BoredPerson Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 I think I have a problem. This is the third time in a row it hasn't worked. The first time I put it down to being drunk, the second time tired, this time I have no excuse. I hadn't had sex in so long and all I did was masturbate for 18 months. Now I think my penis is broken. Should I see a doctor ? Will the doctor help me ? Its really frustrating not that I feel any shame or embarrassment as I don't suffer from those emotions as normal people do. I was staring down this 21 year old 'festively plump' young laddies chubby little vagina and nothing ! Normal that is the perfect kind of girl I go for. But NOTHING !!!!! ARRGGHHHH I am reaching out for help. Please help me.
Tony T Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 There probably isn't any major problem with you. In that particular instance, everything going in your body may have been against you having an erection. Don't judge your ability from that one experience...and stopping wacking off so much.
FIREMAN Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 1. Stop Whacking it...You unit has nerves in the outer skin. If u whack too much, u wear down the sensitivity. It'll come back a few days after u stop. 2. Could be you're to "Psyched up" and Psych yourself out. If so, stop thinking about her being the perfect chick or stop thinking about NOT being able to shoot your load. 3. U could go to a urologist and get checked. He may even prescribe Viagra or something to help u get over the mental part of it. 4. Or if all else fails, see a psychologist...it could be mental. Good luck!
FIREMAN Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 PS- I dated a chick once that put SOOOOO much pressure on sex being perfect, that it psyched me out and destroyed the relationship. She took it personally thinking that I WASN'T into her, but I was extremely into her and her pressure on me to be the perfect sex partner ultimately destroyed us.
Lucky_One Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 Do you get any sort of tingly feelings during foreplay? When she is touching you, do you get even a partial erection? Do you wake up with an erection?
Still Trying Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 Does your dick work when you're flogging it? I usually have performance anxiety at least with in the last 5 years when I'm with someone new. Never happened before, and when I feel settled and comfortable it goes away, (or comes back, depending on how you look at it!). Sounds mental to me but you may want to ask a doctor instead of an online forum for this sort of advice.
FIREMAN Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 Also...Drink a lot more water every day...Could be you're not hydrated well. Water is 70% of our bodies. I started drinking a lot more water and almost instantly, it seemed my semen volume and recovery period increased! Also, try taking Saw Palmetto Root and Zinc Tablets. You can get them at GNC, etc and they help the Prostrate.
Knight_Ctrl Posted February 13, 2009 Posted February 13, 2009 Does your dick work when you're flogging it? I usually have performance anxiety at least with in the last 5 years when I'm with someone new. Never happened before, and when I feel settled and comfortable it goes away, (or comes back, depending on how you look at it!). Sounds mental to me but you may want to ask a doctor instead of an online forum for this sort of advice. holy **** dude you just made me feel so much better. I thought I had erectile dysfuntction. But now that I think about it my dick works every single time I wack off. But when I get with a girl its extremely hit and miss. holy **** my day just got 1000% better. <3 I love you man.
Storyrider Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Was it a laddie or a lady? that one little d makes a big difference.
Tomcat33 Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Was it a laddie or a lady? that one little d makes a big difference. Good question!! Do laddies have chubby vaginas?
lord alfred douglas Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Good question!! Do laddies have chubby vaginas? Ive seen some laddies with chubby vaginas
Tomcat33 Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Ive seen some laddies with chubby vaginas I know where!! And no it doesn't make you gay.
Storyrider Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Ive seen some laddies with chubby vaginas I'm picturing those Renaissance cherub paintings with a surprise twist (and somehow Scottish instead of Italian).
Chicago_Guy Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 I had that problem once when I was 25 and I also thought something was wrong with me. My problem was that I was overanalyzing and worrying about things that I shouldn't. You just need to relax and try to focus the next time you get the opportunity.
winsmith-84 Posted February 19, 2009 Posted February 19, 2009 Yeah, I've had this problem too. I just got to stop thinking about getting the erection itself, and start thinking about breasts and vagina.
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