lo3223 Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 Hi everyone, Lately I've been hanging out with a girl who I have known for about 2 years now. We had a little "thing" when we first met, but it never materialized into anything and we sort of just fell out of each others lives until very recently. Anyway I've been noticing a lot in our interactions that she is very heavy with eye contact... heavy as in it seems to be much more than the standard glance and look away thing people typically do when talking. I tested her yesterday by purposely just staring into her eyes when she was talking to me as an attempt to see how she would react. and nothing... She didn't bat an eye, look away awkwardly, or even ask why I was looking at her such a way. instead we just looked into each others eyes pretty much silently for about 30 seconds until she finally looked away. I followed suit but 3 seconds later she was back to making eye contact again. Would this be a sign of anything?
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 What was the context? Where were you? Were you alone? What were you talking about?
Author lo3223 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Posted December 27, 2017 (edited) Thanks for your speedy response. I was at her house. We were the only ones in the room but her mom and sister were elsewhere in the house. Cant exactly remember what we were talking about... just standard run of the mill conversation I imagine. Definitely nothing flirty if that's why you asked. Edit: I should also add that we were sitting about 2 feet from each other when it happened. Edited December 27, 2017 by lo3223
alphamale Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 Would this be a sign of anything? it means that she wants to jump your bones 1
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 Thanks for your speedy response. I was at her house. We were the only ones in the room but her mom and sister were elsewhere in the house. Cant exactly remember what we were talking about... just standard run of the mill conversation I imagine. Definitely nothing flirty if that's why you asked. Edit: I should also add that we were sitting about 2 feet from each other when it happened. Some people have intense eye contact like this just as a way of communicating. I know someone like this and whenever I talk to him I always have to suppress a giggle because it's very distracting (he is like this with everyone). It feels like he's peering into your soul. However, it sounds like this girl likes you and maybe wanted you to kiss her or something, the way she stared at you silently for 30 seconds. Next time, just ask her, "why are you looking so intently at me?" and see what she says.
Author lo3223 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Posted December 27, 2017 it means that she wants to jump your bones With such a candid response and a name like "Alphamale" I'd like to think you are 105% correct in your assertion, however I can't help but sense a hint of sarcasm... 1
Author lo3223 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Posted December 27, 2017 Some people have intense eye contact like this just as a way of communicating. I know someone like this and whenever I talk to him I always have to suppress a giggle because it's very distracting (he is like this with everyone). It feels like he's peering into your soul. However, it sounds like this girl likes you and maybe wanted you to kiss her or something, the way she stared at you silently for 30 seconds. Next time, just ask her, "why are you looking so intently at me?" and see what she says. Yeah this is the thing... I can't say for certain how she is when she interacts with other people. But regardless... looking 20-30 seconds into someone's eyes without so much as a slight glance away and little words is ... interesting.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 Yeah this is the thing... I can't say for certain how she is when she interacts with other people. But regardless... looking 20-30 seconds into someone's eyes without so much as a slight glance away and little words is ... interesting. I agree, unless you've agreed beforehand to play the "staring game"
Nilfiry Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 She could be checking you out, like your expressions, features, and eyes. They say the eyes are the window into the soul after all. Or that could just be how she normally looks at people when she talks to them. I have a coworker who is just like this. The staring can make many uncomfortable, though. I would say think nothing of it because it could literally be nothing. Making assumptions will do you more harm than good anyway.
smackie9 Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 You like her, just ask her out on a date. That is the only way to find out if she is interested in you. 1
alphamale Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 humans stare at things they like or are attracted to
Maggie4 Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 I've been told I make heavy eye contact. I consider it strange to look away, unless we're dealing with dogs. Dogs don't like eye contact.
alphamale Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 Would this be a sign of anything? can you ask this girl out on a date and then let us know how it went?
divegrl Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 It’s a seduction technique. It builds an immediate connection and bond. But I would be wary...... Good luck my friend!!!
worthyweight Posted December 30, 2017 Posted December 30, 2017 Some people say if there is heavy eye contact that mean there is definite interest and perhaps she wants you to initiate something further. Do you have mutual interest? I'd be a little freaked out if a woman stared into my eyes for that long without looking away once or twice, but I seem to recall this type of behavior once or twice. It was hard to say what the reason was, because I know it wasn't due to attraction or interest. Being you are the "alpha male" she might want you to select her.
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