Confused48 Posted December 29, 2013 Share Posted December 29, 2013 From Aliveagain: Only you can decide if reconciliation is worth it. Some can never forgive infidelity and is an absolute deal breaker as it was for me, some will think things through and decide that forgiveness is their path, again only you can make that decision. Get help, don't try and fix this on your own, none of us are experts on this site so don't accept all your being told as gospel. We have all been where you are now, some still are, some of us have divorced and moved on but what I can tell you regardless of the path you choose, they both hurt like hell. So many nuggets of wisdom in this. Thanks Alive. It is interesting to hear from someone for whom infidelity is a deal breaker, yet they believe it is, respectably, not so for everyone. I mean sure there are a lot of posters here who say, ok for you but I'd never reconcile. And you just know they mean bc they think they are better than you. I sense that is not what Alive is saying. Its more, just not right for Alive. I appreciate hearing about issues from this sort of point of view. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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