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Old 8th July 2018, 12:35 PM   #16
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Hello, Central:

Hello, hello:

You seem very knowledgeable about this lifestyle.

Join a swinger site and search your vacation area. Great idea
Longer term FWB or poly relationships are more difficult. Yet, for hubby and I, a longterm or poly relationship would be more desirable.

You'd be looking for the same kinds of compatibilities and attraction as in your current relationship. Very valid points, plus would prefer a man 5 to 10 years younger than hubby and I.
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Old 28th July 2018, 3:09 PM   #17
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MWC early stage of wife having a FWB

Hello, happily married white couple, educated, professional and very much in love, open communication with no hidden agendas.

Both my husband and I are in shape an attractive and get along on all levels from sex to our interests and hobbies. We married young, had our family young and just recently entered the empty nester stage.

The one issue that my hubby and I have as at teacher a have lots of time off such as 9 weeks off for summer vacation. On the other hand my hubby is a corporate worker working long hours year around with minimal vacation time.

With my time off in the past I spent raising the family, now as an empty nesters I have a bit too much downtime on my hands sitting around waiting for my husband to get home. Yes I try to keep active and productive but a few months ago my hubby and I started talking about the idea of me having a male friend to be an activity partner in my spare time and to include sex.

One of the many great qualities my hubby has is he has zero jealousy that has always been a positive for the marriage.

Through a good friend of mine I have met Greg, 10 years younger than I, handsome, tall, professional type with a pleasant personality, Italian and divorced. Hubby and I both agree that Greg is an excellent match for what we are looking for. With hubby full knowledge and consent I have been bicycling with Greg and having lunch together. Greg and I are at the mild flirting stage with a few hugs and kisses. I have been upfront with Greg telling him I am looking for a long term friend and activity partner which he is fully onboard with.

So I hope I explained my background and situation well enough to hear back from the members of this forum constructive feedback and even better yet other married couples who have tried something like this.

Just to point out my hubby has no interest in having a female FWB, and although I have not had sex with Greg yet that is coming soon. Thanks Blonde Kim
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Old 28th July 2018, 4:04 PM   #18
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I am in an open relationship (18 years), and we both see others, at least occasionally. It has worked well for us, because we are very careful of each others' feelings.

So, yes, this can work. Just be careful to never take you husband for granted, don't neglect him in favor of anyone else, and be very aware of any reservations he may have, but not express. Deal with those kindly and compassionately, and I think it will all be okay.
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Old 13th August 2018, 9:00 AM   #19
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Hi Lady, from all that you have posted it looks like you are well on your way to becoming a Hotwife. You can Google the definition if you are not familiar with it. If you really want meaningful feedback and advice about the kind of play you want to partake of then I would say that you should visit Hotwife websites where you will get all the advice and encouragement to help you slip into that scene with the least amount of trouble and bad experiences.

Just to clarify, I have no personal experience of this alternative lifestyle except what I have gathered from the net. I would only add one word of warning. 'Be careful what you wish for, it may just come true! Best wishes.
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