She has a boyfriend, but I still want her!

This girl is a hot piece of ass and has a great personality. Just came back from talking to her today at one of the mall stores.

She's cute, young, sexy, short (just how I like them) and Latina which is a huge plus! She looks better than my ex and the vibe she gave me was too sweet.

But she has a boyfriend! I didn't ask her, but after finding out her name, I went home and looked her up on Facebook. To my chagrin, she's been in a relationship for a year now.

This is not good because she's exactly what I'm looking for: loves to cook and clean, loves to cuddle, loves the movies and sports games.

Every guy knows that these types of women are hard to come by, but after twenty minutes of chat, my mind is made up about her, though I'm still pondering how I'm going to do this, because I'm not up to breaking people up.

This girl is a hot piece of ass and has a great personality. Just came back from talking to her today at one of the mall stores.

Oh, please. You don't give a rat's ass about the girl's personality.

But she has a boyfriend! I didn't ask her, but after finding out her name, I went home and looked her up on Facebook. To my chagrin, she's been in a relationship for a year now.

Then stop right here. Do not go any further.

I'm still pondering how I'm going to do this, because I'm not up to breaking people up.

Then don't do it. She is off limits and don't cause havoc in her life. Just leave her alone - you don't have the best intentions for her anyway.

Oh, please. You don't give a rat's ass about the girl's personality.

 

 

Then stop right here. Do not go any further.

 

 

Then don't do it. She is off limits and don't cause havoc in her life. Just leave her alone - you don't have the best intentions for her anyway.

That's not true. I don't talk out of the side of my mouth. Why'd you even bother replying to this thread with your annoying, negative attitude?

Who cares if she has a boyfriend?

If he like it then he shoulda put a ring on it.

That's not true.

LOL...

it is true.

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You should buy her a honking cubic zirconia ring and stage an elaborate proposal of marriage. Once she accepts, as she certainly will, since you are irresistible, you can bone her and dump her immediately. Then, rush here to LS to brag about it all.

Okay?

I side with Carrie, in that you're only interested in her sexually.

She already has a boyfriend who loves her. How would you feel if you knew that some random guy lusted after your girlfriend?

Probably best to move on, before you get an ass kicking!

LOL what a bunch of angry vaginas.

Go for it son! Post a pic of her panties so we can all give you your props.

I knew Tiger was developmentally challenged

I side with Carrie, in that you're only interested in her sexually.

 

She already has a boyfriend who loves her. How would you feel if you knew that some random guy lusted after your girlfriend?

Who said her boyfriend loves her, huh? Just because they're together for a year doesn't mean anything, really. Some just hang on for the sake of it.

And of course I want to nail her but that's how any man can get a young woman into him. That doesn't take rocket science.

Besides, I liked her personality and how easy it was to chat her up and I love Latin women. Their bodies can be unbelievable!

How about telling her you like her and ask her to get in touch if things with her current chap don't work out? Essentially, put her on a back-burner, and refocus your attention somewhere more fruitful / useful.

because I'm not up to breaking people up.

Even if you did break them up, and got with her. Chances are she'd probably feel like **** about it, and all the blame would go on you. Or at least she'd feel uncomfortable.

If she was so unhappy with her current relationship that she was in misery, i would be rooting you on. But if not, then it's a lose-lose for you really.

90% of the time, when i see a girl break up with a man for someone else, that other relationship doesn't work out either. (Like i said, unless shes extremley unhappy)

I think you should just keep in touch and be friends. If they break up, move in. If she moves in on you, then remember. If shes willing to cheat (or breakup) with her current boyfriend, what makes you think she won't do the same to you.

In my opinion, trying to drive a wedge between a couple never works out the way you wanted, and certianly doesn't make you a 'hero' in her eyes.

How about telling her you like her and ask her to get in touch if things with her current chap don't work out? Essentially, put her on a back-burner, and refocus your attention somewhere more fruitful / useful.

That can be excruciating.

That can be excruciating.

I didn't say anything about waiting.

You obviously know what to do and you seem to have your priorities straight.

 

Remember: life is short. When you're decaying in some retirement community, what would you like to think back on? Your Martha Steward homewares or the time you nailed that fabulously wicked latina bombshell?

Thats the spirit. The way my memory has been going the past few years, by the time I'm in a nursing home, I'm probably going to remember **** about the girls from my 20s, getting a sponge bath from the nurse will take precendence in my mind then.

OP - I gather she's a retail worker..drop in whenever you are in the mall to say hi, and test out her vibe with some subtle flirty banter, just don't be surprised that she will politely shut you down with the fact that she's not available. You can still drop by in the months to come regardless, things change, and while it definitely sucks to meet + hit it off with a wonderful girl only to discover she's not single, thats life, window of opportunity on some girls can be so small before they are off the market. As BD said refocus your attention somewhere more fruitful.

If you really like her (not just want her for sex) then I would try. Other guys would do it to you. But I would avoid it if her BF is an ex-con or mental case.

Even if you did break them up, and got with her. Chances are she'd probably feel like **** about it, and all the blame would go on you. Or at least she'd feel uncomfortable.

 

If she was so unhappy with her current relationship that she was in misery, i would be rooting you on. But if not, then it's a lose-lose for you really.

 

90% of the time, when i see a girl break up with a man for someone else, that other relationship doesn't work out either. (Like i said, unless shes extremley unhappy)

 

I think you should just keep in touch and be friends. If they break up, move in. If she moves in on you, then remember. If shes willing to cheat (or breakup) with her current boyfriend, what makes you think she won't do the same to you.

 

In my opinion, trying to drive a wedge between a couple never works out the way you wanted, and certianly doesn't make you a 'hero' in her eyes.

Listen, I have absolutely no plans to come between them. I'm still going to go out and do me regardless of what happens there, but I will continue to chat her up at the mall since it's around the corner from me and I dig her personality.

And breaking people up is a bad thing, agreed. I believe in Karma and I know without a doubt that I'd get my just-desserts if I pulled such a stunt, so I will just lay back and let things happen on its own merit.

And of course I want to nail her but that's how any man can get a young woman into him. That doesn't take rocket science.

If you honestly and seriously believe this is the way to establish a relationship with a woman, I am genuinely sorry for you.

Who said her boyfriend loves her, huh? Just because they're together for a year doesn't mean anything, really. Some just hang on for the sake of it.

 

And of course I want to nail her but that's how any man can get a young woman into him. That doesn't take rocket science.

 

Besides, I liked her personality and how easy it was to chat her up and I love Latin women. Their bodies can be unbelievable!

ROFL. It's very amusing how you don't see that you're contradicting yourself. But I expected no less.

Listen, I have absolutely no plans to come between them. I'm still going to go out and do me regardless of what happens there, but I will continue to chat her up at the mall since it's around the corner from me and I dig her personality.

 

And breaking people up is a bad thing, agreed. I believe in Karma and I know without a doubt that I'd get my just-desserts if I pulled such a stunt, so I will just lay back and let things happen on its own merit.

Dude, ask her if she have a BF or is serious about him...If she wavers and don't mention that she has one than you have a chance!

Nothing wrong with asking and just being friends:)

Dude, ask her if she have a BF or is serious about him...If she wavers and don't mention that she has one than you have a chance!

 

Nothing wrong with asking and just being friends:)

Seeing as her Facebook status shows she's been with him a year because it has a marked date of October 9, 2010 I don't think asking her would do any good. I already know the answer. As for making friends, I won't do it because my feelings could grow over time and not being able to have her will just aggravate them. But I will talk to her whenever I spot her.

As for the above post about me contradicting myself, wanting to have sex with a girl and also wanting to date her goes hand-in-hand so look it up so you'll have better understanding of how men are wired, since you have no clue.

It's even more amusing how wrongly you're assuming what I'm amused about, Shaun.