Building a Perfect Man

Actually, whoever I'm in love with at the moment is perfect to me.

No kidding. That's exactly it. Anything I add to this thread for the "perfect man" will just be describing the guy I'm dating.

Come on ladies, you can dig up a few more traits! Once again, I do have a reason for this thread besides it being a fun thread.

He's patient & even-tempered (no road rage!).

So how many more do you need before we get to move to round 2? I'm soooo curious....

On the surface he's a typical guy who hates chick flicks and most things mushy, but underneath he's a secret romantic when he connects with the right woman. His sweet tenderness comes out in your presence.

He is fiercely loyal and protective of those he cares about.

On the surface he's a typical guy who hates chick flicks and most things mushy, but underneath he's a secret romantic when he connects with the right woman. His sweet tenderness comes out in your presence.

lol that actually describes me pretty well.

All right, TBF. You're makin' me pull out my Bottom Line List and go nuts with it.

My perfect man is:

Tall, strong, can handle me as though I'm a feather.

Verbally expressive of his emotions.

Forever loyal and faithful.

Smart, magnetic, multifaceted.

Fun.

An excellent conversationalist.

Assertive, capable of getting things done.

Supportive both emotionally and practically, there for me.

Financially self-sufficient.

Passionate, true to his ideals, principled.

Good with people.

Solid, reliable, not flaky.

Flexible, adaptable.

Light-hearted and always ready to enjoy life.

He would never post on a forum like Loveshack, and if his girlfriend does he sees it as her silly thing.

We can stop now, if you ladies are finished.

1. He must be kick-arse intelligent, putting all other men and women to shame but be so incredible, that he can explain anything in simple terms.
   
2. has integrity
   
3. He should have the sexual skills and fortitude of some kind of Kama Sutra-wizard/ninja, and be able to lick his own forehead.
   
4. he must be able to consider you one of the boys, but always treat you like a lady, and woe betide any other guy who takes liberties or insults you in any way.....
   
5. He must be crazy about me.
   
6. He puts the toilet seat back down. Extra points for closing the lid, too.
   
7. He is beautiful, self-sufficient, loves what I do and what I am about, is attracted to me, doesn't bug me and most importantly:Makes me happy!
   
8. Doesn't have a huge interest in interior design - specifically when it differs so drastically from mine. "Look honey I got this dreadful, tacky display unit at a car boot sale, won't it look great in the corner?"
   
9. He must be the perfect size for my tastes!
   
10. Has good communication skills!
    
11. He doesn't have a chip on his shoulder. (Whoah, dealbreaker city!)
    
12. baggage is checked at the door. No past drama still in his life!
    
13. Seriously, he shouldn't expect me to be perfect, and shouldn't be perfect himself. I don't want a Ken doll, I like some quirks.
    
14. Refer to post #20, for CLC's preferences!
    
15. He has thick, defined eyebrows and beautifully intense, large eyes that alternate between alert and contemplative.
    
16. He comes from a perfect, large, well-to-do family. They have three homes. In January they all retreat to their beautiful cabin in the mountains where they spend the days skiing. At night they come home and collapse onto giant pillowy, leather couches in front of a huge fireplace, sipping hot cocoa, telling stories and playing music into the night.
    
17. He has an amazingly sharp, dry wit. Brilliant barbs constantly fall off his tongue.
    
18. He must know his car-flesh and drive a better performance car than mine!
    
19. He must be just like Jake Sully...even if he's blue and nine feet tall with a tail.
    
20. He doesn't dominate the conversation, but when he does open his mouth whatever comes out is absolutely brilliant and pertinent, usually eliciting a knowing smile or laugh from those around him.
    
21. He is 6'2", 170 lbs, trim, toned body, broad, square shoulders, everything in perfect proportion.
    
22. He has an immaculate man shaft that is so well crafted it could be mold for a dildo.
    
23. His face is very handsome, but not so ridiculously perfect that he gets oodles of female attention.
    
24. When lots of super-attractive women fall over themselves to get his attention, he only has eyes for you.
     
    
25. attractive feet
     
    
26. Must never have cheated, been an OM, slept with an outrageous number of women, no ONSes or FWBs.
    
27. Good with his hands
    
28. Always know what I want so much so I don't have to ask for it
    
29. He knows you're his equal in every way and are completely capable of providing for yourself, but he still loves pampering you like a princess, just as you love treating him like your prince.
    
30. He is compassionate. Stops to talk to the homeless guy on the street & will return a lost dog who is far from home. Believes that people (both genders) are basically good.
    
31. He loves to perform *bleep* (oral) on you for 2.5 hours...
    
32. A classic dresser, who wears his clothing with confidence.
    
33. You're the only woman he has and will ever be fully in love with, because you're perfect for each other.
    
34. His feet smell like roses.
    
35. Is nice to kids and makes your heart melt when he cuddles them or plays games with them
    
36. He's does not think all woman are beautiful.. just ME.
    
37. He is reliable.
    
38. Has a deep, sexy voice and big, strong hands.
    
39. He makes the effort to master my G-spot and sexual pleasure points head to toe, and consistently does his part to transform me into a wildcat in bed.
    
40. He keeps his promises.
    
41. His favorite part about sex is pleasuring his partner. He takes pride in his prowess. He is a confident lover.
    
42. He has a nice thick cock
    
43. Despite whatever job he actually does, he is also a very capable carpenter and could build a house with you.
    
44. Can lead you around the dance floor.
    
45. Doesn't get complacent in the bedroom.
    
46. Automatically knows your taste in jewelry, perfume, and clothing.
    
47. He's patient & even-tempered (no road rage!).
    
48. On the surface he's a typical guy who hates chick flicks and most things mushy, but underneath he's a secret romantic when he connects with the right woman. His sweet tenderness comes out in your presence.
    
49. He is fiercely loyal and protective of those he cares about.
    
50. Treats me with respect and courtesy.
    
51. Is comfortable, confident in social situations and enjoys them, especially with family and friends, but is fine on his own.
    
52. Has a passion for his career.
    

He represents this song.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QS4VKa1zpVc

Nice ones, Ruby! We can't forget those.

1. He must be kick-arse intelligent, putting all other men and women to shame but be so incredible, that he can explain anything in simple terms.
   
2. has integrity
   
3. He should have the sexual skills and fortitude of some kind of Kama Sutra-wizard/ninja, and be able to lick his own forehead.
   
4. he must be able to consider you one of the boys, but always treat you like a lady, and woe betide any other guy who takes liberties or insults you in any way.....
   
5. He must be crazy about me.
   
6. He puts the toilet seat back down. Extra points for closing the lid, too.
   
7. He is beautiful, self-sufficient, loves what I do and what I am about, is attracted to me, doesn't bug me and most importantly:Makes me happy!
   
8. Doesn't have a huge interest in interior design - specifically when it differs so drastically from mine. "Look honey I got this dreadful, tacky display unit at a car boot sale, won't it look great in the corner?"
   
9. He must be the perfect size for my tastes!
   
10. Has good communication skills!
    
11. He doesn't have a chip on his shoulder. (Whoah, dealbreaker city!)
    
12. baggage is checked at the door. No past drama still in his life!
    
13. Seriously, he shouldn't expect me to be perfect, and shouldn't be perfect himself. I don't want a Ken doll, I like some quirks.
    
14. Refer to post #20, for CLC's preferences!
    
15. He has thick, defined eyebrows and beautifully intense, large eyes that alternate between alert and contemplative.
    
16. He comes from a perfect, large, well-to-do family. They have three homes. In January they all retreat to their beautiful cabin in the mountains where they spend the days skiing. At night they come home and collapse onto giant pillowy, leather couches in front of a huge fireplace, sipping hot cocoa, telling stories and playing music into the night.
    
17. He has an amazingly sharp, dry wit. Brilliant barbs constantly fall off his tongue.
    
18. He must know his car-flesh and drive a better performance car than mine!
    
19. He must be just like Jake Sully...even if he's blue and nine feet tall with a tail.
    
20. He doesn't dominate the conversation, but when he does open his mouth whatever comes out is absolutely brilliant and pertinent, usually eliciting a knowing smile or laugh from those around him.
    
21. He is 6'2", 170 lbs, trim, toned body, broad, square shoulders, everything in perfect proportion.
    
22. He has an immaculate man shaft that is so well crafted it could be mold for a dildo.
    
23. His face is very handsome, but not so ridiculously perfect that he gets oodles of female attention.
    
24. When lots of super-attractive women fall over themselves to get his attention, he only has eyes for you.
     
    
25. attractive feet
     
    
26. Must never have cheated, been an OM, slept with an outrageous number of women, no ONSes or FWBs.
    
27. Good with his hands
    
28. Always know what I want so much so I don't have to ask for it
    
29. He knows you're his equal in every way and are completely capable of providing for yourself, but he still loves pampering you like a princess, just as you love treating him like your prince.
    
30. He is compassionate. Stops to talk to the homeless guy on the street & will return a lost dog who is far from home. Believes that people (both genders) are basically good.
    
31. He loves to perform *bleep* (oral) on you for 2.5 hours...
    
32. A classic dresser, who wears his clothing with confidence.
    
33. You're the only woman he has and will ever be fully in love with, because you're perfect for each other.
    
34. His feet smell like roses.
    
35. Is nice to kids and makes your heart melt when he cuddles them or plays games with them
    
36. He's does not think all woman are beautiful.. just ME.
    
37. He is reliable.
    
38. Has a deep, sexy voice and big, strong hands.
    
39. He makes the effort to master my G-spot and sexual pleasure points head to toe, and consistently does his part to transform me into a wildcat in bed.
    
40. He keeps his promises.
    
41. His favorite part about sex is pleasuring his partner. He takes pride in his prowess. He is a confident lover.
    
42. He has a nice thick cock
    
43. Despite whatever job he actually does, he is also a very capable carpenter and could build a house with you.
    
44. Can lead you around the dance floor.
    
45. Doesn't get complacent in the bedroom.
    
46. Automatically knows your taste in jewelry, perfume, and clothing.
    
47. Tall, strong, can handle me as though I'm a feather.
    
48. Verbally expressive of his emotions.
    
49. Forever loyal and faithful.
    
50. Smart, magnetic, multifaceted.
    
51. Fun.
    
52. An excellent conversationalist.
    
53. Assertive, capable of getting things done.
    
54. Supportive both emotionally and practically, there for me.
    
55. Financially self-sufficient.
    
56. Passionate, true to his ideals, principled.
    
57. Good with people.
    
58. Solid, reliable, not flaky.
    
59. Flexible, adaptable.
    
60. Light-hearted and always ready to enjoy life Tall, strong, can handle me as though I'm a feather.
    

He represents this song.

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QS4VKa1zpVc

Okay, you! I'm not listening to Peter Cetera and that's final!

Okay, you! I'm not listening to Peter Cetera and that's final!

But it's the theme from the Karate Kid!

But it's the theme from the Karate Kid!

Yeh, I don't think my perfect guy would be represented by that song.

Yeh, I don't think my perfect guy would be represented by that song.

Who do you like, Thrashers?

Who do you like, Thrashers?

 

No, something more along the lines of this (not the way the band looks, just the song itself. It's incredibly romantic and not in a sappy way):

No, something more along the lines of this (not the way the band looks, just the song itself. It's incredibly romantic and not in a sappy way):

 

Oh I concur, love love this song.

Good song, shadow. The Cure are an excellent band.

I just thought of two more, while the two of you were busy duking it out with representative songs.

1. He must be kick-arse intelligent, putting all other men and women to shame but be so incredible, that he can explain anything in simple terms.
   
2. has integrity
   
3. He should have the sexual skills and fortitude of some kind of Kama Sutra-wizard/ninja, and be able to lick his own forehead.
   
4. he must be able to consider you one of the boys, but always treat you like a lady, and woe betide any other guy who takes liberties or insults you in any way.....
   
5. He must be crazy about me.
   
6. He puts the toilet seat back down. Extra points for closing the lid, too.
   
7. He is beautiful, self-sufficient, loves what I do and what I am about, is attracted to me, doesn't bug me and most importantly:Makes me happy!
   
8. Doesn't have a huge interest in interior design - specifically when it differs so drastically from mine. "Look honey I got this dreadful, tacky display unit at a car boot sale, won't it look great in the corner?"
   
9. He must be the perfect size for my tastes!
   
10. Has good communication skills!
    
11. He doesn't have a chip on his shoulder. (Whoah, dealbreaker city!)
    
12. baggage is checked at the door. No past drama still in his life!
    
13. Seriously, he shouldn't expect me to be perfect, and shouldn't be perfect himself. I don't want a Ken doll, I like some quirks.
    
14. Refer to post #20, for CLC's preferences!
    
15. He has thick, defined eyebrows and beautifully intense, large eyes that alternate between alert and contemplative.
    
16. He comes from a perfect, large, well-to-do family. They have three homes. In January they all retreat to their beautiful cabin in the mountains where they spend the days skiing. At night they come home and collapse onto giant pillowy, leather couches in front of a huge fireplace, sipping hot cocoa, telling stories and playing music into the night.
    
17. He has an amazingly sharp, dry wit. Brilliant barbs constantly fall off his tongue.
    
18. He must know his car-flesh and drive a better performance car than mine!
    
19. He must be just like Jake Sully...even if he's blue and nine feet tall with a tail.
    
20. He doesn't dominate the conversation, but when he does open his mouth whatever comes out is absolutely brilliant and pertinent, usually eliciting a knowing smile or laugh from those around him.
    
21. He is 6'2", 170 lbs, trim, toned body, broad, square shoulders, everything in perfect proportion.
    
22. He has an immaculate man shaft that is so well crafted it could be mold for a dildo.
    
23. His face is very handsome, but not so ridiculously perfect that he gets oodles of female attention.
    
24. When lots of super-attractive women fall over themselves to get his attention, he only has eyes for you.
     
    
25. attractive feet
     
    
26. Must never have cheated, been an OM, slept with an outrageous number of women, no ONSes or FWBs.
    
27. Good with his hands
    
28. Always know what I want so much so I don't have to ask for it
    
29. He knows you're his equal in every way and are completely capable of providing for yourself, but he still loves pampering you like a princess, just as you love treating him like your prince.
    
30. He is compassionate. Stops to talk to the homeless guy on the street & will return a lost dog who is far from home. Believes that people (both genders) are basically good.
    
31. He loves to perform *bleep* (oral) on you for 2.5 hours...
    
32. A classic dresser, who wears his clothing with confidence.
    
33. You're the only woman he has and will ever be fully in love with, because you're perfect for each other.
    
34. His feet smell like roses.
    
35. Is nice to kids and makes your heart melt when he cuddles them or plays games with them
    
36. He's does not think all woman are beautiful.. just ME.
    
37. He is reliable.
    
38. Has a deep, sexy voice and big, strong hands.
    
39. He makes the effort to master my G-spot and sexual pleasure points head to toe, and consistently does his part to transform me into a wildcat in bed.
    
40. He keeps his promises.
    
41. His favorite part about sex is pleasuring his partner. He takes pride in his prowess. He is a confident lover.
    
42. He has a nice thick cock
    
43. Despite whatever job he actually does, he is also a very capable carpenter and could build a house with you.
    
44. Can lead you around the dance floor.
    
45. Doesn't get complacent in the bedroom.
    
46. Automatically knows your taste in jewelry, perfume, and clothing.
    
47. Tall, strong, can handle me as though I'm a feather.
    
48. Verbally expressive of his emotions.
    
49. Forever loyal and faithful.
    
50. Smart, magnetic, multifaceted.
    
51. Fun.
    
52. An excellent conversationalist.
    
53. Assertive, capable of getting things done.
    
54. Supportive both emotionally and practically, there for me.
    
55. Financially self-sufficient.
    
56. Passionate, true to his ideals, principled.
    
57. Good with people.
    
58. Solid, reliable, not flaky.
    
59. Flexible, adaptable.
    
60. Light-hearted and always ready to enjoy life Tall, strong, can handle me as though I'm a feather.
    
61. A man who can give, as well as receive. In essence, a reasonably unselfish man.
    
62. Fiscally responsible.
    

Fine, I will remove Peter Cetera from the table and replace it with:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pci3zK48cXU

Fine, I will remove Peter Cetera from the table and replace it with:

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pci3zK48cXU

 

I like this one better

I think I am the perfect man in terms of personality. To quote a girl I thought loved me but has been missing for 3 weeks () , I am "manly, sensitive, loving, intelligent, and just amazed" that I can be all this at once.

It's obvious other traits, particularly being tall and rich, come way before any personality traits. It's just the awful truth. Atleast in the perfect woman thread men tell the truth.

The "how to be a perfect girl" thread, made me think of this. Okay, ladies, it's your turn to build a "perfect man". Throw out your suggestions and I'll consolidate the list. Remember...this is a thread to create the "perfect man", rather than being politically correct. Have some fun!

 

 

To get the list going:

1. He must be kick-arse intelligent, putting all other men and women to shame but be so incredible, that he can explain anything in simple terms.
   

1. Incredibly sexy with a great smile.

2. Innovative thinker with some balls and gusto

3. A leader

4. Witty, silly, can turn me red with laughter

5. Sensitive, emotional, sweet and mooshy, loving and affectionate

6. Keep me thinking about him for hours after he's gone, making me laugh thinking back on his (crap, forgot the word ) his something-isms.

7. Sexy, manly hands and voice. Puuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

8. Someone I can talk to all day and not feel sick of him

Oh I already have all those things in my man. Guess I'll keep him!

His powerful wings should be in graceful proportion to his muscular Adonis-like torso, and he should be easily strong enough to carry me with him when he springs from the rooftop and soars across the horizon.

...What?

I lol'd

 

 

6'2 170 pounds?

 

I like how women claim they want a tall guy because it is "biological" and means they will be a better protector, and yet completely contradict themselves by saying they want the guy to be a beanpole. Ridiculous.

I was actually going to mention that.

I am considered to be pretty thin myself at 5'7 and 145 lbs, I can't imagine a guy 6'2 and 170 lbs is very strong looking/ or at all. I don't think being very muscular is as important as being tall. There are tall guys I've beaten in fights before but it doesn't make women see me any more protective, at the end of the day they are still tall and have magic tall man powers.

There isn't a single woman posting on this thread who is a good match for such a guy. Most are so insecure they could never act right around him. And most don't have similar character/physical traits to match him. Given that you're describing a guy you probably couldn't even be with, is he really perfect?

That's why it's an ideal male companion! I think it's just fun for both guys and ladies to think about their "perfect" mate. There's no harm in that. It encourages us to improve ourselves as well, because to be able to attract the perfect partner, we have to be pretty damn good ourselves.