nyjfan983 Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I'm curious to see how many chances you give a chick for that first time hanging out. I was for the longest time a believer in one shot, can't make it good luck to her. Got a girls number and she was down for a date yesterday and she text me each day leading up to it except day before. I text just asking how her day was going with no response. Text her yesterday asking if we were still on later. She responded saying she was baby sitting and would be getting off late and keep me posted. Kept saying she didn't wanna rush and I said I have house work to do so no rush. Ends up texting saying she's tired from babysitting but wants to reschedule and she's.very sorry. Usually would say "next time you should better plan your schedule.". Instead I agreed to reschedule and we are supposed to hang out mext Monday. Funny thing is on Tues she asked what I was doing later but was already in city and couldn't hang out. A lady interested will not cancel but I do understand stuff comes up. Gents, is two your max? Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 If the person has a really good reason, I'll give them a second chance. And that's it. And then they have to be the one to set things up with me. Link to post Share on other sites
therhythm Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I would always give a second chance... but just that second chance! Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I think it depends on the reason. If they just decided to make other plans then that tells you a lot. My fiancee dropped two shots at a second date, but had real reasons. We setup a third shot at that second date and haven't looked back since. Link to post Share on other sites
jrh1524 Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 One. If she's really interested she WILL be on time and not cancel. Otherwise she's leading you on. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 I've cancelled dates with guys I was interested in, so I give them the same chances I expect them to give me. Basically, until we actually get a chance to hang out and see if we do have anything in common and some attraction, I don't really care how long it takes us to find time for a date. My life is active enough that if we can't find a time in an decent amount of time, I will probably forget about them. Link to post Share on other sites
jrh1524 Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 (edited) I've cancelled dates with guys I was interested in, so I give them the same chances I expect them to give me. Basically, until we actually get a chance to hang out and see if we do have anything in common and some attraction, I don't really care how long it takes us to find time for a date. My life is active enough that if we can't find a time in an decent amount of time, I will probably forget about them. You canceled dates the day of with guys you were INTERESTED in? I don't believe you. Edited July 12, 2013 by jrh1524 Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 You canceled dates the day of with guys you were INTERESTED in? I don't believe you. Things happen, and some reasons are more legit than others. Canceling because you want a friend asked you out to dinner instead is much different than canceling because your sister is giving birth. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 You canceled dates the day of with guys you were INTERESTED in? I don't believe you. Yes. Once I had a really rough day at work and was feeling really tired. I felt like I wouldn't be good company and it wouldn't be fair to me or my date. We rescheduled and ended up in a relationship for three years. Link to post Share on other sites
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