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Old 8th March 2019, 2:48 PM   #16
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Hi Folks, the only one who is a winner in this sorry tale is the OP's first husband who divorced her after she cheated. He is the one who got away and now must be thanking his lucky stars! The other two people in this sad saga are on a one way trip to doomsday. This relationship lacks the basic foundations on which a solid bond can be built namely, trust and love. One can only wish them the best in the circumstances.
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Old 5th April 2019, 8:32 PM   #17
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I just feel sorry for the husband whom you screwed over the first time. on the plus side... He is the luckiest guy in the world to be away from a screwed up person like yourself. I am surprised you that you find this surprising considering the web you wove!
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Old 5th April 2019, 8:40 PM   #18
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Truly, there's a reason most couples choose monogamy. Not that they don't have urges, certainly. But if you know you want to multidate, then simply do not get married or commit to anyone. It's only going to be a big mess every time.
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Old 20th May 2019, 12:35 PM   #19
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Well I'm not going to bash you. I have done far worse things.

But have you stopped to consider that maybe being in a committed relationship is just not for you? Are you sure monogamy is your thing? Why is it so important to have a steady boyfriend or husband? Why not just live free and sleep with whomever you want when you want?
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