Update

I thought I would send an update about my health and my relationship.

I just heard from my doctor after some new bloodwork and I am doing well other then putting weight on. This is a great relief for me to finally hear good news from the doctor after hearing so much bad news.

As for my relationship I am still with him and I love him very much. I have read many threads on here which have put some ideas in my head. But everytime I put those ideas to use all i find out is that he does love me.

I know many of you find this hard to believe that staying for the kids is just a line. But I think sometimes we also have to take into account the person to whom we are talking about.

Not every MM is using a line. Some really do stay around for their kids and bear with a bad marriage for the kids happiness. I dont agree with it , but I do support him.

Awesome!!!!!! Healthwise & otherwise. :)

Yousaveme..

I am glad to hear that you are doing better, that is great! I know how you feel about loving your MM and although there are similarities, yes every situation is different. You know in your heart what you should do, if you should stay or go... Just protect yourself in the meantime...

Maybe everyone here will send an update.

I Agree i think we should all put our updates.....

Maybe it will help someone.

Yousaveme..

 

I am glad to hear that you are doing better, that is great! I know how you feel about loving your MM and although there are similarities, yes every situation is different. You know in your heart what you should do, if you should stay or go... Just protect yourself in the meantime...

Thanks...

We're great. Going strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey yousaveme

I haven't been here much lately, but I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. You know that I only wish the best for you.

I'm still trying to enable my PM, but I don't have access yet.

Hey yousaveme

 

I haven't been here much lately, but I'm glad to hear that you are doing well. You know that I only wish the best for you.

Hey there....Thanks

Were have you been , what's up?

I'm still trying to enable my PM, but I don't have access yet.

I think you get it after your an established member..unless you pay for it...

But keep trying Or get me on here

Hey yousaveme....so glad to hear about the doctor....may I ask what was wrong physically? I'm new so have missed much.

Please forgive me, although I have to be straight up with you....it's hard for me to say I'm glad that your staying with mm, but this forum is here to support you....none of us are God and never will be.

I think you have a lot of courage to post here...wishing I had found this sooner, but guess it wasn't time....timing is everything...

Hey there....Thanks

 

Were have you been , what's up?

I had a really great long Thanksgiving weekend with family. Then came back to lots of work.

It was a little strange since the affair was going on during the holidays last year. I discussed it with my H and he understood completely. That didn't stop us from enjoying time together and with the kids.

Hey yousaveme....so glad to hear about the doctor....may I ask what was wrong physically? I'm new so have missed much.

 

Please forgive me, although I have to be straight up with you....it's hard for me to say I'm glad that your staying with mm, but this forum is here to support you....none of us are God and never will be.

 

I think you have a lot of courage to post here...wishing I had found this sooner, but guess it wasn't time....timing is everything...

I have been dealing with cancer. I know people arent going to be happy with me staying in the relationship..We have come a long way. I am just now really starting to see that. And I have been seeing the things that he is doing to make things between me and him better. I need to take things one day at a time.

I dont know about me having courage though. I just try and be me...

And your right timing is everything...Things happen for a reason...

I had a really great long Thanksgiving weekend with family. Then came back to lots of work.

 

It was a little strange since the affair was going on during the holidays last year. I discussed it with my H and he understood completely. That didn't stop us from enjoying time together and with the kids.

Thats good you had a great Thanksgiving....One day at a time

So glad that you are doing better in the health department. I had a bad scare last month about cancer, but tests showed the doctor was wrong. As terrified as I was about what turned out to be nothing, I can empathize so much with you about reality. (((hugs)))

As far as your other situation, you know that I always hope that people aren't in relationships that are deceptive. Someone is always going to get hurt. But that said, I'm glad that you are happy, and glad that you've had support through your health ordeals. Take care.

Silk

So glad that you are doing better in the health department. I had a bad scare last month about cancer, but tests showed the doctor was wrong. As terrified as I was about what turned out to be nothing, I can empathize so much with you about reality. (((hugs)))

 

As far as your other situation, you know that I always hope that people aren't in relationships that are deceptive. Someone is always going to get hurt. But that said, I'm glad that you are happy, and glad that you've had support through your health ordeals. Take care.

 

Silk

Thanks and I hope you never have to go through a scare like that again.

As far as the relationship getting hurt is what brought me to LS in the beginning. And it has helped me alot and I met some very nice people and a really good friend.

And my hope is things will get better as the days go by.

Thanks and I hope you never have to go through a scare like that again.

 

As far as the relationship getting hurt is what brought me to LS in the beginning. And it has helped me alot and I met some very nice people and a really good friend.

 

And my hope is things will get better as the days go by.

Oh how sweet!!

Man, yousaveme....you got it, one day at a time. Does the good report indicate that the cancer is healed? Putting on weight and cancer don't seem to go hand in hand, so this is why I ask.

I had cervical cancer at 27 and had hysterectomy, 100% cure, am now 46....

Have you tried some of the natural methods of cleansing the body....after several years of constant change (some good, some bad) and then everything hitting at once, I was torn up.

The most dramatic change was the job....after 24 years with one company, had to go to another company...new rules, shift change, learn the entire workings of this operation due to being on nights, we have to know how to do it all, and had 2 weeks to do it. Having not been in this particular field since 87, everything had changed.

Having a probation period (a 90 day wonder...lol), hadn't had to deal with this since 83...oh man was I scared. To top it off, nights had just lost the supervisor, so every 2 wks there was supervisors from days filling in....this meant I had to prove myself every 2 wks....the work is also physically demanding on nights.

How I made it was nothing but God, my health was bad for many reasons....so started juicing and detoxing, exersize....ect....

Anyway (sorry I went off on a tangent) the desire to build my health back up led to much research and what I have found is there are programs specifically designed to combat cancer naturally....foods that target cancer, herbs that detox and build the immune system.

I am 100% better than I was 3 mo ago, although still have a long way to go...it's all trial and error in the process of finding what works for your particular system....

I hope all goes well for you and please continue to update....((((((((yousaveme))))))))

Man, yousaveme....you got it, one day at a time. Does the good report indicate that the cancer is healed? Putting on weight and cancer don't seem to go hand in hand, so this is why I ask.

 

I had cervical cancer at 27 and had hysterectomy, 100% cure, am now 46....

 

Have you tried some of the natural methods of cleansing the body....after several years of constant change (some good, some bad) and then everything hitting at once, I was torn up.

 

The most dramatic change was the job....after 24 years with one company, had to go to another company...new rules, shift change, learn the entire workings of this operation due to being on nights, we have to know how to do it all, and had 2 weeks to do it. Having not been in this particular field since 87, everything had changed.

 

Having a probation period (a 90 day wonder...lol), hadn't had to deal with this since 83...oh man was I scared. To top it off, nights had just lost the supervisor, so every 2 wks there was supervisors from days filling in....this meant I had to prove myself every 2 wks....the work is also physically demanding on nights.

 

How I made it was nothing but God, my health was bad for many reasons....so started juicing and detoxing, exersize....ect....

 

Anyway (sorry I went off on a tangent) the desire to build my health back up led to much research and what I have found is there are programs specifically designed to combat cancer naturally....foods that target cancer, herbs that detox and build the immune system.

 

I am 100% better than I was 3 mo ago, although still have a long way to go...it's all trial and error in the process of finding what works for your particular system....

 

I hope all goes well for you and please continue to update....((((((((yousaveme))))))))

Dr would like to see my put weight on. Im 5'7" and weigh about 105 so...its been one thing after another....

Thanks

I am saddened to hear of your health struggles and I understand somewhat that this is most likely not a time for you to make any other big decisions other than about your health and well being.

I wish you steady healing and am sending you my best vibes for that!

Consider yourself precious above all else,

Hugs to you!

I am saddened to hear of your health struggles and I understand somewhat that this is most likely not a time for you to make any other big decisions other than about your health and well being.

I wish you steady healing and am sending you my best vibes for that!

Consider yourself precious above all else,

Hugs to you!

Thanks again...

YSM: So glad to have you back and hear good news!

YSM: So glad to have you back and hear good news!

GEL: Thank you

GEL: Thank you

Good morning yousaveme! and everyone else!