zachsack Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 So on Veterans day. I texted this girl (through DM on Instagram) suggesting that we hang out since there was no school. She agreed without mentioning someone else. To top that off, she agreed with a YES!!! And "Im alone and bored." Since she was also a neighbor, I suggested that I could go and pick her up and she said yes. For there, I gave her my number and she texted me... When we met up, she said that she was actually waiting for a friend (She told me by text too.) and I could wait if I wanted. But, I did not wait in her house since we weren't that close I decided to leave and she said she'll call me later when her friend arrived. Hours passed without her calling. The next day, I saw her friend (that was coming over) and she told me she never came over because she couldn't, though her friend (the girl I asked to hang out with) asked her to, and told her that I was there. This got me stumped...is she really interested in me? And should I attempt to ask to hang out again sometime soon? P.S. When I was texting her through Instgram, before I ever suggested hanging out, the VERY first thing she texted back was "where r u?!?" -I did not send her anything except a greeting. Does that mean anything? (We are actually close neighbors, but I didn't recall sending her anything related to our neighborhood or where we live. Nothing to do with houses or anything type of "living" related text.) And we joked around sometimes about "stalking" each other, so I replied "Wtf. (Emoji) im outside your house. Does her reply of "where r u?!?" mean anything.
Assasda Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Who cares man. You asked her, she was awkward. Get with a chick that knows how to communicate, and has he own mind. Ask out some other girl 1
Mangina Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 This has happened to me a lot too. I don't think she's interested enough.
Author zachsack Posted November 14, 2014 Author Posted November 14, 2014 It's the way she acted. I don't know.
PegNosePete Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 If she was interested then she would have acted like she was interested. Actions > words
d0nnivain Posted November 14, 2014 Posted November 14, 2014 Based on what you said in your thread (no school); the mediums you used for contact (Instagram & text) plus the "word" choices, you guys are young & perhaps socially immature. (That is not a crack against you; everybody was young once). She was interested enough. She may not have understood you liked her romantically because you only asked her to "hang out" which could mean anything: friendship. a hook up, a date etc. Don't give up just yet but do clarify your position by calling her using the voice feature of your phone & asking her to join you at a specific place & time: do you want to grab a coffee or go to a party or catch a movie with me on Friday at 7 pm?
Author zachsack Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 Thanks. And you language is very motivating. "Mediums for contact."
Author zachsack Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 She did use body language, she kind of tilts her body a certain way.
Author zachsack Posted November 15, 2014 Author Posted November 15, 2014 Also did her "Where r u?!?" response mean anything? I found that strange...
mrgoodcat Posted November 15, 2014 Posted November 15, 2014 Also did her "Where r u?!?" response mean anything? I found that strange... You must be in your teens. No, it doesn't mean jack. No single woman/girl/guy text is that important to analyze unless you already have a relationship with them. 1
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