The Player Game Book Revealed!! You will be surprised!

I. Never say ‘I Love You’ first

Women want to feel like they have to overcome obstacles to win a man’s heart. They crave the challenge of capturing the interest of a man who has other women competing for his attention, and eventually prevailing over his grudging reluctance to award his committed exclusivity. The man who gives his emotional world away too easily robs women of the satisfaction of earning his love. Though you may be in love with her, don’t say it before she has said it. Show compassionate restraint for her need to struggle toward yin fulfillment. Inspire her to take the leap for you, and she’ll return the favor a thousandfold.

II. Make her jealous

Flirt with other women in front of her. Do not dissuade other women from flirting with you. Women will never admit this but jealousy excites them. The thought of you turning on another woman will arouse her sexually. No girl wants a man that no other woman wants. The partner who harnesses the gale storm of jealousy controls the direction of the relationship.

III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority

Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their feminine support, and to follow the path he lays out. You must respect a woman’s integrity and not lie to her that she is “your everything”. She is not your everything, and if she is, she will soon not be anymore.

IV. Don’t play by her rules

If you allow a woman to make the rules she will resent you with a seething contempt even a rapist cannot inspire. The strongest woman and the most strident feminist wants to be led by, and to submit to, a more powerful man. Polarity is the core of a healthy loving relationship. She does not want the prerogative to walk all over you with her capricious demands and mercurial moods. Her emotions are a hurricane, her soul a saboteur. Think of yourself as a bulwark against her tempest. When she grasps for a pillar to steady herself against the whipping winds or yearns for an authority figure to foil her worst instincts, it is you who has to be there… strong, solid, unshakeable and immovable.

V. Adhere to the golden ratio

Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give her two displays of affection and stop until she has answered with three more. When she speaks, you reply with fewer words. When she emotes, you emote less. The idea behind the golden ratio is twofold — it establishes your greater value by making her chase you, and it demonstrates that you have the self-restraint to avoid getting swept up in her personal dramas. Refraining from reciprocating everything she does for you in equal measure instills in her the proper attitude of belief in your higher status. In her deepest loins it is what she truly wants.

VI. Keep her guessing

True to their inscrutable natures, women ask questions they don’t really want direct answers to. Woe be the man who plays it straight — his fate is the suffering of the beta. Evade, tease, obfuscate. She thrives when she has to imagine what you’re thinking about her, and withers when she knows exactly how you feel. A woman may want financial and family security, but she does not want passion security. In the same manner, when she has displeased you, punish swiftly, but when she has done you right, reward slowly. Reward her good behavior intermittently and unpredictably and she will never tire of working hard to please you.

VII. Always keep two in the kitty

Never allow yourself to be a “kept man”. A man with options is a man without need. It builds confidence and encourages boldness with women if there is another woman, a safety net, to catch you in case you slip and risk a breakup, divorce, or a lost prospect, leading to loneliness and a grinding dry spell. A woman knows once she has slept with a man she has abdicated a measure of her power; when she has fallen in love with him she has surrendered nearly all of it. But love is ephemeral and with time she may rediscover her power and threaten to leave you. It is her final trump card. Withdrawing all her love and all her body in an instant will rend your soul if you are faced with contemplating the empty abyss alone. Knowing there is another you can turn to for affection will fortify your will and satisfy your manhood.

VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary

Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes. Instead, if you have done something wrong, you should acknowledge your guilt in a glancing way without resorting to the actual words “I’m sorry.” Pull the Bill Clinton maneuver and say “Mistakes were made” or tell her you “feel bad” about what you did. You are granted two freebie “I’m sorry”s for the life of your relationship; use them wisely.

IX. Connect with her emotions

Set yourself apart from other men and connect with a woman’s emotional landscape. Her mind is an alien world that requires deft navigation to reach your rendevous. Frolic in the surf of emotions rather than the arid desert of logic. Be playful. Employ all your senses. Describe in lush detail scenarios to set her heart afire. Give your feelings freedom to roam. ROAM. Yes, that is a good word. You’re not on a linear path with her. You are ROAMING all over, taking her on an adventure. In this world, there is no need to finish thoughts or draw conclusions. There is only need to EXPERIENCE. You’re grabbing her hand and running with her down an infinite, labyrinthine alleyway with no end, laughing and letting your fingers glide on the cobblestone walls along the way.

X. Ignore her beauty

The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire. This is one reason why the greatest lotharios drown in more love than they can handle — through positive experiences with so many beautiful women they lose their awe of beauty and, in turn, their powerlessness under its spell. It will help you acquire the right frame of mind to stop using the words hot, cute, gorgeous, or beautiful to describe girls who turn you on. Instead, say to yourself “she’s interesting” or “she might be worth getting to know”. Never compliment a girl on her looks, especially not a girl you aren’t ****ing. Turn off that part of your brain that wants to put them on pedestals. Further advanced training to reach this state of unawed Zen transcendence is to sleep with many MANY attractive women (try to avoid sleeping with a lot of ugly women if you don’t want to regress). Soon, a Jedi lover you will be.

XI. Be irrationally self-confident

No matter what your station in life, stride through the world without apology or excuse. It does not matter if objectively you are not the best man a woman can get; what matters is that you think and act like you are. Women have a dog’s instinct for uncovering weakness in men; don’t make it easy for them. Self-confidence, warranted or not, triggers submissive emotional responses in women. Irrational self-confidence will get you more pussy than rational defeatism.

XII. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses

In the betterment of ourselves as men we attract women into our orbit. To accomplish this gravitational pull as painlessly and efficiently as possible, you must identify your natural talents and shortcomings and parcel your efforts accordingly. If you are a gifted jokester, don’t waste time and energy trying to raise your status in philosophical debate. If you write well but dance poorly, don’t kill yourself trying to expand your manly influence on the dancefloor. Your goal should be to attract women effortlessly, so play to your strengths no matter what they are; there is a groupie for every male endeavor. Except World of Warcraft.

XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little

Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all. Don’t let a woman’s faux indignation at your boldness sway you; they secretly love it when a man aggressively pursues what he wants and makes his sexual intentions known. You don’t have to be an *******, but if you have no choice, being an inconsiderate ******* beats being a polite beta, every time.

XIV. **** her good

**** her like it’s your last ****. And hers. **** her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so profligately that she is left a quivering, sparking mass of shaking flesh and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, then drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning. Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. If you don’t know how, learn to give her squirting orgasms.

XV. Maintain your state control

You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, **** tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over her.

XVI. Never be afraid to lose her

You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls you. Don’t give her that power over yourself. Love yourself before you love her.

Like it or not you can't tell me this stuff doesn't work like a charm in many cases.

Sounds like pretty good advices. But I'm already over that player phase. Now I'm in search of something more meaningful rather than meeting my esteem needs.

I'm not interested in men who play games. Id walk past any man who'd attempt to do any of the following. I have respect for myself, I deserve better then that.

Id much prefer the "nice guy".

Like it or not you can't tell me this stuff doesn't work like a charm in many cases.

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

maybe it works for unhealthy women... it would never work for me.

i want an honest man - a sensitive man - who knows his feelings and can share them openly with words and actions! i would NEVER want a man who is keeping score how many times i'm going to touch him before he reaches out for my hand or caresses my arm.

having an agenda and with holding intimacy is not good balance.

This should be a sticky.

Can you repeatedly post this in all of the "nice guy" threads, and in the threads where the guy doesnt know what he did wrong?

All the bases are covered here.

I already know all this, but its so succint that I am copying this and putting it on my desktop to remind me occasionally.

BTW 9lives i hope youre ready for the faux indignation that will be following.

I'm not interested in men who play games. Id walk past any man who'd attempt to do any of the following. I have respect for myself, I deserve better then that.

 

Id much prefer the "nice guy".

That's what you think, but your heart will say different when u actually meet such a amn.

This happens to guys too. All guys say they want the caring sweet women. But when they end up falling for a hot bitch.

Its just human nature.

As much as I hate to admit it, some of these are spot on.

2 - Yep. No one wants to be with someone that no one wants. For fun, we go to strip clubs because I *LOVE* watching another women try to turn him on and watch him get turned on by her. It's exciting and so erotic. This may not be exactly what you are talking about, but I get the principle behind it.

4 - Yep. I want to be with a MAN, strong and powerful. He should keep his path, not bend to mine. Though, I disagree that a women doesn't want to be the "one." It's good to know that he wants you to walk his path with him.

6 - absolutely. I do this, too.

8 - Yep. I hate it when he apologizes for things that upset me, but he shouldn't necessarily say he is sorry for. Most of the time, the problem is coming from my own insecurities rather than his mistake. Saying your sorry when it isn't necessary is like forking over your right to do what you want. Not sexy.

9 - of course.

11 - This applies to women to, too. Confidence is an aphrodisiac.

14 - OH YES! This is essential. I do worry that if my current boyfriend leaves, I will never find someone that makes me shakes and scream the way he does. It makes me humble, honestly. Dang it.

The rest, I think are absurd, but the majority seem to make since to me.

That's what you think, but your heart will say different when u actually meet such a amn.

 

This happens to guys too. All guys say they want the caring sweet women. But when they end up falling for a hot bitch.

 

Its just human nature.

The only type of women that men will meet by using these "rules" will be unhealthy ones. I have respect for myself, I don't want to play cat and mouse.

For instance XIII - "Touching a woman inappropriately on the first date will get you further with her than not touching her at all."

The only thing a man will get from me if he touches me inappropriately is a smack in the face, along with my drink thrown at him.

Id much prefer not to be touched at all. It at least show's that he has respect for women and doesn't want to move too fast or make us uncomfortable.

I'm not interested in men who play games. Id walk past any man who'd attempt to do any of the following. I have respect for myself, I deserve better then that.

 

Id much prefer the "nice guy".

Some women do prefer that and those are the ones who end up having happy relationships but there are others who eat this kind of crap up and then they have been played one too many times by the players they try to blame all men.

As much as I hate to admit it, some of these are spot on.

 

2 - Yep. No one wants to be with someone that no one wants. For fun, we go to strip clubs because I *LOVE* watching another women try to turn him on and watch him get turned on by her. It's exciting and so erotic. This may not be exactly what you are talking about, but I get the principle behind it.

 

4 - Yep. I want to be with a MAN, strong and powerful. He should keep his path, not bend to mine. Though, I disagree that a women doesn't want to be the "one." It's good to know that he wants you to walk his path with him.

 

6 - absolutely. I do this, too.

 

8 - Yep. I hate it when he apologizes for things that upset me, but he shouldn't necessarily say he is sorry for. Most of the time, the problem is coming from my own insecurities rather than his mistake. Saying your sorry when it isn't necessary is like forking over your right to do what you want. Not sexy.

 

9 - of course.

 

11 - This applies to women to, too. Confidence is an aphrodisiac.

 

14 - OH YES! This is essential. I do worry that if my current boyfriend leaves, I will never find someone that makes me shakes and scream the way he does. It makes me humble, honestly. Dang it.

 

The rest, I think are absurd, but the majority seem to make since to me.

And now I realize why I have no shot with women.

Some women do prefer that and those are the ones who end up having happy relationships but there are others who eat this kind of crap up and then they have been played one too many times by the players they try to blame all men.

I agree, there are far too many women who fall for this. They should be owning up to there own mistakes instead of placing blame on all males.

For instance, if the second rule were to happen to me (Make her jealous), Id simply walk away. It would be his loss, not mine. I have no respect for these kind of people. The women who approach him can keep him!

I don't agree with the "I love you" thing.

And now I realize why I have no shot with women.

All women are different. And I am not "unhealthy" as some people have mentioned about women who fall for this sort of thing. I come from a family of very controlling women and their men are miserable and broken. I don't want a miserable and broken man. Gross. I want someone who is passionate about not only me, but life in general. I don't like the idea of a "player" and most of those are ridiculous. But some make sense, for me, because I appreciate a strong man who stands his ground.

ALL IM SAYING IS

RECOGNIZE! Alot of you are being RIGHT THIS MINUTE. lol Betta get a clue

All women are different. And I am not "unhealthy" as some people have mentioned about women who fall for this sort of thing. I come from a family of very controlling women and their men are miserable and broken. I don't want a miserable and broken man. Gross. I want someone who is passionate about not only me, but life in general. I don't like the idea of a "player" and most of those are ridiculous. But some make sense, for me, because I appreciate a strong man who stands his ground.

Well I definitely stand my ground. But I'm terrible at acting like I have options when it comes to women. So, number 2 was the one that I had the most issue with. I get most of the other stuff, but I'd never be able to make a girl jealous.

Well I definitely stand my ground. But I'm terrible at acting like I have options when it comes to women. So, number 2 was the one that I had the most issue with. I get most of the other stuff, but I'd never be able to make a girl jealous.

If you want to attract a woman worth keeping, it's best not to purposely try and make her jealous. Most women do not appreciate this kind of treatment.

As I had mentioned previously, any man who stops to flirt with other women while I'm on a date with him is far from attractive to me. Id simply leave. Those women can have him!

There are many women who see it the same way as I do. Do not worry about it.

Well I definitely stand my ground. But I'm terrible at acting like I have options when it comes to women. So, number 2 was the one that I had the most issue with. I get most of the other stuff, but I'd never be able to make a girl jealous.

Well, that certainly isn't a deal breaker. He doesn't flirt with other women in front of me in social situations. That is just rude. But I have to say, its sexy when other women flirt with him. The strip club thing is mostly what I was going off of there. I don't know why I think it is so sexy, but I do. It is an illusion of attraction and interest from another woman, I guess.

I'm at a point of my life where I want a secure relationship in which I can be myself without playing.

Games do work, but I don't want to play forever.

To add to my previous post, I think it stems from knowing that he COULD be with other women if he wanted. He chooses to be with me.

The "connect with her emotions" one surprised me. That's definitely a huge turn on for me. Most of my boyfriends were pretty good at it. They simply listened and validated my feelings. For me, that was wonderful and I felt closer to him. In my youth, I had emotional meltdowns. I regret that now and don't think men need to connect with that sort of childish behavior. It's probably best to put on a poker face and let the storm pass.

I agree, there are far too many women who fall for this. They should be owning up to there own mistakes instead of placing blame on all males.

 

For instance, if the second rule were to happen to me (Make her jealous), Id simply walk away. It would be his loss, not mine. I have no respect for these kind of people. The women who approach him can keep him!

You sound like you have good head on your shoulders and I wish you nothing but the best in your love life.

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Better dating advice here:

http://roissy.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/

 

If you want to read even more hateful stuff about women go to his site's home page. Most of you will want to vomit. You can thank Google.

 

http://roissy.wordpress.com/

Yup!!!! This is happening and working all day long which is so sad.