Aurie Posted January 12, 2016 Share Posted January 12, 2016 Hi there. I'm new here, so bear with me. My husband & I have a good marriage. He has my permission to sleep with another woman, as long as he clears it with me first. He and my best friend have slept together a few times. I'm totally ok with this because my libido is shot & most of the time, I'm just not interested. And then Saturday night rolled around & I went to bed early, excited for a full night's sleep. (i work full time & we've got young children, so this is rare.) Around 3am, they both came in pawing at me & I was seriously annoyed. He kept trying to get me to kiss my friend, but I'm just not into women. I can't help it. And I especially don't want to kiss my best friend who's like a sister. So a few days have passed, and I realize I'm angry. They both know how I don't want to be included unless it's just me watching. But don't deprive me of much needed sleep & try to make me do something I don't want to do. Now how can I nicely tell my hubby & bff that I'm pissed & never try that **** again? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted January 12, 2016 Share Posted January 12, 2016 Just straight up tell them. Considering how open you all are about sex, words shouldn't be that tough. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted January 12, 2016 Share Posted January 12, 2016 Now how can I nicely tell my hubby & bff that I'm pissed & never try that **** again? Just tell them what you said above. Sounds pretty clear to me. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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