So, does she like me?

There's this girl at work that I get to work with maybe once or twice a week. She seems quite reserve, but whenever I strike up a convo with her she goes on a rampage.. like, when I asked her one question about school, she could have written a book, lol.

She's afraid of asking me questions I think, because whenever she has a problem, she tries to not to ask me. When she finally does she always says, "you'll probably think i'm retarded or something".

and when we were in a small room, I had to fix a problem for her, i turned around and looked at her, and her eyes were all like shy and blinking(and big), so, I dunno.

Most of the time if girls liked me they would tap me or touch my arms or something like that. (this emoticon is cool)

oh and whenever we end the shift on the same time, she like darts away lol, doesn't even say bye :|

I don't think she likes me much though, haha

I think she does like you. She gets nervous around you and becomes a chatterbox.

If you find her sweet I bet you don't mind her talking alot , right ?

thanks for your reply! yeah i find her attractive and sweet, but i dunno what to do lol... keep in mind we're both university students (different ones) working at a part time job :S

and yeah i do like her too :|

Well, if she's usually shy and stuff like that around you, then she definitely likes you. I'd say you should try to talk to her more about her, and see where it goes.

Usually shy women are very romantic and respond well to overt gestures, like flowers or little gifts, or (blechh) poetry. It seems to melt their reserve. If you really like her, remember some little thing she said (women remember every word they ever spoke going back to age four) and find some way to turn it in to a romantic gesture. She'll believe you actually care about what she says, and that it influenced you in some way (pumping up her self-esteem to the bursting point). She will bemore amenable at that point. If you feel all that's worth the effort.

Usually shy women are very romantic and respond well to overt gestures, like flowers or little gifts, or (blechh) poetry. It seems to melt their reserve. If you really like her, remember some little thing she said (women remember every word they ever spoke going back to age four) and find some way to turn it in to a romantic gesture. She'll believe you actually care about what she says, and that it influenced you in some way (pumping up her self-esteem to the bursting point). She will bemore amenable at that point. If you feel all that's worth the effort.

Hmmm romantic gestures this stage in the game? I've only known her for ~2 months, and thats only at work. Wouldn't that come off slightly creepish? I mean, I don't mind getting gifts for girls, but, I wouldn't want to make it an awkward situation. Especially at work.

I've heard that unless you're actually dating the girl, getting gifts is a bad idea because they'll either lead you on and leech on the gifts, or they don't want it cause you're not their boyfriend?

You don't give an expensive gift, just something clever and thoughtful, and preferably humorous.

You don't give an expensive gift, just something clever and thoughtful, and preferably humorous.

True true, I'll have to get to know her a little better though I guess. Perhaps she can come with me to pick up a father's days gift or something.

Ok, well, I talk with her today, alot, and got to know her alot better

Now, I know her fave foods and all that, so.. I mustered up the courage to invite her to come with me tomorrow to the mall.

She apparently like sushi, so I'll take her to lunch at a sushi restaurant.

Hopefully it turns out good

Hmmm.. so apparently she was in another city last night hosting a little party for her bestfriend's best friend. And she barely got any sleep... this morning at work she looked a little miserable lmao...

Alot of stuff went bad, and she looked exhausted so she said she's going to go to sleep right after her shift. Which was a morning shift.

I told her that after she's done sleeping if she still wanted to go to the mall to let me know. But I don't think she will lol...

She probably didn't like me after all

Anyone have any input on this?

I think my answer would be more appropriate in the Dating forums:

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2828025#post2828025

Hmmm.. so apparently she was in another city last night hosting a little party for her bestfriend's best friend. And she barely got any sleep... this morning at work she looked a little miserable lmao...

 

Alot of stuff went bad, and she looked exhausted so she said she's going to go to sleep right after her shift. Which was a morning shift.

I told her that after she's done sleeping if she still wanted to go to the mall to let me know. But I don't think she will lol...

She probably didn't like me after all

 

Anyone have any input on this?

I think she is just tired. I would give her a day or so to recoup and then try calling her again.

Tired does not mean she doesn't like you..

I think she is just tired. I would give her a day or so to recoup and then try calling her again.

 

Tired does not mean she doesn't like you..

You're right mary, I didn't mean that really.

I rephrased in my other forum is whether or not I should pursuit it, or drop it, and I think you kinda helped with that question.

Thanks.

You're right mary, I didn't mean that really.

I rephrased in my other forum is whether or not I should pursuit it, or drop it, and I think you kinda helped with that question.

 

Thanks.

I wouldn't want you to give up on her