Logo Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 I can attract a woman, I can hold an interesting conversation for hours on end. I've been told I'm handsome. I'm in good shape and relatively tall compared to other men. But flirting? I don't think I'm good at it. I can do 0 to 3, that's mild teasing and joking around to 8 to 10, not very subtle at all. I need to be between 4 to 6 when I'm talking to a woman. So I either go from self deprecating jokes to ending up making fun of the other person and she gets offended because my teasing is probably too much. Is there a general guideline I can follow? Some way to practice in a "safe" environment? A book I can read? A video I can watch? In short, I don't do playful very well. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 Youtube........................................ What works is friendly banter, and wit. BUT body language is key. Link to post Share on other sites
MetallicHue Posted August 9, 2019 Share Posted August 9, 2019 I’m of the mindset that you can pretty much joke with anyone. Even friends. I’ve sometimes been told my jokes are too harsh too. I think friendly conversation can be an opportunity to try things out with an easy audience. Link to post Share on other sites
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