silent_cadence Posted June 22, 2007 Posted June 22, 2007 To count my blessings and knuckle down to some hard work. Work in rebuilding my marriage. My husband just left to finish up some things at work that he didn't get to do because he felt I was more important, that we as a couple were more important than work right now at this point. We got alot of things out in the open. He was honest with me and I was honest with him. He has alot of conditions that he wants me to meet, and I agreed to all of them. He's coming home tonight, to me, to us! I must get a new cell number, we are changing the number here at the house and he wants me to never speak to the MM again. I did tell him about the threat that MM's wife made, he said not to worry about that because now that he knows nothing more can hurt us in regard to the affair. I told him there may come a time when I might have to speak to her and he was fine with that as long as I don't speak with nor have any contact in any form with the MM. He understands that we need more time together, doing things as a couple. Tonight we are going to discuss some time away from here with each other, to rediscover each other which is one of my prayers answered. Which I've had all of my prayers answered in his coming home and his wanting to work on our marriage. He's giving me a job at work, I'll be working in his office, I'm sure maybe a part of this is so he can keep an eye on me, but it's something I've bugged him about in the past and he's never considered it seriously. He said there were alot of things that he never half listened to me on that now he will listen to me and take seriously. He understands my need for feeling wanted and needed and loved, but he is still having and will probably for quite sometime to come, have issues with the "how" I could have had an affair. He knows I'm serious about us, about our relationship and our marriage. This could have been a huge disaster, I almost wrecked our marriage by cheating. That's something I'm going to never do again. I have so much respect for him, he says he will forgive me, but I must help him to forget. I've truly learned my lesson. I'm glad I told the truth. It did help me in saving the one man I do love with all my heart and soul and I'm so grateful for this second chance, I won't blow it.
Topper Posted June 23, 2007 Posted June 23, 2007 There is so much advice here telling everyone that if someone cheats they should just be kicked to the crub. Your husband is a good man. It takes a very strong man to do what he is doing. I wish the two of you the best of luck.
Author silent_cadence Posted June 23, 2007 Author Posted June 23, 2007 There is so much advice here telling everyone that if someone cheats they should just be kicked to the crub. Your husband is a good man. It takes a very strong man to do what he is doing. I wish the two of you the best of luck. Thank you Topper. yes, he is a good man, one who I'm lucky to still have as my husband.
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