friends with a married women :(

[rockon]

hi,

 

is it alright to be friends with a married women? Feels like our friendship is getting involved in a lot of emailing... is things getting to emotionally bonded if we email too much?

[oyster]

step away from the computer. this is a severe warning. she is reeling u in.

if she wants a friend tell her to get a dog

[whichwayisup]

Are you friends with her husband as well?

 

Imagine if your wife as getting cozy with another man, sending emails and enjoying the OM's company "abit" toooo much...My guess is, it would bother you alot. So, imagine what her husband (if he's even aware of what she's doing) would feel like.

 

Go read some threads in this section, oyster's thread, ratingguys' thread, bonehead, see what you're up against.

 

Listen to oyster, he knows what he's talking about.

[burning 4 revenge]

Don't become friends with a married women if you arent friends with their husbands. Not close friends. It's best not to be friends with women at all, but far worse with someone married. It can only hurt you.

[april sunshine]

I have recently rekindled a friendship with a married man....he is married, I am not. It began with emails followed by a dinner invitation from him. The 'step up' from emails to meeting has caused big problems (maybe see my thread for details).

 

I would suggest that you arrange to meet the other half if you plan to continue contact....I would have done this myself but my friends wife had no interest in meeting me and had 'banned' my friend from resuming contact with me.

 

As the unnattached party, you will be the one that draws the short straw...you should protect yourself from this possibility by setting up some boundaries now...

[whichwayisup]

And even her feelings are strong for you, it won't be enough for her to leave her husband.

 

Also, being friends with her is going to prevent you from ever meeting someone else.