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Going on a date with a girl from work but she barely talks in front of other guys.

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Old 30th September 2015, 6:18 PM   #1
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Going on a date with a girl from work but she barely talks in front of other guys.

The title says most of it. We have hung out for the past two Mondays and I asked her if next time could be a date and she said yes. Things are great when were together. At work we can't really talk much but if were around girls she works with she will talk to me, but if we're around guys she doesn't. She kind of talks to them more. We haven't told anyone we're going out because its work. But why would she act like that?
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Old 30th September 2015, 6:20 PM   #2
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It's called being an attention seeker. Don't waste time with a chick who will be talking to you one minute and then ignoring you once another penis enters the vicinity.
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Old 1st October 2015, 4:59 AM   #3
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Originally Posted by jr4298 View Post
I asked her if next time could be a date
Not smooth, dude! Don't ask... do!

But yeah, seems that when other girls are around she wants to claim you as hers, keeping all the other girls away. But when guys are around she wants to keep her options open. That doesn't strike me as very classy.
"Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so."
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Old 1st October 2015, 12:18 PM   #4
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You're probably being weird and over reacting.

Maybe she doesn't talk to you as much because she really likes you and doesn't want to weird you out bothering you too much.

Also! You aren't dating if you have yet to go on your first real date, you can't be possessive until after she agrees to be your girlfriend.
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Old 1st October 2015, 1:21 PM   #5
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This why I always say, don't date people you work with. Your emotions make you start having negative assumptions when they talk to opposite sex coworkers or customers......kind of like what you are doing now.

You are a fool if you believe that having each others passwords = trust.
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