beuatylover9 Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 Earlier today, I hung out with my guy friend who I like and I told him that I slept with my ex boyfriend in the past and after I said that he told me that he just wants to be friends and not date. Did I ruin the chances of being more than friends with him by telling him that I slept with another guy before I met him? I wanted to be honest with him. It seemed like he got mad after I told him that. If I didn't tell him that, do you think that he would want to date me?
TunaCat Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 If you lost a chance with a guy just because you had sex with someone else, then he's not the one for you. Who cares that you slept with someone else. If he has an issue with that, then that's HIS problem. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 (edited) Hm, can you provide some context? How long ago did you sleep with the ex? Was it recently? I'm not clear if you mean you slept with him only while in the relationship, or if this is something that happened not so long ago. In other words, If this guy is angry you're not a virgin, forget about him. Everyone has a past. If he's angry because you recently slept with your ex whole seemingly building something with him, his pride is a little stung. Can you clarify which scenario is correct? Edited December 20, 2015 by ExpatInItaly
BonerFide Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 I'm with the commenters above, he has no right to be angry. If you slept with an ex while this guy were around, maybe he thought that you wouldn't be sleeping with anyone else and his pride is hurt/he feels almost cheated on even if you two weren't committed. If it was before that and he's just angry you slept with someone else before him, or that you made a dumb mistake, forget him because neither of those are reasons to be angry and that makes him an unforgiving jerk.
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