Does this girl still like me? Should i ask her when school starts?

o theres this girl ive known for about a year now and some weird stuff happened in the summer. This girl 1 year ago asked me to dance (Didnt ask as a date) But to dance with her at an 8th grade dance. Now a year later she was flirting with me through March April and half of May. She asked me who I liked and she asked me if I remembered the dance in 8th grade. She told me she thought about it everyday and she was mad I didnt know the song we danced to. Anyways she flirted with me every day until the end of the year. Then some friends of hers told me that she did like me. I wanted proff so one of my other HONEST friends asked her. She asked if she would go out with me and she said "I would but its the end of the school year and I dont know when id see him." She then said Im sure youd hang out over the summer she said yeah but sometimes summer flings dont work out thats what im afriad of. I asked her out via facebook 4 days after that happened and hers the whole conversation

Ryan

June 5 at 12:04am

Hey whats goin on? Im not doing anything this weekend so i was wondering if you wanted to go see a movie?

Elena

June 5 at 9:04am

Hey sorry I cant do anything sorry

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Ryan

June 5 at 9:39am

OK would someother time be good like next week?

Elena

June 5 at 9:41am

I'm sorry, but I don't thik it will work out I'm really sorry but I always just saw us as friends

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Ryan

June 5 at 9:53am

Oh so your not interested in any type of dating right?

Ryan

June 5 at 9:54am

I was just kinda askin you friendly

Ryan

June 5 at 10:06am

Well I guess what I was saying it would only be as friends.. Maybe I would bring one of mine but im fine if you dont want to. Sry for all the messages

Elena

June 5 at 10:29am

No its totally fine, I just am not interested in dating anyone right now. I'm sorry

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Ryan

June 5 at 10:32am

Oh ok if you ever want to get together (just as friends) Im here. I understand summer stuff doesnt work out but if ever you want to get a friendly hang out goin im here.

Elena

June 5 at 10:34am

Okay thank you

So Ive got some questions here My very honest friend asked her if she liked me and she said yes to her. 4 days later this conversation starts. Girls dont seriously change their mind in a 4 day time period right? I mean common. So ive got 3 questions

1. Do you think she still likes me after saying we were always just friends? Because she stared at me alot when I wasnt looking. In April she asked me if I remembered the 8th grade dance she said she thought about it every day. Then she stared at me and looked away real fast and her friend laughed at her. She also put on her facebook what she was interested in facebook for. She put on her profile she was looking for Dating A relationship and friendship. When she stopped flirting with me by the end of may she erased Dating and a Relationship And she told my friend that she would go out with me but its the end of the school year and she didnt know when shed see me. I know she has been very busy this summer hasnt been home alot. So a Yes or No question. Does this girl still like me and do you think its possible she could change her mind in 4 Days after liking me for at least 3 monhs (If not a whole year?)

Girls dont seriously change their mind in a 4 day time period right?

*snort* How old are you two? I'm being serious. You sound young, and if that's the case - girls are VERY fickle. And yes - can change their minds VERY quickly. I guess there is that remote possibility that she did like you and didn't want a summer fling. Just see how it goes when you get back to school - if she gets back into flirty mode, or not. If she doesn't, then there's no point asking her out.

sophomore this year was a fresh when this all happened im curious what kind of girls change their minds? The b****chy wones or all of them? Because this girl is very nice to everyone and is very smart and mture and im 99% sure she liked me. My good honest friend asked her the day before the last day of school

sophomore this year was a fresh when this all happened im curious what kind of girls change their minds? The b****chy wones or all of them? Because this girl is very nice to everyone and is very smart and mture and im 99% sure she liked me. My good honest friend asked her the day before the last day of school

:o:o I'm going to say the grand majority of them at that age. It's called hormones. Not a whole lot you can do - just wait to see how she acts when you're back in school. But I would say - be slightly cautious. Even if it may be indicative of hormones, I do think it's kind of immature...could cause problems in a relationship if she's that flakey. But I wouldn't call her a bitch. Just confused.

Lol oh lord.

Um. First off, the way you replied to her mssgs was hilarious. Trying to play it off like you wanted to be friends all along lol. That was so juvenile. It actually sounded more like a conversation between 6th graders.

But alas, I'm just giving you a hard time. Not that you need it right now or anything, sorry. Long story short, this just isn't going to work. Keep moving

OK with the hormones thing i dont get it. Is this have to do with looks? I know shes liked me for the past 3 months when school ended but I think she always did like my personality. Now the 8th gade dance I did not know her at all. So is there anything I can do to get her to like me again when school starts? Also what are some signs she likes me? I know she stared at me alot in school

When I was in 7th grade, the end of the school year me and this guy were hot for each other. By the time we got back to school after the break he was "in love" with someone else. Mind you the school break here is like 5 weeks.

He broke my fragile little heart and it never healed. *sighs*

Of course when he figured out I was giving it out for free before most of the other girls he was hot for me again. Oh High School...

My point? Let it go. You'll get laid and she'll be a virgin. Woo.

I was giving it out for free

Uh I don't know how proud of this I'd be

You remind me of my former stepson. No - hormones don't have anything to do with looks. Hormones start to affect EVERY part of your body - why do you think the brain would be excluded? Just be nice to her. You obviously saw clues before that she liked you - see if she does the same thing. Then start kind of trying to spend time with her during school - maybe eat lunch with her, or whatever.

Hey Cardinal. Some life lessons for you:

If they say no, you step away, and leave them alone after that. Dont worry about the reasons, lil girls dont think with logic.

You made a mistake by sending in your friend to ask her if she liked you. That is not natural. Not only that, but it turns girls off when they see you are a too much of a coward to ask them yourself. Next girl, talk to her yourself.

Then you told her on FB that you could go out as friends. You completely immasculated yourself to please her. Never do that. You dont want to be friends with her, you want to date. You make that known.

Some Young girls turn into major liars so they dont feel guilty.

The reason she said she could just be friends was because she wasnt interested in dating you. She also said "friends" because she hoped you would take the hint that she wasnt interested. They are always too cowardly to tell you straight up that they dont like you, you just have to read stupid hints.

So keep away from this girl. Dont talk to her, You ruined it with her. Try again in 12th grade.

Take it from a guy with experience.

Uh I don't know how proud of this I'd be

I was exaggerating. I've been with all of 3 guys. But that's not the point of this thread.