dana12 Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 My name is Dana, Been dating this guy for about 6 month. We had a few problems with my behavior. Main one: a few month ago, I had a drunk meltdown in his apartment. I started yelling, I locked myself in the bathroom and refused to go out, He then went for a walkout, I thought he is going to hurt himself (he totally wasn’t) Called 9/11 for no reason, then stood at the door facing the core yard, screaming his name I almost got him in problems with his landlord with my iritic behavior. Now he is afraid to have me over and I don’t what to do. P.S there were no drugs, abuse or anything like that involved. Link to post Share on other sites
introverted1 Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 What concrete things are you doing to curb your drinking and change your erratic behavior? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bathtub-row Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 There’s nothing to do as far as he’s concerned. Your behavior was completely off the charts immature and insane, and he’s never going to overlook it. Just do better going forward. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 Don't drink anymore, and seek out a therapist. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 There were drugs involved. Alcohol is a drug. It might be legal but it is still a drug. You need to understand that What do you want your BF to do? What have you done to assure him that you won't do anything like this again. Why did you lock yourself in the bathroom? Why did you immediately think he was going to hurt himself? Most people would think he was simply removing himself from a stressful situation while you calmed down? The problems aren't with your BF. They are your problems. He's just being cautious around somebody he now perceives as volatile, unstable & who could possibly cost him his place to live / freedom. You are lucky he hasn't dumped you outright. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 Most men don't like dealing with a woman who has problems with alcohol. I hate to say it but I can't blame him for ending it. Get therapy and stop drinking you will be much happier. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 Why did you have a drunken meltdown where you put his living arrangement in jeopardy? Do you not have a home where you can do that? My advice is to stop drinking. You can't handle your booze. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
RecentChange Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 I wouldn’t have you back over either. Next time you might get him kicked out. An eviction on his record, thousands of dollars lost. That would be real fun. The cops? Screaming? Why did you get so out of control? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted November 21, 2018 Share Posted November 21, 2018 what was on your mind the very moment before the event? the very moment before was the culprit trigger... Link to post Share on other sites
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