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what are some signs a guy friend (i'm female) is dating but too scared to tell you he is?

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Huh?

 

Why make this more complicated than it needs to be? If a guy wants to be with you, HE WILL!

 

How is it possible to believe a guy who doesn't ask you out, dating other women and not telling you comes out in your head that he wants you?

 

Quit being his friend in the hopes that he will all of a sudden magically realize it was always you that he wanted. Works great in a Disney Movie but it doesn't in real life.

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Huh?

 

Why make this more complicated than it needs to be? If a guy wants to be with you, HE WILL!

 

How is it possible to believe a guy who doesn't ask you out, dating other women and not telling you comes out in your head that he wants you?

 

Quit being his friend in the hopes that he will all of a sudden magically realize it was always you that he wanted. Works great in a Disney Movie but it doesn't in real life.

 

I agree with you but lets play along with the OP's question...

 

Signs:

1) he's less available IRL

2) social media is less accessible

 

What you should do --> ASK HIM!

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It's not much of a friendship if he can't tell you that he is dating somebody.

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How is that "shady"? As just your friend, he doesn't need to tell you until he is ready. You are not committed romantically. If he is holding back from telling you it could be for a variety of reasons. The top two that come to mind are:

1. He doesn't KNOW exactly where this new thing is going yet thus feels no need to announce it to his friends.

2. He senses that you may have feelings for him and doesn't want to hurt you.

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Like anyone that is seeing someone new.....they abandon their friends.

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