pjean Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 MM contacted me after I served him and said it was suppose to be a birthday surprise for me this weekend, but he had his W served divorce papers today. He is divorcing her....my surprise was a ring and a proposal. He said he forgives me for the filing and serving him. But if I will still have him he wants to make our son legitimate and for us to be a family! I told him I didnt beleive him, its too odd of timing. So he actually sent the divorce papers to my attorney so he could verify it for me. OMG!!!! I AM SO HAPPY - I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY---I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO??? IS THIS REALLY HAPPENING??? HE WANTS TO MARRY ME??? OMG!!!! HE SAID HE IS STILL PLANNING MY BIRTHDAY SURPRISE THIS WEEKEND, BUT IT WILL END WITH HIM ON HIS KNEE AND A RING PRESENTED TO ME... HE WANTS TO MARRY AS SOON AS HIS DIVORCE IS FINAL...HE HOPES THAT AN ENGAGEMENT WILL SHOW HIS SINCERITY UNTIL THE JUDGE SIGNS OFF ON THE DIVORCE. HE LOVES ME...HE LOVES US... I CANT BELEIVE IT...THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP.... HE LOVES US....:love::love::love::love:
whichwayisup Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 And what about his other children with his wife? Aren't they young and wasn't he trying to protect them? Something is really wrong here...Very, very wrong.
Lyssa Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Hey Pjean.. Really? I'm happy for you! I've been following your threads but didn't comment. This is one helluva surprise, hey? Not to burst your bubble (I think that's pretty hard to do since there's a RING there!) but how sure are you everything will be in place? How did the W take it? Did he tell you?
underpants Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Something is really wrong here...Very, very wrong. This was my feeling ...along with ...gullible much? Just be careful. All I can say.
wizer Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Who served who? You served the guy you had an affair with but he forgives you and gave you a ring? And he served his wife? WTF is going on? Sounds wacky.
whichwayisup Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I also thought this guy was rich and famous, he didn't want the gossip rags to anything out.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 And you are 53 years old with a 1 year old child. I don't know, but this is all too unbelievable! Served the same day? Ok, now that's just plain BS> LMFAO! When can I purchase chapter 2 of this novel??
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 I also thought this guy was rich and famous, he didn't want the gossip rags to anything out. LOL! this is just getting ridiculous already
norajane Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 This was your first thread on LS in February, when your 1 year old would have been about 3 months or so? I am not use to this internet stuff so please bare with me. Currently, I find myself alone. I was not sure where to post since I am currently not seeing anyone, but my whole life I have been the OW. Not that my life is over, but I am now 53 years old. I have lead an exciting life. I dating many men over my years, traveled, jewlery, vacations, clothes, etc. I honestly never worked. I have three children by three different men, one of which was given up for adoption. Married men still seek sexual relationships with me, but not like they did when I was in my twentys. I have just been hit with the reality of all the drinking, smoking, drugs (cocaine was very big in the 70s), and partying have taken their toll on me. I look in the mirror and see an old hard looking woman. I have no self-esteem, my children dont talk to me, and all I have in this world is my dog. While I cant have the pretty men I had back in my time I can still get married men to take care of me, not in the lifestyle that they did when I was young, but they still would provide for me. I want to get away from living like this. I dont want to depend on a man for my livelihood. But, it is all I have ever known. I know it is wrong to sleep with married men, but they came to me. I dont know how to be anything else, other than a kept woman. And, men just are keeping us as well as they use to? Or maybe I am just used up? And now you're getting married ? Good luck to you.
Citizen Erased Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 This was your first thread on LS in February, when your 1 year old would have been about 3 months or so? And now you're getting married ? Good luck to you. rofl "My children don't talk to me" Yeah well when they are a few months old then I'd say they have a reason
Trimmer Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 OMG!!!! I AM SO HAPPY - I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY---I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO??? Just be careful. All I can say. I agree. I hope for the best for your child, but until everything shakes out, I would be very cautious. Remember, 24 hours ago you had a bodyguard on call, and this is the man about whom you said: i am more concerned with his rage from losing control of me and of me leaving him. he has threatened more than once how easy it would be to make me disappear. I think he is going to be most upset that he is losing control over me. He is always accusing me of other men hitting on me, etc. He says he doesnt want to share me ever. I think that is why he never gives me enough of a budget to pay all the bills. He wants me home and unable to go out and do anything. Money is all he can control. Are you looking forward to a fulfilling life, or just one that is fully paid for? Also, you mentioned he's a public figure, concerned with his reputation. So much so that in relation to your paternity action, you were depending on this: If he doesnt choose to settle out of court then things are going to get public regardless. Now, by divorcing his wife (it seems, suddenly) I'm betting that she isn't going to "go quietly" - isn't it all going to get publicly revealed eventually? And isn't everyone going to be counting back from the age of his new son (your child together), or will you be expected to keep it a secret that he is the biological father? I'm not sure your situation has gotten any less complex. For the sake of your child - a completely innocent person in this mess - be very careful.
Trimmer Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 rofl "My children don't talk to me" Yeah well when they are a few months old then I'd say they have a reason She has two others, each of the three by a different father: I dating many men over my years, traveled, jewlery, vacations, clothes, etc. I honestly never worked. I have three children by three different men, one of which was given up for adoption.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 If all that is true in her first thread, then I can understand why her children don't talk to her. Their mother has only been concerned with men and validation her ENTIRE life and now doesn't know how to live without. If I were her, I'd spend less time creating imaginary fantasies on the net, less time trying to find more MM to have sex with, and much more effort trying to become a part of her childrens lives! But she first has to get her priorities in check!
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Originally Posted by pjean I dating many men over my years, traveled, jewlery, vacations, clothes, etc. I honestly never worked. I have three children by three different men, one of which was given up for adoption. But she said that she was only out of work due to having a child! Yeah.. right... Interesting from a woman who is a self-proclaimed college grad. But her other posts show she was more into drugs, parties, and sex with married men throughout her entire life. The woman keeps contradicting herself so I believe it proves you cannot believe anything she says on here. Nothing adds up.. especially the post norajane posted.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 Who wants to bet this is the alter ego of Lizzie? Didn't Lizzie say she was "53" too? HMM. Sounds about par.
LikeNoOther Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 You women are unbelievable. Just let her tell the whole other story before assuming things. MHnF, what's your problem? Lizzie has been honest about her conquests and why in the world would she waste her time on this?
KATANYA Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 LMAO.....I'm just gonna start buying the gossip mags and wait to see who is leaving their W for the OW........I bet its Prince Charles. And, BTW, I doubt this is Lizzie's alter ego because even in fantasy net-land I know from her posts (and the fact that I share her opinions on this) that she would not have her "happily ever after" end with MM leaving his wife and marrying her!!! Pjean, you go girl! Enjoy your happy ending......we all deserve one (even if only in net-land).
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 If the marriage thing doesn't work out and you don't get the child support you expect, will you give this child up for adoption as well? I want to get away from living like this. I dont want to depend on a man for my livelihood. But, it is all I have ever known. I know it is wrong to sleep with married men, but they came to me. I dont know how to be anything else, other than a kept woman. And to think you were posting this just nine months ago. Funny how things turn out, eh?
precious1357 Posted October 31, 2007 Posted October 31, 2007 MM contacted me after I served him and said it was suppose to be a birthday surprise for me this weekend, but he had his W served divorce papers today. He is divorcing her....my surprise was a ring and a proposal. He said he forgives me for the filing and serving him. But if I will still have him he wants to make our son legitimate and for us to be a family! I told him I didnt beleive him, its too odd of timing. So he actually sent the divorce papers to my attorney so he could verify it for me. OMG!!!! I AM SO HAPPY - I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY---I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO??? IS THIS REALLY HAPPENING??? HE WANTS TO MARRY ME??? OMG!!!! HE SAID HE IS STILL PLANNING MY BIRTHDAY SURPRISE THIS WEEKEND, BUT IT WILL END WITH HIM ON HIS KNEE AND A RING PRESENTED TO ME... HE WANTS TO MARRY AS SOON AS HIS DIVORCE IS FINAL...HE HOPES THAT AN ENGAGEMENT WILL SHOW HIS SINCERITY UNTIL THE JUDGE SIGNS OFF ON THE DIVORCE. HE LOVES ME...HE LOVES US... I CANT BELEIVE IT...THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP.... HE LOVES US....:love::love::love::love: pgean CONGRATULATIONS!!! I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST!!!
curly Posted November 1, 2007 Posted November 1, 2007 Is no one else getting the feeling that this is another stab from a novelist to write a story about being the other woman? I can't believe this story from PJean. It's just soooo far-out. JMO
nanami Posted November 2, 2007 Posted November 2, 2007 this sounds like your going to end up on an episode of snapped.
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