donvito Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I was just wondering, I'm 21 years old and always been really attracted to older women like 28+ I'm not really attracted to immature girls my age. So my questions are 1. How do you feel about dating a younger guy (or older women if you'r male) 2. Age difference? (ex w:30 m:24) 3. How did you meet? 4. Any problems with age difference? 5. Any good things things that came out of the relationship? Please don't be offended when I say 28 and above is "old" I'm 21 and I feel like dating anyone above 27 would be a huge difference in age. Sorry if you offended, in an advance. Thanks!
Buddhist Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 (edited) Aren't you the guy desperately trying to get your gf back? Or has that idea lost appeal already? Edited January 7, 2016 by Buddhist 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 No woman in her right mind would date a 21-year-old guy. Unless she's 21 or younger. Then, NEITHER of you are in your right minds. At 21, you are (As Judge Judy would say) not even 'fully-cooked' yet. You aspire to date older women because they're more mature. The problem is - they're more mature. Given that in emotional areas, women mature, and have a head start on guys, any woman YOUR AGE is probably going to be emotionally speaking, 2 years ahead of you. Biologically, women DO mature in emotional areas, much earlier than guys (you trump ladies in other areas, but we're dealing with emotions here, so....) Therefore there's little or no hope or chance of you dating an older woman because trust me, 7 years at your age, tells, and how. She would be a 'cradle-snatcher'. You're not long out of your teens, and you've got a way to go before you hit the 'man' mark. Sorry, but I had to break it to you.
Author donvito Posted January 7, 2016 Author Posted January 7, 2016 Aren't you the guy desperately trying to get your gf back? Or has that idea lost appeal already? She was a bit older then me but what does this have to do with anything? I was just was curious about older women dating younger men, usually you see it reversed.
Robratory Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 I can't really answer your questions because I'm a guy, but don't worry about what people think. You can chase older women all the way into your own old age if you want to!
Buddhist Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 She was a bit older then me but what does this have to do with anything? I was just was curious about older women dating younger men, usually you see it reversed. Well, I'm not going to give the juice to someone with suspect motives. I have to protect the Holy Order Of Cougar. You're a child anyway, all your posts scream 10yrs old.
TheArtist Posted January 7, 2016 Posted January 7, 2016 Come on, back when I was 21 I thought that slightly older women were attractive too, but as I hit my 30s I wanted someone my own age and I still want that. As others have said, I think it's down to sexual maturity that may be making you think this way. In the meantime, this might put it in perspective.
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