Emma1234 Posted January 20, 2015 Share Posted January 20, 2015 We've been close for a long time. He moved countries a few months ago and we cut off contact. He initiated contact about 2 months ago and we have since seen each other where i live. I now have flights to go and see him at the end of next month but i don't know what to do I'm crazy about him i really really am I can't imagine being with anyone else but this is so hard. It's hard because we haven't explicitly said we're in a relationship and because my life is about to change as I'm graduating soon and I have no idea where I'll be. I can't base my life around him and move to where he is because I'm so unsure of 'us'. any advice would so very helpful, i feel stuck and I don't know whether to communicate any of this to him or wait it out until the end of feb? Thank you so much Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 21, 2015 Share Posted January 21, 2015 The relationship you have is the relationship you have. It will not magically morph into the relationship you want to have. You either want what you have or you don't. I suspect that you don't want what you have. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted January 21, 2015 Share Posted January 21, 2015 I'm crazy about him i really really am Are you Limerent? Link to post Share on other sites
spanz1 Posted January 22, 2015 Share Posted January 22, 2015 you do not have to "cut it off". but you should be dating freely with others, and just date him the occasions that he is in town. Link to post Share on other sites
compulsivedancer Posted January 23, 2015 Share Posted January 23, 2015 Maybe you should talk to him about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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