The morning after

[mortensorchid]

A few weeks ago my friend in Michigan sent me an app for Tinder (maybe some of you have heard of or used it) as he was using it. A week or so ago I decided to try it to see what it's about. I connected with a few, and one actually followed up. Last night we met face to face and we really hit it off at a coffee shop. He asked me to dinner that same night and I said no as I had already eaten a little something before. He texted me when I got home and said he wanted to see me again. I'm happy, no doubt about that.

 

Should I text him a "hi how are you today?" or wait for further contact? Is the ball in my court?

[Philosoraptor]

What do you want to do? If you want to communicate, then send him a message. If you don't want to talk to him, then don't send anything.

 

Stop overthinking and do what comes natural, it's the best way to weed out bad fits and naturally attract good matches.

[CarrieT]

Sounds like the ball is in your court. Just opening it a little bit would be okay.

 

But Philosoraptor said - don't over think it.

[Ruby Slippers]

I would reply to the text and tell him I had fun and would like to see him again, too. Then I'd let him extend the invitation. He should call soon and ask you out again. Good luck!

[mortensorchid]

I followed the advice, I sent him a "good afternoon" text because the ball was in my court, after all. We've been texting all day off and on. Hopefully it will all be ok in the long run (if there is one).

[Assasda]

If you feel comfortable you should ask him to go hang out somewhere.

 

As a guy, I personally hate texting. maybe he's different though. I know I'm pretty old school

[Eternal Sunshine]

Reply but don't ask him to hang out.