Should I forgo seeing this guy?

[polkadotspots]

So I'm currently seeing a guy that I'm starting to really like. We go on dates and hang out and stuff but we're not exclusive. He's admitted that he's nervous when it comes to commitment and isn't sure if he wants to exclusively date me just yet. He also admitted that before he started seeing me he dated a lot of women and that it was very casual and fun. Even though he's said mushy stuff like "you're so beautiful/special/etc" I'm starting to wonder if these are empty compliments and that his hesitation when it comes to commitment simply means he's not ready for a serious relationship. He's also said most of his relationships only last a few months because he loses interest in women fairly quickly.

 

So what do you think? Even though I really like this guy should I just ease up or completely cease seeing this guy to prevent future heartbreak or just give him some time?

[GemmaUK]

Option A, walk away if you want something serious.

 

He has told you all you need to know.

[David87]

Walk away, he doesnt want to commit.

[LilaMarie]

"Setting Standards and Respecting Your Worth: Abundance MentalityAbundance mentality is the belief that you have plenty of opportunities in your life. More so, that you are worthy of those opportunities. You are in the position of choice.

This is not something most people are born with but rather cultivated. It begins with how you respect and value yourself.

Repeat after me: “I am worthy of…”

• Having my time respected.
  
• Having my needs met.
  
• Being treated fairly.
  
• Connecting with people who improve the quality of my life.
  
• Meeting women (men in this case) who are willing to invest back in me."
  

Why You Should Learn to Walk Away

[Buddhist]

He's setting you up to be just another woman he loses interest in quickly. Men don't lie about who they are usually. They are often ridiculously honest in that regard, it's all so they can point the finger at you when they do exactly what they told you they would. If they are telling you they're a player, believe them.