Just sent this email to the ex.....

And it feels so good!!!!!

J**,

Thank you for the ticket. While I won't be setting foot in Hawaii, Delta was so kind as to let me pay a small fee to change the ticket to one to Montreal and back!!

Just the vacation I need to recover from a man who was very good at deceiving me, making me fall in love with him, left me broken, and left me with proof that thanks to my past, things that were done to me, and things completely out of my control I will always be single. Feel free to look up "M** B********" on Facebook after I return on August the 15th, lots of photos of me enjoying myself will be posted.

Have fun ****ing Priscilla!!

Sincerely,

M**

PS - I never liked the idea of shaving my pussy bald, which is basically indulging closeted pedophiles' fantasies, anyway, nor did I even enjoy the idea of cum on me. Some women are deluded into thinking they like to be screwed a la porn star, but not me.

Your ex gave you a plane ticket? No fair! The only thing I got out of my breakup was an extra year stuck in grad school. ... Oh, and a pint of raspberry sorbet.

Well, when he wasn't my ex yet he paid for a plane ticket for me to come visit him in Hawaii. Where I was supposed to fly to in 2 days. And thinking about that is just painful.

Sorry about the extra year in grad school. I'm working on my degree as well, and the stress from him is interfering.

I wouldn't have done that if I were you. You would've been better off just not contacting him at all, ever. Hardly anyone does stuff like that without some expectation of a response. He likely won't respond, and it might end up driving you up the wall.

I wouldn't have done that if I were you. You would've been better off just not contacting him at all, ever. Hardly anyone does stuff like that without some expectation of a response. He likely won't respond, and it might end up driving you up the wall.

I'm not expecting him to respond.

But considering how much he has made me cry non-stop over the last week, I would love to make him cry at least once.

I highly doubt he'll be crying. It's more likely he'll be laughing with relief. Think about it: What exactly did he lose here? He's back with his ex, and he ditched you; you basically proved him right in his decision by sending that email. You don't look like someone to be treated with any respect, having sent that. You justified his treatment of you.

PS - I never liked the idea of shaving my pussy bald, which is basically indulging closeted pedophiles' fantasies, anyway, nor did I even enjoy the idea of cum on me. Some women are deluded into thinking they like to be screwed a la porn star, but not me.

Sassy! Hey... TMI... Go back and delete this!

I highly doubt he'll be crying. It's more likely he'll be laughing with relief. Think about it: What exactly did he lose here? He's back with his ex, and he ditched you; you basically proved him right in his decision by sending that email. You don't look like someone to be treated with any respect, having sent that. You justified his treatment of you.

That's where there's a huge problem though. SO many men have made me cry throughout my life, and it's like a game to them, they laugh with amusement. And I feel like it's one-sided. And this is why I will no longer take abuse from men without fighting back!

That's where there's a huge problem though. SO many men have made me cry throughout my life, and it's like a game to them, they laugh with amusement. And I feel like it's one-sided. And this is why I will no longer take abuse from men without fighting back!

But you're fighting back after the fact. After things are over. And what's the point in that? You're not helping yourself by doing that. It would be better to just focus on healing and improving yourself.

It would've sounded way better if you hadn't included all those things about him deceiving you and such and such....

It just made you sound more vulnerable and exposes how much he has hurt you....

I don't know, I would just enjoy the trip without even forewarning him about posting pictures on fb.

I'm thinking also about doing some prank phone call to him from the STD clinic.

Ohhhhh something would feel good! I mean, sheesh, he dumped me right after I confided in him some very traumatic things that happened in my past, I've been crying for over the last week, and he's having fun screwing his ex. And I was supposed to fly to see him in 2 days. The playing field so needs to be levelled.

Hm, Sass, it seems you're not completely over this guy yet.

Didn't you just text this same guy a couple days ago?

I think you should have left the ps part out, why did you feel the need to write that?

Nate - I'm not over him. Not so much because I'm in love with him, but because I'm furious at him for fooling me into being in love with him and making me waste my time.

CLC - Because I have yet to find a man who actually respects my needs in the bedroom, after 28 years of existance!

But I just wanted to go along with what tigress said, you have to let go at some point.

It would be so good if I had any idea how to get him out of mind. But then again, after being hurt so many times before, I swore I wasn't going to take the next heartbreak lying down.

I don't know if that's a good idea. You also run the risk of getting caught.

 

Getting him out of sight and out of mind seems like a much better idea. It will of course be hard for awhile, but time has a way of making it easier and easier.

I agree. I think this is healthiest. Time heals all wounds. It just seems better to forget about a guy who flocks to his ex (he's sounds pretty whipped), and go enjoy montreal and still take plenty of pics!

We'd love to see them. I'd prefer some beach pics but we'd best keep this PG.

Just go out and enjoy yourself, take deep, full breaths, and have fun.

That's where there's a huge problem though. SO many men have made me cry throughout my life, and it's like a game to them, they laugh with amusement. And I feel like it's one-sided. And this is why I will no longer take abuse from men without fighting back!

men can only do those things to you - if YOU allow them to. so stop allowing it.

there's never a need to fight back when there has been no fight. stop fighting. get a healthy boundary and stick to it = no need for any of this for you if you stick to that boundary that keeps you happy, healthy and safe.

Well, Montreal isn't exactly a beachside location to the photos will definitely be very G-rated!

The STD clinic phone call is still so tempting though....

Well, Montreal isn't exactly a beachside location to the photos will definitely be very G-rated!

 

The STD clinic phone call is still so tempting though....

lol, for some reason I thought that was in some sort of exotic location.

G rated? Boring.

The STD call would be kind of hilarious, but you don't think he would catch on? I guess I mean, do you see a point coming where you will stop contacting him?

At what point do you feel like you would be able to move on?

A flame doesn't grow unless it's fueled, and it dies when it isn't.( I guess the same could apply to sadness, happiness, empathy etc.)

What's really making me furious is that I have a final exam for accounting that I need to be studying for and I can't focus!!!!! WHILE he's ****ing her!!!!! And I can't focus, I was supposed to be flying there in 2 days!!!!!

lol, for some reason I thought that was in some sort of exotic location.

 

G rated? Boring.

 

The STD call would be kind of hilarious, but you don't think he would catch on? I guess I mean, do you see a point coming where you will stop contacting him?

 

At what point do you feel like you would be able to move on?

 

A flame doesn't grow unless it's fueled, and it dies when it isn't.( I guess the same could apply to sadness, happiness, empathy etc.)

When I know that he regrets his actions, that's when I'll feel able to move on.

What's really making me furious is that I have a final exam for accounting that I need to be studying for and I can't focus!!!!! WHILE he's ****ing her!!!!! And I can't focus, I was supposed to be flying there in 2 days!!!!!

why are you giving him that much power? you are ALLOWING him to take up the space in your mind. YOU are handing him your peace of mind on a silver platter. why? why are YOU doing that to YOURSELF?

why are you giving him that much power? you are ALLOWING him to take up the space in your mind. YOU are handing him your peace of mind on a silver platter. why? why are YOU doing that to YOURSELF?

Allowing? If I knew how to not allow I would be, trust me.