Moving in with a Separated Man & Impure Motives

Should a woman date a guy because he's rich and powerful?

 

 

I'm moving into his place soon, because I want to spend more time with him. But another reason (I feel guilty to say this because you're supposed to only be with someone for love) that shaped my decision was that I wanted to enjoy his first class lifestyle, get to know other movers/shakers through him, and grow my business.

 

Don't do it. It will be pretty obvious you are acting in a shallow manner and the whole thing will backfire. Act with more class and you will get much better mileage.

I'm a young woman in my 20s. I have my own business and make a 6 figure income. He's a big shot in my town and makes 7 figures/year.

 

If you are in your 20s making more than 100,000K/year you are in a special class and do not need to act like a second class gold digger. As I said before this technique will backfire.

You may be seen not as a successful businesswoman by these other movers and shakers, but merely as a trophy mistress. Why not keep dating him without moving in? You will still have access to those people who would likely treat you with more respect. You could network on your own. You might even wind up dating someone who is available. Otherwise, when Mr. Big throws you out, you will most likely not get your phone calls returned.

As long as you understand you may be suddenly thrown out at any point, might as well go for the ride.