i am getting really upset and i need to meet women

[thelonewolflegend]

Being situation I am in and I am trying to meet women i am not getting anywhere. I had party last night for birthday and I was trying to get women to come to meet or hangout and only my friends gfs came and a ladyfriend i am not dating thats it. Mostly my guy friends they all wouldnt come ignore me blow off or couldnt make the drive and its getting to me depressing me please help.

 

Thanks

 

my mom telling my dad to get me a woman and my dad says i have to do it myself i cant go anywhere get anywhere meet women please help

[thelonewolflegend]

i tried to kiss her twice and rejected. me i told everyone to bring women no one will and i want to meet women not having any luck.

[doeblin]

Calm down, man.

 

You made like 10 threads in the last 2 weeks.

I can feel your anguish through the web, so you probably give women the "desperate to get laid"-vibe, which is a huuuge turnoff.

 

So first off, chill. OK?

 

Secondly, work on your confidence. Fake it til you make it! It really works.

 

Third, pursuit your passions, take up new hobbies etc. Being your own man with your own interests and passions is what will make you attractive.

 

Fourth, just talk to people. Just chat with some stranger. Talk to strange women. Approach them.

One good tip I've heard, is to imagine what your ideal woman does throughout the day. What would she do? Is she at the bookstore? Or does she visit jazz concerts? Go there.

[thelonewolflegend]

Ive tried to.kiss her been rejected. Give examples i do follow what i can which aint much right npw. I do talk to women but im.not getting anywhere just talking when inask them.out inkeep gettinf ifnores1 pr blown off

[doeblin]

My main point was that you probably give off a bad vibe.

 

It's great that you're approaching girls, but if you give off a creepy or needy or awkward vibe you will get rejected.

 

So work on yourself.

Stop worrying about women.

Be cool.

[thelonewolflegend]

I dont understand how do u give creepy vibes online?

[Ebelskiver]

I don't know if English is a second language for you, but if it isn't, being barely able to communicate is a big turn off as well. Punctuation, capitalization, complete sentences.....these are signs of an intelligent mind, something most women are looking for.

 

I agree with the previous poster....you sound desperate, and bit entitled as well. NO woman owes you her time, attention, or physical affection. PERIOD. No matter how much you think you deserve it.

 

I believe a caring, long term relationship with a sex worker would do you a world of good. It would take the edge off your desperation. Give you confidence and space to RELAX. A number of my past partners have been with sex workers and I've never thought less of them for it.

 

As a woman, I have to admit that your desperation is creepy. I wouldn't come near you. I'd be afraid you would be awkward, clingy, and potentially violent. I suspect the women you are coming in contact are feeling similar things.

 

Start working out, improve your mind, develop hobbies. Build a true reservoir of confidence that will shine through. And find a good sex worker. I think it could change your life. A good one can advice you on how to be a better partner.

[kolleamm]

Bro relax, not having a woman isn't the end of the world. It's something that takes time.

 

Take your time, there's no rush.

[FitChick]

Have your testosterone levels tested. Perhaps they are too high so your sex drive is making you crazy. Do you have acne and very oily skin? How old are you?

[thelonewolflegend]

I am not a virgin. I was in 2 long relationships. I am not giving off a desperate vibe when i chat with women I send them a message then i ask them questions and get them to try to hangout what else do you do? I do know how to speak english and use punctuation, only when I am on my phone I have issues. I have taken time I am 27!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to have parties with women!!!!!!!!!!!! I said I want women women women ebhebthebthbehbte I will not carry a purse I will NOT date a mens I will only love a women. I dont have any of those and my testosterone is getting up there since I started working out few weeks ago. Please help find me a women my mom told my dad to get me one and he said I have to do it myself I need a nice young girl my mom said get a mail order one. I would appreciate all your guys help because its angering me inside.

[d0nnivain]

The majority of your recent posts scream that you want to have sex & that you are desperate. Both are unattractive traits. You need to back off.

 

 

I suspect that on line you move too fast. You can't go straight from I saw your picture to let's meet. There are steps in between.

 

 

I'm concerned that none of your friends brought women to your party. That tells me that even your buddies are unwilling to expose new single women to you right now because you are giving off a "bad" vibe. You need to calm down.

 

 

My suggestion: swear off women for at least the rest of the year. Stop trying. Work on liking yourself & developing your interests In January, re start your search from a calmer, more grounded place.

[Ebelskiver]

If you can't see how creepy and scary your posts have been then I have little hope that you will take any of the advice that has been given you. You reek of desperation, and women can smell that from miles away. It is VERY unattractive. Also, women are not something you are owed.

 

I can imagine how your conversations online go with women. Inappropriate questions (too personal, moving too quickly, thinly veiled anger at perceived rejections) which quickly lead to requests (demands?) to meet in person. No woman owes you her time and if you get blown off you should just chalk it up to disinterest on her part. If you find all women are blowing you off, which seems to be the case, then the problem isn't them. It's you. How can YOU change to seem less scary, less desperate.

 

Do you have copies of any of these online conversations? If you upload them (names removed of course) I'm sure we could help you see more specifically where you are going wrong.

[Rejected Rosebud]

Just for some perspective I am a 24 year old woman and I got a bad feeling when reading your posts, I think you almost sound dangerous to a woman, where are you from where you mom tells your dad to "get you a woman"? That sounds kind of odd!

[FitChick]

There are plenty of women in the country illegally who would marry you, especially if you knocked them up so they could have an anchor baby and then dump you. Marry them but don't let them get pregnant.

[thelonewolflegend]

i am from missouri heres an example of a girl who keeps saying shes busy after i got her number mind u i only asked twice once two weeks ago and last night so I AM NOT BEING DESPERASTE or creepy shse making0 sense.

 

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:12:01 PM

Hey how are you. Thats pretty cool how do you like teaching?

 

drjstl8511/10/2014 9:14:24 PM

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I'm great...I love teaching. Thanks for asking

 

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:16:01 PM

Your welcome. What type of movies are you into?

 

drjstl8511/10/2014 9:19:05 PM

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Um anything really... I just dont like blood and gore....no horror movies. What about you?

 

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:21:51 PM

I can understand that lol. Comedy, action, some chick flicks. Documentaries, suspense. Anything that catches my eye. What else do you like to do for fun?

 

drjstl8511/10/2014 9:22:50 PM

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Um whatever in pretty open to whatever as long as its fun. I like to try new things

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:25:29 PM

Oh ok thats cool. What part of the saint louis area do you stay in?

 

drjstl8511/10/2014 9:25:59 PM

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I live in Affton. .. What about you?

 

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:28:36 PM

I live in north co in the Florissant area. Would you like to come out by me and have a drink together tomorrow night?

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:33:07 PM

Where im at is really nice its in barrington downs horse subdivisions.

 

drjstl8511/10/2014 9:33:51 PM

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I have dance on tuesday and class on wednesday nights

 

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:35:15 PM

Oh ok thats cool what type of dancing do you do?

 

theclassiclegend11/10/2014 9:42:18 PM

I'm logging out. I enjoyed chatting with you and look forward to meeting sometime. My name is Paul by the way. Lets exchange #s and next week we can get together.

 

drjstl8511/10/2014 9:43:29 PM

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Sure my #is ______________

[somecamel]

Please help find me a women my mom told my dad to get me one and he said I have to do it myself I need a nice young girl my mom said get a mail order one. I would appreciate all your guys help because its angering me inside.

 

Seriously Dude WTF!

 

You say you're 27 and your mum has told your dad to get you a woman?

 

Are we talking a prostitute here?

 

Not sure what country you're from, your English isn't great but is legible. Are the girls you're trying to contact from an English speaking country?

[thelonewolflegend]

yes all online from stl

[Phoe]

I am not a virgin. I was in 2 long relationships. I am not giving off a desperate vibe when i chat with women I send them a message then i ask them questions and get them to try to hangout what else do you do? I do know how to speak english and use punctuation, only when I am on my phone I have issues. I have taken time I am 27!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I want to have parties with women!!!!!!!!!!!! I said I want women women women ebhebthebthbehbte I will not carry a purse I will NOT date a mens I will only love a women. I dont have any of those and my testosterone is getting up there since I started working out few weeks ago. Please help find me a women my mom told my dad to get me one and he said I have to do it myself I need a nice young girl my mom said get a mail order one. I would appreciate all your guys help because its angering me inside.

 

This entire post gives off a very creepy and scary vibe.

[thelonewolflegend]

ok i dont post that to women online i am trying to talk to

[thelonewolflegend]

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[Omei]

This entire post gives off a very creepy and scary vibe.

 

Agree, im pretty creeped out by his begging, and the mom and dad bit very unattractive.

[elaine567]

I am not giving off a desperate vibe when i chat with women

 

Well, you sure sound desperate on here.

 

[Chemist]

along the lines of some of the others, you seem angry and desperate. This will get you rejected faster than a midget in a theme park.

[thelonewolflegend]

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0CCAQFjAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.pof.com%2Fviewprofile.aspx%3Fprofile_id%3D70937092&ei=U-R8VOKJDtG1sQTny4CYCg&usg=AFQjCNE_JqbQJZK7tu2QsZWs4WdYirMZ-A&bvm=bv.80642063,d.cWc

 

this is my dating profile dating has gotten extremely more difficult i learned after breaking up with my last gf a year ago and its messing me up bad.

[Phoe]

The profile doesn't actually say anything about you. It's just random stuff. I read it and learned nothing. What good does that do?