Shania Twain.....

I never took issue with your views on infidelity. Whenever anyone disagrees with you about anything, you automatically turn it around to this. Why?

The only time folks disagree with me is on the subject of infidelity.

You're unwilling to share? Ok. Hope you change your mind. Perhaps you'll benefit from talking it over here.

I just shared with you. I got cheated on so I divorced her. And I still see her often because we have a son. What more do you want?

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You'd think Twain kicked Kane's dog or dented his '70 Barracuda or something.

:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:

Nevermind. I just saw John's latest salvo. You're doing about equally well after all.

oh man. Thank you so much. I have laughed to tears. kudos. :bunny:

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:lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao:How's those affairs?

Right yea you really laughed.

meh ... I think it's a little suspicious that she hooked up with the other woman's husband, and at one point wondered if the whole affair wasn't some kind of red herring to hide a relationship with him while they were each married ...

I have personal knowledge of her so you're her stan huh, and I can confirm your suspicions are false.

They're not suspicions, they're facts.

The only time folks disagree with me is on the subject of infidelity.

I can't speak for everyone John, but between us that's not simply not true and you know it. Look; I don't care about Shania Twain...believe what you want, but if your going build relationships and establish trust it's critical to shoot straight. Agree to disagree? Fine. But if you're rewriting history or twisting to support a position, few are going to take you seriously. At this point, you can tell me to shut up and mind my own business and I will. Maybe you don't care. Maybe you care more than anyone here. I'm just stating the obvious, and it's something every poster has to recognize.

I just shared with you. I got cheated on so I divorced her. And I still see her often because we have a son. What more do you want?

Maybe you should start a new topic or write it in a journal. Whatever. If you don't feel like writing it down, just say so. I see the basics John, and only you know why you're leaving the details out. Your call. Obviously.

I'm just reaching out John. Trying a new approach. Taking the very good advice given here and ditching the arguments in favor of some real communication. I'm a open person and enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them. No agenda. No bias. No position. Just asking.

I can't speak for everyone John, but between us that's not simply not true and you know it. Look; I don't care about Shania Twain...believe what you want, but if your going build relationships and establish trust it's critical to shoot straight. Agree to disagree? Fine.

I highly agree with what's in bold. I think it's good to shoot straight. In fact I do shoot straight. I tell it like it is. If my woman takes off her shoes and her feet are slightly smelly from sweating, I'm going to tell her those toes are kinda funky. If she kisses me and her breath kinda stinks, I'm going to say so. I'm not a guy who's going to sugarcoat things. Some obviously may not like it, some do. Can't help it.

But if you're rewriting history or twisting to support a position, few are going to take you seriously.

Ahh see that's where you're kindly mistaken. I don't "twist" anyone's words. I just call it as it's presented. Some just say I'm twisting because they don't like the truth. And as I said before, I really don't care if a few posters on an internet board don't agree with my stance. I have 3 friends and a girlfriend that all share my point of view, along with my family so I'm straight. I'm just here to discuss and share my view just like everyone else does.

At this point, you can tell me to shut up and mind my own business and I will. Maybe you don't care. Maybe you care more than anyone here. I'm just stating the obvious, and it's something every poster has to recognize.

No I won't tell you to "shut up." I can't stop you from posting and I wouldn't do it if I had the power. I like debating.

Maybe you should start a new topic or write it in a journal. Whatever. If you don't feel like writing it down, just say so. I see the basics John, and only you know why you're leaving the details out. Your call. Obviously.

Why thank you. But I'm not the type to write in a little notebook, detailing how sorry I feel for myself and how the sky is blue and how my blood is red. My past is what drives me to keep on living. Everything I ever saw, those who did me wrong, the few who did me right, everyone I ever loved, everyone I hate. It's why I am the way I am today, and I won't change. I cannot change. My son will understand once he becomes a young man.

I'm just reaching out John. Trying a new approach. Taking the very good advice given here and ditching the arguments in favor of some real communication. I'm a open person and enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them. No agenda. No bias. No position. Just asking.

And it's nice to see you reaching out Steady. I tell you what, you have any questions feel free to PM me if you want.

We can learn from debating...both sides. But IMO, there comes a time when one is best suited to state his point, then let it rest. Raising fours kids, it soon became apparent to me the people learn by doing more than by hearing. Applied lessons. That happens a lot here on this forum...people read of a certain approach or mindset, then apply it to the situation.

I'm still learning JMK...even at the ripe old age of 51.