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I realized that my other post on the same topic was way too long, so here I want to put it in a nutshell.

 

Let consider a group of students and a girl named Linda who

1) is bright, witty and love to discuss about many topics

2) often wears sexy (but NOT slutty) dresses such as miniskirts or nice cleavages, narrow trousers with free belly, and so on and so forth.

 

Her (woman respecting) male counterparts will have at first two thoughts:

 

a) I'd like to discuss with Lina about this or that, she certainly must have an interesting opinion on this topic...

b) I'd like to passionately sleep with Linda as soon as possible

 

which in turn very often leads to

 

c) I want Linda to become my girlfriend.

 

 

I refer to my long post for many examples of how it plays out.

 

 

It is my contention that a boy could not resort to the same strategy with a success coming remotely close to that of a girl such Linda.

 

 

Do you agree or not?

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Let consider a group of students and a guy named Larry who

1) is bright, witty and love to discuss about many topics

2) often wears well-fitted, tasteful clothing that compliments his physique

 

His (male respecting) women counterparts will have at first two thoughts:

 

a) I'd like to discuss with Larry about this or that, he certainly must have an interesting opinion on this topic...

b) I'd like to passionately sleep with Larry as soon as possible

 

which in turn very often leads to

 

c) I want Larry to become my boyfriend.

 

See what I did thar?

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I certainly welcome disagreements.

 

Actually, a part of me hopes to be wrong because if I'm right, this natural inequality would be kind of depressing, wouldn't it? :p

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Potz4prez: Hi. According to my experience, most women would only feel a) and in a very weak way b), even if the guy is handsome.

 

 

But I'm speaking about statistics, I do personally know some women who would feel b) and c) as well. :laugh:

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See what I did thar?

 

Nooooo

I was going to say that I like walking around the house wearing narrow pants and with "free belly"

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Nooooo

I was going to say that I like walking around the house wearing narrow pants and with "free belly"

 

My yoga pants usually get a girl's attention -.-

 

 

Odd note: Girls are particularly attracted to my legs.

 

Ladies: Do you ever appreciate a guy's legs? (this is actually slightly relevant to OP's OP, ha)

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The only way to really test it is to walk around with nice cleavages and a free belly, and see what reactions you get. Only that way can you gauge potential inequality.

 

What if the nice cleavages and free belly does not flatter the one flaunting them? Is it still supposed to be easy?

 

And what if a person is NOT bright, witty, or love to discuss about many topics. How is it supposed to be easy for them, even if they are a girl?

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In any case, I definitely would like to passionately sleep with Larry.

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See what I did thar?

 

Me gusta.

 

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I'm interested in dating more and ultimately finding a potential lover, but I really am not the type to wear revealing clothes. Also I am more the quiet and studious type; I don't party. So I hope that there are other ways for a girl!

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In any case, I definitely would like to passionately sleep with Larry.

 

Larry was a horrible name for this example haha

 

Me gusta.

 

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Por nada ;)

 

I'm interested in dating more and ultimately finding a potential lover, but I really am not the type to wear revealing clothes. Also I am more the quiet and studious type; I don't party. So I hope that there are other ways for a girl!

 

Hell yeah there is. Depends on your age bracket. The consensus around my grad department is that most the guys don't want to date a party girl. We're looking for more substance.

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I certainly welcome disagreements.

 

Actually, a part of me hopes to be wrong because if I'm right, this natural inequality would be kind of depressing, wouldn't it? :p

 

Basically it comes down to attractive, well dressed, intelligent people get more dates and suitors than others. It has been this way for hundreds of years and is not going to change.

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Ladies: Do you ever appreciate a guy's legs? (this is actually slightly relevant to OP's OP, ha)

 

A well-dressed, intelligent, guy with good legs is A+ in my book. ;)

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