tanzer67 Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 I recently discovered that my husband made an appointment with an escort agency on my birthday. I also discovered an email address for a freelance escort in the US. I suspect the appointment on my birthday isn't the first time. I've confronted him about it. We're going into couples counselling but I feel so betrayed and humiliated, right now, and experiencing panic attacks. Part of me wants to work it out, the other part wants to say screw it. Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 Marriage counseling to figure out, to your humiliation, why he cheated on you? I would never waste money and time on a cheater. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 That is so very disrespectful to you and unloving and uncaring. On your birthday no less. Time to call the divorce lawyer and free yourself from this asswad. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SJS Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 Why do you suspect this wasn't the first time? How long have you been married? Wishing you the best of luck in whatever decision you choose. Link to post Share on other sites
Smilecharmer Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 It is one thing to do this despicable thing but another to do it on your birthday. That was a blatant slap in your face or a revenge screw for something he holds against you and resents you for. You don't need a Therapist, you need an Attorney and a good one at that. Some things can be forgiven but not something so calculated to wound you. Link to post Share on other sites
jackslife Posted July 8, 2014 Share Posted July 8, 2014 Why would be my question. Why did your husband feel the need to go to an escort? What is going on in the marriage that made him feel the need to do that? I think that MC should definitely be your first choice. Find out the why then decide. Link to post Share on other sites
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