is motivated in reaching her goals 7. She is a dietician and keeps my as$ in check in regards to what I eat, for the most part at least 8. She is fun to be around Plenty more but this is enough.
littlekitty Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 1) How much he loves me 2) How much fun we have together 3) How proud he is of me 4) How sexy he is 5) How he is a such a wonderful father 6) How proud he makes me 7) How he always tells me how much he loves me, how beautiful I am, how proud he is of me 8) The way he gazes at me 9) The way he holds me 10) How he changed me as a person 11) How much we are still falling in love with each other every day 12) How full he makes my life 13) The way he makes me laugh and fills our life with laughter 14) How ambitious he is 15) How tidy he is! 16) How he looks after me and worries about my safety 17) How much he wants a child with me 18) How sensitive he can be 19) How crabby he can be! 20) Him....
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 - the fact that I knew him as a gawky teen (a sense of shared, albeit, brief, history); he was my first boyfriend - his devotion to and love for his family - what an amazing uncle he is (he loves them like they were his own) - he is amazing with children - he is a child at heart (much like me) - his relaxed nature (perfect contrast to my sometimes intense self) - he never holds grudges - his smooth skin when he's clean shaven - how he looks with after a few days of no shaving (sexy) - he is a good friend and loyal to those he loves - his empathy (he has an uncanny ability to feel what I/others feel sometimes) - our similar goals and values (especially regarding parenting) - sexually very open minded and adventurous (and very patient and gentle when it comes to my inexperience) - very comfortable in his skin (likes who he is and doesn't think like a victim) - his ability to switch between several languages (this is major sexy) - he's a very fast learner - the most charming man I've met (has a way with words!) - very magnetic and charismatic (I love watching him while he's engaged in conversation) - culturally sensitive but not narrow minded or stubborn - believes in equality; appreciates my feminist views - not a chauvinistic bone in his body; comfortable with my relationships with male friends, etc - encourages me to be outgoing, connect with friends and have a life independent of "us" - his realistic but optimistic outlook on life (a true pillar of strength) - the way he does things for others without expecting anything in return - his appreciation and admiration of my relationship with my brother - his ambitious but honest nature - his beautiful, straight white teeth (and that smile - swoooon) - his soulful brown eyes (beautiful is the word) - his large, masculine hands - his very sexy neck and back - his full lips - he says sorry when he's wrong - the explosive chemistry I share with him (something very new to me) - being with someone as emotionally together and strong as he is inspires me to be better (rather than wallow and dwell on trivial things) - our shared views on family and loyalty - he makes me feel incredibly safe (he's much taller than I am...I love that sense of protection and comfort) - his beautiful feet - his humour (when I'm upset, he does the cutest impressions) - his patience (he is so very composed) - his intelligence combined with his impressive street smarts - his ability to mix and mingle with anyone; he can adapt to any situation - how calm he is (while I freak out, he soothes and handles the situation) - he is exciting to be around (it's never boring) - life with him with is full of laughter and mirth - he will be an incredible father - his loyalty and love for me (he appreciates my quirks and eccentricities) - he is very secure in his manhood (enough so that he can let his guard down and be sensitive) - his lips! he's a freakin' good kisser (LITERALLY takes my breath away) - he is a very reliable man (he is there when I need him) - he held my head while I puked in a state of intoxication (whilst bawling over my ex - he didn't complain once) - I can talk to him like I do my girlfriends and he totally gets what I'm saying - the way he smells (with and without cologne - sigh...) - his mother approves of me =O) I miss him.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 1. She doesn't hide her feelings 2. When we have our arguements, she keeps it civil and keeps an open mind about things 3. When I am cranky, she doesn't take it personally and she lets me vent and listens to what I have to say. 4. She trusts me and she is trustworthy 5. She is laid back and very easy going about stuff 6. She is motivated in reaching her goals 7. She is a dietician and keeps my as$ in check in regards to what I eat, for the most part at least 8. She is fun to be around Plenty more but this is enough. Nice to hear a guy chime in!
Pyro Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Nice to hear a guy chime in! Oh wow. I didn't realize until now that this whole thread was answered by females before me.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Oh wow. I didn't realize until now that this whole thread was answered by females before me. Which is why it's nice to hear a guy gush over his woman. It's sweet actually.
Pyro Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Which is why it's nice to hear a guy gush over his woman. It's sweet actually. But but us guys are suppose to be "manly" and never expose our feelings.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 But but us guys are suppose to be "manly" and never expose our feelings. Except when you are looking into the eyes of your beautiful lover. Then you are required to be sensitive, vulnerable and incredibly romantic.
Pyro Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Except when you are looking into the eyes of your beautiful lover. Then you are required to be sensitive, vulnerable and incredibly romantic. Tell that to the women haters on here and see what response you get.
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 Tell that to the women haters on here and see what response you get. You mean you are not a woman hater? Gasp!
Ocean-Blue Posted November 27, 2007 Posted November 27, 2007 1) How much he loves me 2) How much fun we have together 3) How proud he is of me 4) How sexy he is 5) How he is a such a wonderful father 6) How proud he makes me 7) How he always tells me how much he loves me, how beautiful I am, how proud he is of me 8) The way he gazes at me 9) The way he holds me 10) How he changed me as a person 11) How much we are still falling in love with each other every day 12) How full he makes my life 13) The way he makes me laugh and fills our life with laughter 14) How ambitious he is 15) How tidy he is! 16) How he looks after me and worries about my safety 17) How much he wants a child with me 18) How sensitive he can be 19) How crabby he can be! 20) Him.... You guys look beautiful together!
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