Why are Females so Obsessed w/ Finding THE ONE?

I would much rather deal with bitterness than hate. Bitterness is just frustration but what you post is pure hatred.

 

A man never really knows a woman either. There are plenty of women who get a mid life crisis and then at the drop of a hat turn on a man. Stop acting like women are all innocent because they are not.

Woggle, I hate to point out to you that much of the anit-women stuff I've read by you sure comes across as hateful. I don't agree with everything she says, but its interesting to see that you don't like it when the shoe is on the otehr foot.

Imagine if instead of one woman posting these hateful anti-male things, it was half a dozen?

Not in all cases. A good friend of mine is raising a kid by himself because the mother decided she wanted to go and fall in love with a convicted rapist who didn't like kids and now he has to fight in court for custody? I am sorry if all of you have had crappy fathers or bad experiences with men but if I am told not to tar all women because of my mother than I think I have the right to ask for the same courtesy in return.

Fair enough - you have unresolved mom issues.

Mothers aren't perfect - they are human like everyone else. It may help you to keep that in mind while exploring your issues in counseling.

I know of a 16 year girl who got knocked up by a 40 year man who is now in jail. Many of the young women you see out there, pregnant, were tricked by a charming and handsome man or the women themselves grew up in bad surroundings which lead to their poor choice in men.

 

But I don't see anyone caring about the child or the mother. Most men will not touch such a woman. And many PUA fellas use single mothers.

This is very wrong but this does not translate to all men knocking up 16 year old girls. You wouldn't like it if I said the woman in this link http://www.registercitizen.com/articles/2010/10/28/news/doc4cc9d538014bf553913156.txt represented all mothers so stop trashing all fathers.

God help a young man who is raised by you. At age 31 I am just now starting to get over the self hatred my mother who hated men pumped into me.

Woggle, I hate to point out to you that much of the anit-women stuff I've read by you sure comes across as hateful. I don't agree with everything she says, but its interesting to see that you don't like it when the shoe is on the otehr foot.

 

Imagine if instead of one woman posting these hateful anti-male things, it was half a dozen?

I never said that all mothers should be eliminated from the family and the sad things is that this view is not uncommon these days.

There is a lot of misandry that goes unoticed and it is very subtle but much more hateful than a bunch of bitter guys venting about their relationship issues.

Again this is not all men. It is obvious you have some serious anger towards men in general. I have the same anger towards women as well but at least I can admit it.

Look , the lack of interest in being married and only having a man in your life until you die is not "misandry". Is a lack of interest in doing what my grandmother did(because she had to).

 

It's the liberty of having options. Of not wanting to deal with issues and problems. How is it hateful to avoid problems? How is hateful to avoid being cheated on, removed of my own home, traded by another woman, and be treated as maid?

It is hateful because you assume every man will do that.

Do you have any idea of how many young men are going after 16 year old girls because of the low self - esteem present in so many young women?

 

Do you know how many women are raped, every minute, everywhere?

 

Do you know how many women are with men they are afraid of, but if they'd leave the man their children would suffer?

 

Do you know how many women suffer years of physical abuse because they have nowhere to go or because they have low self - esteem?

 

Do you know how many men are just looking to pump and dump a woman?

 

Do you know how many men don't care about their child let alone paying child support?

 

Do you know how hard it is for a virgin woman to trust her first boyfriend because there are so many users out there, aching to be a woman's first because that's some sort of creepy accomplishment?

 

Do you know how hard it is to be shorter, lighter and weaker than 50% of the people out there, knowing perfectly well that any of those guys could come to you and break your neck?

 

Do you know how many men are dating women until something "better" comes along?

 

Do you know how many men stay with a woman because they can't find someone else to be interested in them?

 

Do you know how many women were raped during world war I and world war II(without mentioning previous wars), how many women had their sons taken away because men sure have to play with guns?

 

Do you know how many women are forced to abortion because the man wants to play, but he sure doesn't want pay?

 

Do you know how many women are infected with HPV because loyalty is a trait that many men don't seem to have.

 

How many women are infected with HSV - 2 and HSV 1 because Jon there just had to get with the party girl.

 

Do you want me to continue?

 

Is this hateful? No, only reality.

Great post!

My only issue with men is their tendency to play victim when fact is, most of life is geared to please men and make their life easier.

Where? It sure isn't in family court where I saw many men get raked over the coles even though the woman cheated and screwed him over.

Sweden women have done a very good job at raising young men. Do you have a problem with how things are working in Sweden?

If you think a bunch of misandrists who hate men removing all male influence from a boy's life will somehow result in creating a generation of great men you are seriously deluded.

Great post!

If I recall you said once that you were a man. I have a word of advice for you if you were. No matter how much of a good man you think you are and how much you might think women love a misandrist will always turn you and any other man around them. Eventually you will say or do a wrong thing that angers them and you will just be another patriarchal oppressor in their eyes.

If you think a bunch of misandrists who hate men removing all male influence from a boy's life will somehow result in creating a generation of great men you are seriously deluded.

You are so confused.

No one hates men. You haven't been paying attention.

You are so confused.

 

No one hates men. You haven't been paying attention.

Her bitterness towards the other sex just shines through in her posts. I get crap for paying things much less hateful than that.

Yes, money. A man suffers a loss of money.A woman, living a bad marriage/divorce suffers a loss of health and time. Don't forget that women can't jump back into the dating pool because women have to take care of the child 24/7 and that's no easy task especially when you have to work and keep your house.

 

Most men can get a new girlfriend a few weeks after the divorce. Try being a woman. Most QUALITY males aren't interested in you because they think you're damaged goods or that some crazy ex is around.

Most divorces are initiated by women so they take whatever baggage goes along with that.

Also women and that includes divorcees can easily get a man if they want. Most divorces women I know go a little wild and have no trouble playing around with various men and I have no doubt that if they wanted to make something more one of these men it would be very easy.

If I recall you said once that you were a man. I have a word of advice for you if you were. No matter how much of a good man you think you are and how much you might think women love a misandrist will always turn you and any other man around them. Eventually you will say or do a wrong thing that angers them and you will just be another patriarchal oppressor in their eyes.

The difference being...I love my wife. She can be sooooooo wrong, and I love her.

She knows it. We pick our battles round here. One day she's wrong, next day I am...

The difference being...I love my wife. She can be sooooooo wrong, and I love her.

 

She knows it. We pick our battles round here. One day she's wrong, next day I am...

I love my wife as well but she actually likes men and is not some bitter misandrist who reserves some minimal affection to men who hate their own gender. The former loves a man as a man and does not condemn an entire gender while the latter hates a gender and any man she might let will eventually screw up in her eyes and be cast of with the rest of the scum. Is your wife the former or the latter. That will determine how well your marriage does.

So now the Scandinavians hate men? Do tell how Scandinavia managed to be the richest area of the world and how most Swedish males don't move away from their Countries? Why is it that most couples in Sweden are of Swedish blood, why am I not seeing Swedish males(or Scandinavians for that matter) complaining of how "evil" Scandinavian/European women are?

 

Scandinavia is a great example of what women can do. Funny how Scandinavia went from being nothing special to this very developed region.

 

How did they manage that? Oh, they decided to vote women to power, and we've done a very good job at it.

As fas as I know Scandinavia is not populated by a bunch of fatherless kids. A better example would be poor black communities in America which have been hit very hard by fatherlessness.

Apply logic. Why was the act of divorce so alien to the decades before our own? Because women who didn't marry or divorced a man were treated like scum. Women couldn't have jobs or have their own families, they were victims of men who traded money and a house for sex and children.

 

Guess what? Nowadays women have the power to make choices. I am not sure where you got that "women are responsible for most divorces", but let me tell you that the divorces I know of were indeed caused by women - battered women.

 

Neglected women. Raped women. And so forth.

75% of divorces are initiated by women. This is fact and many of them are not because any mistreatment but because she needs to find herself or she is bored or whatever. A woman has the right to do that as man does but don't blame your ex when life is not a never ending episode of SATC after the divorce.

Some women think that men are superfluous. They dont need us. Now that women can buy our sperm, use a turkey baster, artificially inseminate or whatever. In fact, the law is set up in many states so women can get impregnated by us, never let us see our kids and in some cases even take our money after that.

I have even heard from some women, that men are replaceable. That women dont need men. This is the biggest lie of all. The reason it is the biggest lie of all is because, the very women who say they dont need us. Have no problem taking alimony or child support, happily let us buy them drinks, buy them dinner, and ask them out on dates. They try to scoop up compliments from us as much as they possibly can, women are hooked to us like heroin junkies.

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They dont want to have to answer to us or fulfill our needs in any way, but do they need us? Women need us badly. When I see a hot chic in a high end luxury car, im not thinking to myself, goddamn she must be a successful realtor or ceo.

Women need men, women are addicted to men. Now of course there are exceptions, you do have your lesbians, but even they need our sperm.

Have you ever thought that it has nothing to do with being fatherless but how the black community is still being badly treated by the govt?

The fatherlessness is many cases a result of how badly the black community is treated. Years ago slaveowners used to remove fathers from families and turn the men and women against each other in order to weaken the family structure which in turn weakened the race. There is even a book by Willie Lynch called How to make a slave which talks about this in detail. If you look at many men these days in these communities who have fallen through the cracks the pain of fatherlessness is obvious. The same thing that wealthy and elitist white women promote as the ultimate middle finger towards the patriarchy was once used as a tactic of genocide yet this is something that should be celebrated?

Is it a fact known to men who hate women or is this a national fact?

It is proven statistics. Look them up.

Have you ever thought that it has nothing to do with being fatherless but how the black community is still being badly treated by the govt?

 

Wow, really? Why the hell would anyone ever depend on the govt?

Hi, I am from the govt, I am here to save you and everything will immediately improve in your life.

In reality unless a person wants a child nobody needs anybody for anything but I do think life is better when two halves of the population do not hate each other but I know radical feminists do not see it the same way. I really think we shoud give them an island and a bunch of sperm where they go and create the all womyn utopia they want.

If you are happy then more power to you. You still never addressed my post before on the effects of fatherlessness on black America which is something that elitist white women seem to admire for some reason.

Fatherlesseness on black America is a reality because many of those black fathers ran away to be with another woman. Many also never wanted anything to do with the mother of the child, just sex. The govt. still treats the black man badly and that results in lack of interest/capacity to be a good father.

That is the gist of it though it is much more complex than that but this lack of male role models certainly has not been good for young men so what makes you think it will be good for the sons of elitist white women who want to give the middle finger to the male gender?