Is it even worth it?

[napy666]

Me and this guy both 25 years old have been talking for almost 2 weeks, web both really like each other, talked on the phone, on skype, through text, etc.

 

Only problems are these, I live in California and he lives in Pennsylvania. We both of us don't work, drive, or live on our own, we live at home.

 

He can't work due to back problems and other mental issues but is trying to get Social Security back into his life.

 

I on the other hand do suffer from depression and anxiety so its hard for me to cope with certain things like yeah I could probably have him move in and live with my and my parents, but I would feel really uncomfortable doing that due to my anxiety/depression. I have never had a live in boyfriend, let alone lived with a boyfriend. I have always lived at home with both my parents, as an only child.

 

Him and I think even though we don't have nothing going for us and live far away we can make it work as far as dating goes.

 

What do you think we should do?

[Yookie]

Woah you only been talking 2 weeks! Slow down there. You should NOT be considering having him move in with you.

 

One step at a time. First get to know him better... Take care of your issues and let him take care of his. You both need to be well mentally before you can have any hope of having a successful relationship together.

[snowflakes88]

I think you should spend less time dating and more time trying to find a job / getting your life together.

[apple OR orange]

well that was a bad idea, finding someone online so far you will never meet, put yourself in that boat, off you go and row.

[napy666]

We;re not going to rush things and we are looking for work and everything too.

[napy666]

I am getting help alright I'm doing great with my issues.

[MoreThanThat]

Online for 2 weeks is NOTHING like meeting in person. You're jumping ahead.

[soccerrprp]

WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

 

NO.

 

Did you REALLY think this through?

 

NO.