sparkles_80s Posted July 21, 2018 Share Posted July 21, 2018 I think my online friend is catfishing himself pretending to have a hot older woman chasing him in a group chat but when we bring up about them meeting they 'both' get defensive. They also come online at the same time and alternate. She sends pictures of her expensive things and cars which I find very odd. I am the only female in this chat apart from her. If I flirt or talk to the other guys he gets nasty and jealous. I just find it odd a hot rich model type who lives very far from him would behave highly interested in a plain poor guy like him right away. Then come online at the same time. We've all spoke on video calls except for her. So all my friends are legit Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 21, 2018 Share Posted July 21, 2018 What's your question, OP? You might be right that he's invented her. It sounds very juvenile, whatever the case really is. Just ignore it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkles_80s Posted July 22, 2018 Author Share Posted July 22, 2018 Sorry I should have wrote a question. I wanted to know what other people thought Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 22, 2018 Share Posted July 22, 2018 Sorry I should have wrote a question. I wanted to know what other people thought About what, specifically? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkles_80s Posted July 23, 2018 Author Share Posted July 23, 2018 If it's possible he is catfishing himself Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 23, 2018 Share Posted July 23, 2018 If it's possible he is catfishing himself Anything is possible. If you think he's doing it, then call BS on the whole thing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 23, 2018 Share Posted July 23, 2018 If it's possible he is catfishing himself Sure, it's possible. If so, it's juvenile and I would just ignore it - as I said in my first post on this thread. Why does it matter to you? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author sparkles_80s Posted July 24, 2018 Author Share Posted July 24, 2018 Because it's strange behaviour & we're all taking to 'both' of them. I have left the chat & unfriended them both ? Link to post Share on other sites
glows Posted July 27, 2018 Share Posted July 27, 2018 Stop hanging out so much in online chat rooms! If you haven't met someone in person or connected on a real time level, they're not your friend and you don't actually know them. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted August 4, 2018 Share Posted August 4, 2018 Well, he sounds awful, so why don't you just stop talking to him? He's trying to make you jealous and he's jealous and doesn't even really know you. I'm assuming you've never dated. Correct me if I'm wrong. There is no reason this woman would be into him, so he's doing this thinking it will make you want him or getting back at you. It sounds unhealthy and no good can come of it, so why not just block him and stay away from that chat. Link to post Share on other sites
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